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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how it works , whether divorced or single , if you don't have a life partner how do you really manage sexually ?
It sounds funny but I cannot picture myself using a condom for the rest of my life let alone all I do is fuck strangers. Surely you need a partner you fuck bareback , or is it just me ?
FYI , I am married so this doesn't affect me . |
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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago
Mitcham, Surrey |
"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!
Agreed, but is it feasible to go for like 10 years without bareback ?"
Well I've been wearing a seat belt for over 20 years! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also...strangers are only people I haven't met yet, then they become my lovers. It might not be for life but it works for me!
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Oh , yea , I guess you are right ,the only difference is you would have met them on a sex site which changes the whole equation .
I would not go bare on people on here , it's just my preference , not being judgemental or anything . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!"
So I should start wearing condoms with my girlfriend because I'll die otherwise? I don't think the OP means with strangers I think he mean getting into a relationship. |
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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago
Mitcham, Surrey |
"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!
So I should start wearing condoms with my girlfriend because I'll die otherwise? I don't think the OP means with strangers I think he mean getting into a relationship. "
The OPs post states 'let alone fucking strangers for the rest of my life'
My point is that just because we don't have life partners doesn't mean that all we do is fuck strangers. However, as this is my lifestyle of choice I accept that I'm only in control of who and how I sleep with someone. For me it's with condoms. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!
So I should start wearing condoms with my girlfriend because I'll die otherwise? I don't think the OP means with strangers I think he mean getting into a relationship.
The OPs post states 'let alone fucking strangers for the rest of my life'
My point is that just because we don't have life partners doesn't mean that all we do is fuck strangers. However, as this is my lifestyle of choice I accept that I'm only in control of who and how I sleep with someone. For me it's with condoms."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!
So I should start wearing condoms with my girlfriend because I'll die otherwise? I don't think the OP means with strangers I think he mean getting into a relationship.
The OPs post states 'let alone fucking strangers for the rest of my life'
My point is that just because we don't have life partners doesn't mean that all we do is fuck strangers. However, as this is my lifestyle of choice I accept that I'm only in control of who and how I sleep with someone. For me it's with condoms."
What he wrote was:-
It sounds funny but I cannot picture myself using a condom for the rest of my life let alone all I do is fuck strangers. Surely you need a partner you fuck bareback , or is it just me ?
He didn't exactly say fucking strangers bareback did he?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of people with life partners don't get what they want sexually coz they settled.
Best bit about being single is not settling, and being able to be open and honest with yourself, and still having the option to go look for what you want.
There's loads of people out there to meet, experiment with until you find the right ones. Patience is all you need and to be clear on what you want and don't want. Many of many meets i don't even fuck now but do other stuff with them.
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I don't generally entertain any bloke who won't put something on it and my fab partner never does it, except with his wife. To break the habit would blow our delicious arrangement in the air. So, buy nice thin condoms. I find I enjoy sex more with condoms anyway, but I buy Skyns, some of which you don't know are there. Only if you're exclusive proven uninflected partners should you even go there, IMO.
There's something really horny about having somebody's husband shoot his load inside though.
Before you panic and get on your soapboxes: that remains a dream and I use belt and buckles anyway. |
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"Well if we don't use condoms....the 'rest of our life' might be rather short!
Agreed, but is it feasible to go for like 10 years without bareback ?"
I have gone my whole life without going bareback, not even once. Therefore another 10 years hardly bothers me. I doubt I will ever do it without a condom no matter how long I'm sexually active for. 10 years is nothing haha |
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"Also...strangers are only people I haven't met yet, then they become my lovers. It might not be for life but it works for me!
Oh , yea , I guess you are right ,the only difference is you would have met them on a sex site which changes the whole equation .
I would not go bare on people on here , it's just my preference , not being judgemental or anything ."
You really need to take a step back and think about your last paragraph. It's highly offensive, ignorant and dangerous.
You ARE a 'people on here'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also...strangers are only people I haven't met yet, then they become my lovers. It might not be for life but it works for me!
Oh , yea , I guess you are right ,the only difference is you would have met them on a sex site which changes the whole equation .
I would not go bare on people on here , it's just my preference , not being judgemental or anything .
You really need to take a step back and think about your last paragraph. It's highly offensive, ignorant and dangerous.
You ARE a 'people on here'. "
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"I would rather use a condom for the rest of my life than find a partner
Suppose it depends on what your after
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^^^^^ I don't want a life partner at the moment but I do have 2 children who need me & I have respect for my body.
Condoms are non-negotiable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh , yea , I guess you are right ,the only difference is you would have met them on a sex site which changes the whole equation .
I would not go bare on people on here , it's just my preference , not being judgemental or anything .
You really need to take a step back and think about your last paragraph. It's highly offensive, ignorant and dangerous.
You ARE a 'people on here'. "
I am here and I don't expect anyone to want to do bare with me , so I don't really see the offence , or am I missing something ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also....
Oh , yea , I guess you are right ,the only difference is you would have met them on a sex site which changes the whole equation .
I would not go bare on people on here , it's just my preference , not being judgemental or anything .
You really need to take a step back and think about your last paragraph. It's highly offensive, ignorant and dangerous.
You ARE a 'people on here'. "
Fact of the matter is we are birds of a feather so I am included in this ,no offence to anyone |
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