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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That awkward feeling when in a club and seeing some one attractive and bitting the bullet to approach a single or a couple... The butterfly's and the increase in adrenaline.. Do you always go for what you want or do you some times back off and miss out?
Do couples like to be approached or do the approaching?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I want to approach someone in a club, it feels like a long process as it's hard to tell if a a man is in a couple or not. So normally observe a while and see if any form of contact is made with me (eye contact/smile); may even ask staff if they know situation too. Then when I feel comfortable approach them, but by then they're probably in a room with someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahah you and me are very alike then... even if some one makes eye contact with me Iam that guy that looks over my shoulder to see if there looking at some one else... the ice breaker as they call it is the killer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hahah you and me are very alike then... even if some one makes eye contact with me Iam that guy that looks over my shoulder to see if there looking at some one else... the ice breaker as they call it is the killer x"
oh yes so many times you smile at someone, thinking they're smiling at you, but it's the person behind you... then act like I didn't do anything lol Guess just stand against the wall that way there's no one behind you for them to smile at x |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"That awkward feeling when in a club and seeing some one attractive and bitting the bullet to approach a single or a couple... The butterfly's and the increase in adrenaline.. Do you always go for what you want or do you some times back off and miss out?
Do couples like to be approached or do the approaching?
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I am crap at approaching people in clubs which is why I only really go to them for prearranged meets...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't feel awkward in approaching anyone .
Nothing ventured and all that .....
We stopped going to clubs last year when it became too much like people only went to socialise though . |
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We have discovered it is easier to approach people before you go to a club. That way we know that someone we are already attracted to will be there. When we're at clubs we sometimes approach people and sometimes get approached - by couples and single guys. It was daunting at first, but it has got easier.
We try to be open at clubs and smile and make eye contact with people. You never really know until you have talked to someone what you really think!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have discovered it is easier to approach people before you go to a club. That way we know that someone we are already attracted to will be there. When we're at clubs we sometimes approach people and sometimes get approached - by couples and single guys. It was daunting at first, but it has got easier.
We try to be open at clubs and smile and make eye contact with people. You never really know until you have talked to someone what you really think! "
I agree I like to make a connection with some one and hopefully chat more at a club and go from there as its almost the ice breaker done xx and at least you know there's mutual attraction rather than going in blind x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!! "
Oops not look and stare...look and smile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!!
Oops not look and stare...look and smile "
haha well corrected xx I don't think I've been approached like that yet in a club xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!!
Oops not look and stare...look and smile
haha well corrected xx I don't think I've been approached like that yet in a club xx"
What the look and stare approach or a woman being direct and coming on to you!lol
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"I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!!
Oops not look and stare...look and smile
haha well corrected xx I don't think I've been approached like that yet in a club xx
What the look and stare approach or a woman being direct and coming on to you!lol
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Lol the direct approach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ( female ) either just go and talk to a man that I think is attractive or do the look and stare to see what reaction I get.
Will say if i saw you in a club it would definitely be straight up to talk to you!!
Oops not look and stare...look and smile
haha well corrected xx I don't think I've been approached like that yet in a club xx
What the look and stare approach or a woman being direct and coming on to you!lol
Lol the direct approach x"
Well if we are at the same club one day you can tell me if you like it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We find this really difficult too. Especially with couples. So many times afterwards we wish we had just approached a couple!
With guys I worry if I smile at them they will think its game on lol!
If I see a guy I like I tend to smile and give them my 'naughty eyes' look lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We find this really difficult too. Especially with couples. So many times afterwards we wish we had just approached a couple!
With guys I worry if I smile at them they will think its game on lol!
If I see a guy I like I tend to smile and give them my 'naughty eyes' look lol! "
every one is in the same boat they need to do a traffic light event where you go in with stickers on and your name but you also have smaller stickers and if you'd like to play its green like to chat Amber then if your shy red hahaha |
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