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Anal VS Vaginal - Which is better for the ladies?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do women prefer?
Its usually a question of both or just vaginal...I've yet to encounter a woman who only enjoys it up the arse..."
There are times I do , but I rarely do anal on meets  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"What do women prefer?
Its usually a question of both or just vaginal...I've yet to encounter a woman who only enjoys it up the arse...
There are times I do , but I rarely do anal on meets "
Damn....maybe I could be the exception  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do women prefer?
Its usually a question of both or just vaginal...I've yet to encounter a woman who only enjoys it up the arse..."
I've had a couple of just anal meets.
But do enjoy both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy both equally - but tend to find that my mood switches between the two, so some days I like the one, other days I just want the other....
... but always quality before quantity, and good offers are rare, so it's usually a matter of accepting what's on offer!
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Trust me nothing better than juicy and peachy ass. Rimmed then slowly slide in with ease.I can fuck ass all year round lol. I think trust is the key word. You need to earn the trust from the woman. Some guys don't know how to do anal in a proper way. In fact ve penchant for A' sex.
Being corrupt by my ex Greek woman hehehe. Bless her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do women prefer?
Its usually a question of both or just vaginal...I've yet to encounter a woman who only enjoys it up the arse..."
I met a woman couple years back who insisted on anal sex, vaginal too but 90% of the time she wanted it up her arse!...... I miss her haha |
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"Vaginal only.
Working in gynae is enough to put you off anal sex for life."
lol isn't it the other way round if you work in Gynae?
That's why all the "straight" guys on here want TV/S because they want anal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure most women are put off anal. Due to bad experiences. So many guys think they can just ram it up a woman's ass. You have to take time. Lots of lube too!
Claire
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"aint in2 Anal
With correct, ahem, preparation it's awesome!
Hot damn..get preparing men of the world...with an arse like yours, the mere idea of anal makes me dizzy   "
Lol. Why thank you kind Sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pretty sure most women are put off anal. Due to bad experiences. So many guys think they can just ram it up a woman's ass. You have to take time. Lots of lube too!
Claire
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Oh yes, gently does it. Some don't like the thought of it( for obvious reasons) but that particular reason has never been an issue with me lol.
Like I said, correct preparation |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty sure most women are put off anal. Due to bad experiences. So many guys think they can just ram it up a woman's ass. You have to take time. Lots of lube too!
Claire
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Oh yes, gently does it. Some don't like the thought of it( for obvious reasons) but that particular reason has never been an issue with me lol.
Like I said, correct preparation "
Correct preparation or you'll end up needing Preparation H  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pretty sure most women are put off anal. Due to bad experiences. So many guys think they can just ram it up a woman's ass. You have to take time. Lots of lube too!
Claire
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Oh yes, gently does it. Some don't like the thought of it( for obvious reasons) but that particular reason has never been an issue with me lol.
Like I said, correct preparation
Correct preparation or you'll end up needing Preparation H "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Vaginal only.
Working in gynae is enough to put you off anal sex for life.
lol isn't it the other way round if you work in Gynae?
That's why all the "straight" guys on here want TV/S because they want anal."
I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women.
But thanks for this delightful comment, born of misogynistic ignorance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women.
But thanks for this delightful comment, born of misogynistic ignorance.
Surely it can do the same horrific things to men....??"
It certainly can. But working in gynae meant seeing a great many ladies.
I'm sure you understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like how some on here telling us us women can't like anal!
I love it and yes prefer it over vaginal!"
People can like whatever they want.
It's just not my thing. |
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"I like how some on here telling us us women can't like anal!
I love it and yes prefer it over vaginal!
People can like whatever they want.
It's just not my thing."
Exactly, we all like different things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women."
Is that from repeated use or can whatever happens happen with rare usage? Like once a year. Genuinely intrigued. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women.
But thanks for this delightful comment, born of misogynistic ignorance.
Surely it can do the same horrific things to men....??
It certainly can. But working in gynae meant seeing a great many ladies.
I'm sure you understand."
