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Who else finds Fab depressing at times?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are some who are simply gifted in getting exactly what they want, when they want.
So much so that they probably have enough interest to meet and fuck every night if they could.
Flipside of the coin, there are those who try as they may, they literally cannot score in a brothal lol  ...
Though I enjoy reading forums and comments on Fab, I must admit that I find it frustrating and slightly depressing at times too. Anyone else share this _iew or am I the only one lol?
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I was a miserable git last week and it was something someone said to me on here plus real life realisations and stuff - it was probably just a catalyst anyway, but I cheered up again and am chatting to a lovely lady and might have an mmf coming up so when things are down, they can only go up again!  |
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"I was a miserable git last week and it was something someone said to me on here plus real life realisations and stuff - it was probably just a catalyst anyway, but I cheered up again and am chatting to a lovely lady and might have an mmf coming up so when things are down, they can only go up again! "
Tbh a MMF would not cheer me up at all
Maybe a MFFF...F would do that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often.
It's a sad and depressing indictment of humanity in the developed world and an even worse indictment of me for being on here!
Yet here I am.
Probably because it's a bloody good laugh most of the time. |
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It can be hard on here. But you have got to be patient. Just cos its a swinging site doesnt mean anything. In fact I have 2 lady fb's and a fb couple that I see regularly that I met from other places. Hang in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often.
It's a sad and depressing indictment of humanity in the developed world and an even worse indictment of me for being on here!
Yet here I am.
Probably because it's a bloody good laugh most of the time."
Phew! Turned it around with that last line! |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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I take regular breaks from here. It's not as though I feel I'm owed anything, i just think this place and the swinging world in general can take a swing at your self esteem every once in a while. |
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some times I feel that way but then again I get better/positive interest off women on here then I ever do in real life tbh... Plus I like the regular chit chat I have in the chat rooms and sometimes forums too..
usually I disappear/take a few months break by putting my profile on hidden but right now the reason why I'm sticking around a bit is because there is a nice lady who is visiting my neck of the woods next month who I have been speaking with for a while and we have some what agreed to a social meet so I wish to stay in touch for now with her... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some times I feel that way but then again I get better/positive interest off women on here then I ever do in real life tbh... Plus I like the regular chit chat I have in the chat rooms and sometimes forums too..
usually I disappear/take a few months break by putting my profile on hidden but right now the reason why I'm sticking around a bit is because there is a nice lady who is visiting my neck of the woods next month who I have been speaking with for a while and we have some what agreed to a social meet so I wish to stay in touch for now with her..."
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"some times I feel that way but then again I get better/positive interest off women on here then I ever do in real life tbh... Plus I like the regular chit chat I have in the chat rooms and sometimes forums too..
usually I disappear/take a few months break by putting my profile on hidden but right now the reason why I'm sticking around a bit is because there is a nice lady who is visiting my neck of the woods next month who I have been speaking with for a while and we have some what agreed to a social meet so I wish to stay in touch for now with her...
Nice "
there is no promises etc but we genuinely enjoy one another's company so you know and also common interests..
nothing's set in stone but here is to hoping my first social meet goes well |
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By *bear25Man
over a year ago
Maidstone |
Fab shouldn't be something that causes depression. Its supposed to be a fun site and a good way to meet new people. If your feeling depressed about it then a break is definitely in order.
Personally I find the site great, it has massively expanded the circle of people I know, who I probably would never have met in 'real life'. |
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"I take regular breaks from here. It's not as though I feel I'm owed anything, i just think this place and the swinging world in general can take a swing at your self esteem every once in a while. "
It doesn't bother me now as I've learned to deal with it but I've felt like this in the past. I now just have a day or two away from Fab to recharge the batteries if I ever feel I'm getting a little frustrated with it all.
I know what the OP is getting at though, having your messages ignored or deleted whilst hearing about all the fun everyone else seems to be having can definitely grate a little. But you just have to hang in there. I do believe there is fun to be had for everybody. Plus the forums are a good laugh. And get this irony, since I basically closed down my profile and stopped trying to get a meet, I've had more women than ever getting in touch. There are good times ahead... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity "
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore  |
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore "
It's still wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore
It's still wrong "
OK, I'm suitably depressed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore "
Really? You were told to go back home?
Don't you dare,not before I've met you both anyway
I hate ignorant twats like that  |
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore
It's still wrong
OK, I'm suitably depressed."
You forgot the -
Everything's ok with a |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore
Really? You were told to go back home?
Don't you dare,not before I've met you both anyway
I hate ignorant twats like that "
I was told that.
But I have every intention of meeting you first, Miss  |
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"I'm sure there are some who are simply gifted in getting exactly what they want, when they want.
So much so that they probably have enough interest to meet and fuck every night if they could.
Flipside of the coin, there are those who try as they may, they literally cannot score in a brothal lol ...
Though I enjoy reading forums and comments on Fab, I must admit that I find it frustrating and slightly depressing at times too. Anyone else share this _iew or am I the only one lol?
Thanks
Peter"
I have no shortage of meets but still find it a depressing place sometimes lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take regular breaks from here. It's not as though I feel I'm owed anything, i just think this place and the swinging world in general can take a swing at your self esteem every once in a while.
It doesn't bother me now as I've learned to deal with it but I've felt like this in the past. I now just have a day or two away from Fab to recharge the batteries if I ever feel I'm getting a little frustrated with it all.
I know what the OP is getting at though, having your messages ignored or deleted whilst hearing about all the fun everyone else seems to be having can definitely grate a little. But you just have to hang in there. I do believe there is fun to be had for everybody. Plus the forums are a good laugh. And get this irony, since I basically closed down my profile and stopped trying to get a meet, I've had more women than ever getting in touch. There are good times ahead..."
Spot On! Appreciate your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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PeterTmouse you made the schoolboy error of showing out and dare i say it, speaking some truth. This is the point where everyone else jumps in to try and put you down, insinuating that really, its just you and everyone else is having a fab time on FAB, meeting lots of people and having lots of sex,,,so really ,,err its just you,,hahaha,,not much is real on here.. |
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"PeterTmouse you made the schoolboy error of showing out and dare i say it, speaking some truth. This is the point where everyone else jumps in to try and put you down, insinuating that really, its just you and everyone else is having a fab time on FAB, meeting lots of people and having lots of sex,,,so really ,,err its just you,,hahaha,,not much is real on here.."
Except that didn't happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"PeterTmouse you made the schoolboy error of showing out and dare i say it, speaking some truth. This is the point where everyone else jumps in to try and put you down, insinuating that really, its just you and everyone else is having a fab time on FAB, meeting lots of people and having lots of sex,,,so really ,,err its just you,,hahaha,,not much is real on here..
Except that didn't happen "
I feel that it did..and will. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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In my early days on here I did, but, since I started to gain more experience and have more 'success', I find it a very positive/empowering experience most of the time...if it weren't I would stick at it....I don't do things which bring me down! |
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I myself am not just on here to try and just gain notches on my headboard
I have made some nice friends on here who if nothing else I have a bit of good banter and laugh with, if it goes further, great
I think some people are just either trying too hard or on the other end of the scale expecting everything to just fall into their lap so to speak.
Don't take it too serious, it is what it is |
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"I myself am not just on here to try and just gain notches on my headboard
I have made some nice friends on here who if nothing else I have a bit of good banter and laugh with, if it goes further, great
I think some people are just either trying too hard or on the other end of the scale expecting everything to just fall into their lap so to speak.
Don't take it too serious, it is what it is"
Good attitude! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a woman,it is the selected few that make it harder for single guys, also the fact is that there are so many single blokes on here it is a womans market, we can afford to be really picky, aswell most couples on here have a good sex life and see no need for another cock,inturn there is more for couples like us lol |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a woman,it is the selected few that make it harder for single guys, also the fact is that there are so many single blokes on here it is a womans market, we can afford to be really picky, aswell most couples on here have a good sex life and see no need for another cock,inturn there is more for couples like us lol"
I quite enjoy the competition on here as a single guy |
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"I myself am not just on here to try and just gain notches on my headboard
I have made some nice friends on here who if nothing else I have a bit of good banter and laugh with, if it goes further, great
I think some people are just either trying too hard or on the other end of the scale expecting everything to just fall into their lap so to speak.