I do indeed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women.
Is that from repeated use or can whatever happens happen with rare usage? Like once a year. Genuinely intrigued."
As many people have said, preparation is everything. The human body is an amazing thing and can become used to all sorts.
But the anus and rectum are fragile pieces of specialised equipment. Any wrong moves will be agonisingly painful and if ill-prepared can be damaging. Like everything, if this damage is repeated or sustained length of time, there can be truly horrible lifelong effects.
People here are very well-informed, I'm sure, and always do the right thing with their partners. But an astonishing amount of men and women believe that anal sex is a normal part of sex that they're required to do in order to have a satisfactory sex life.
Where's Granny Crumpet when you need her, to say, 'I blame porn'? |
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I have found most guys just assume Katie is already lubed and able to go from 0-100mph in a split second, for the record I'm not and I can't, lube please and be gentle ....... I often think if that's what the guy does to Katie he must do the same to his wife ....... Or maybe not cos she won't let him and that's why yet another married man wants a tv, and OMG some of the BIG ones, their wives must struggle to accom in their Pussy let alone their ass so no wonder she won't let him do anal and he looks elsewhere , by the end Katie's thinking "fucking hurry up and cum" and then why do they want to get every last millimeter of cock inside when they are having their orgasm, it hurts enough with the usual thrusting let alone at the end when they try and force it out of your throat via your pussy, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen the horrific things anal sex can do to women.
Is that from repeated use or can whatever happens happen with rare usage? Like once a year. Genuinely intrigued.
As many people have said, preparation is everything. The human body is an amazing thing and can become used to all sorts.
But the anus and rectum are fragile pieces of specialised equipment. Any wrong moves will be agonisingly painful and if ill-prepared can be damaging. Like everything, if this damage is repeated or sustained length of time, there can be truly horrible lifelong effects.
People here are very well-informed, I'm sure, and always do the right thing with their partners. But an astonishing amount of men and women believe that anal sex is a normal part of sex that they're required to do in order to have a satisfactory sex life.
Where's Granny Crumpet when you need her, to say, 'I blame porn'?"
Sounds like it's mostly damaging with repeat play then? Lots of lube, go slow, only on special occasions?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me "
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it. "
Into what giving or receiving? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving? "
Receiving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving."
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me "
Thought I wanted to fuck your arse, but I've changed my mind now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving.
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here "
I'm a fella. You'll have to excuse the avatar, hot or not cock thread has just popped up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not a woman but I can just answer as well right ?
Well I would love to do anal with a lady one day coz I have yet to experience it , I am still a bit nervous about it , don't know why . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving.
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here
I'm a fella. You'll have to excuse the avatar, hot or not cock thread has just popped up!"
I know your a fella
I ment who you been offered anal from a man or a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think you need to work in gynae' to understand that poor preparation, lack of care and tenderness is a recipe for trouble. The 2 biggest factors are lube and patience, it's hardly rocket science or gynaecology if you prefer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving.
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here
I'm a fella. You'll have to excuse the avatar, hot or not cock thread has just popped up!
I know your a fella
I ment who you been offered anal from a man or a woman "
Ah, silly me! A girl, she's bought a strap on for the occasion and is taking great delight in teasing me about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me "
Seems fair to me.
As long as it's not a huge strap-on and you stroke my hair afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving.
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here
I'm a fella. You'll have to excuse the avatar, hot or not cock thread has just popped up!
I know your a fella
I ment who you been offered anal from a man or a woman
Ah, silly me! A girl, she's bought a strap on for the occasion and is taking great delight in teasing me about it. "
Well that just shattered my fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
The reason I'm asking is because I've been roped into it.
Into what giving or receiving?
Receiving.
Man or woman?
Sorry that's not really relevant I'm just getting a bit turned on here
I'm a fella. You'll have to excuse the avatar, hot or not cock thread has just popped up!
I know your a fella
I ment who you been offered anal from a man or a woman
Ah, silly me! A girl, she's bought a strap on for the occasion and is taking great delight in teasing me about it.
Well that just shattered my fantasy "
Ha! Sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
Seems fair to me.
As long as it's not a huge strap-on and you stroke my hair afterwards. "
I'll even lick your butt after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal play can be very sensual for both male and female, it's like everything else, we're conditioned a certain way and once you've broken those boundaries it's wonderful, all the same, never lose sight of the fact that patience, tenderness and lube are always essential xxx |
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
Seems fair to me.
As long as it's not a huge strap-on and you stroke my hair afterwards.
I'll even lick your butt after "
Can I watch in the hope you let me join in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
Seems fair to me.
As long as it's not a huge strap-on and you stroke my hair afterwards.
I'll even lick your butt after "
Hot damn!
Just felt my heartbeat speed up.
That would be mind-blowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anal play can be very sensual for both male and female, it's like everything else, we're conditioned a certain way and once you've broken those boundaries it's wonderful, all the same, never lose sight of the fact that patience, tenderness and lube are always essential xxx"
I've played with a fair few guys with strap ons I am always gentle, I know what it's like to have somebody cluelessly hammering away at your arse and I wouldn't do that to other
Always start with rimming and a finger to relax them and open them up a little, sometimes lube alone isnt enough
Anal can be very sensual and I like to give pleasure I have no interest in seeing 'what you can take' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My rule of anal is you only give if your receive, its amazing how many men don't want to fuck my arse if it means me fucking theirs
Seems only fair to me
Seems fair to me.
As long as it's not a huge strap-on and you stroke my hair afterwards.
I'll even lick your butt after
Can I watch in the hope you let me join in. "
I'm not having a proper tallywhacker up my poop chute!
Plus, it'll be my first time. I might cry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anal play can be very sensual for both male and female, it's like everything else, we're conditioned a certain way and once you've broken those boundaries it's wonderful, all the same, never lose sight of the fact that patience, tenderness and lube are always essential xxx
I've played with a fair few guys with strap ons I am always gentle, I know what it's like to have somebody cluelessly hammering away at your arse and I wouldn't do that to other
Always start with rimming and a finger to relax them and open them up a little, sometimes lube alone isnt enough
Anal can be very sensual and I like to give pleasure I have no interest in seeing 'what you can take'"
Spot on, when can we meet :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think you need to work in gynae' to understand that poor preparation, lack of care and tenderness is a recipe for trouble. The 2 biggest factors are lube and patience, it's hardly rocket science or gynaecology if you prefer."
I didn't say it was gynaecology. Merely that in my field, I've seen the fallout.
It's not rocket science. Yet thousands get it wrong.
If you know what you're doing, good for you. Enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Vaginal only.
Working in gynae is enough to put you off anal sex for life.
So what is gynae' short for if not gynaecology? Genuine question."
And "thousands get it wrong" really, have you got the stats?
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Merely that in my field, I've seen the fallout.
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Sorry, but that sounds so wrong "
Without going into detail, you're actually quite correct to construe that literally. |
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"I don't think you need to work in gynae' to understand that poor preparation, lack of care and tenderness is a recipe for trouble. The 2 biggest factors are lube and patience, it's hardly rocket science or gynaecology if you prefer.
I didn't say it was gynaecology. Merely that in my field, I've seen the fallout.
It's not rocket science. Yet thousands get it wrong.
If you know what you're doing, good for you. Enjoy."
'Seen the fallout' (
Sorry how childish am I |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anal sex is a normal part of sex that they're required to do"
What? Is it not possible that they might just enjoy it? It's not going to the dentist (apologies to dentists, I had a shitone when I was little)...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've probably met the wrong people all my life but anybody I've known has had a very clear 'no rear door' policy!
Maybe all the anal lovers are on Fab as a higher proportion of ladies seem to enjoy it on here than I've encountered in real life but to be honest its not something that particularly interests me anyway  |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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I like both, although vaginal comes out on top for me! I am very lucky my partner is amazing with anal, he really takes his time to get me ready! It is the one area that is exclusively for him! Totally trust him with my arse. |
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