Don't take it too serious, it is what it is"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
nope... if i don't find anything going on that interests me, i have enough going on to talk away for a bit... and look at other things....
i like to think i have a fairly good sense of balance...... |
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"I myself am not just on here to try and just gain notches on my headboard
I have made some nice friends on here who if nothing else I have a bit of good banter and laugh with, if it goes further, great
I think some people are just either trying too hard or on the other end of the scale expecting everything to just fall into their lap so to speak.
Don't take it too serious, it is what it is "
Thank you to you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are some who are simply gifted in getting exactly what they want, when they want.
So much so that they probably have enough interest to meet and fuck every night if they could.
Flipside of the coin, there are those who try as they may, they literally cannot score in a brothal lol ...
Though I enjoy reading forums and comments on Fab, I must admit that I find it frustrating and slightly depressing at times too. Anyone else share this _iew or am I the only one lol?
Thanks
Peter"
me I've bought a gun .................baaaaaaaaaaaaasng damn I missed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are some who are simply gifted in getting exactly what they want, when they want.
So much so that they probably have enough interest to meet and fuck every night if they could.
Flipside of the coin, there are those who try as they may, they literally cannot score in a brothal lol ...
Though I enjoy reading forums and comments on Fab, I must admit that I find it frustrating and slightly depressing at times too. Anyone else share this _iew or am I the only one lol?
Thanks
Peter"
We've never got one meet from the site, and we've tried.
All meets have been from going to clubs/parties and meeting people there.
Thats something to think about really for most who complain about getting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not as good for men as it used to be. 6 year ago when i 1st joined, there were more replys, more meets, hardly any fakes and timewasters etc. The man to female/cpl ratio has reduced and others using other sites maybe ?  |
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OK I'l bite to what I suspect is a traul.
Only 3month on here, a non inspiring profile. 200m to f ratio, what did you expect? a clamour of nubile females fighting each other to get to your door!
MAN UP and stop whinging or leave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a woman,it is the selected few that make it harder for single guys, also the fact is that there are so many single blokes on here it is a womans market, we can afford to be really picky, aswell most couples on here have a good sex life and see no need for another cock,inturn there is more for couples like us lol"
Makes perfect sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't mean enough to me to be depressing!
Boring, tedious & frustrating yes!
Balanced out though by the fun & friendships that can be had along the way... |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"I dont think anyone gets as much as they want! Apart from glosswingers, hey always seem to be happy!
Lol I get as much as I want "
Rub it in why don't you?!?! We can't all be as hot as you! |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"Only the threads about immigrants, domestic violence or general stupidity
I stopped looking at those when I got told to "go back home," so they don't depress me either, anymore
Really? You were told to go back home?
Don't you dare,not before I've met you both anyway
I hate ignorant twats like that
I was told that.
But I have every intention of meeting you first, Miss "
Can I join in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums are the best thing in fab , followed by hot pictures , followed by status updates ( some hilarious updates where people confuse fab with Facebook).
Fab is never boring , it makes you horny 24/7 , what more do you want ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are some who are simply gifted in getting exactly what they want, when they want.
So much so that they probably have enough interest to meet and fuck every night if they could.
Flipside of the coin, there are those who try as they may, they literally cannot score in a brothal lol ...
Though I enjoy reading forums and comments on Fab, I must admit that I find it frustrating and slightly depressing at times too. Anyone else share this _iew or am I the only one lol?
Thanks
Peter"
Yeah bu there's only so much you can do here. If people aren't interested then you can't blame their personal tastes. I get a better time laughing at the forum's than sending tonnes of messages. However I would like to see for one day for the shoe to be on the other foot and see what it felt like for a change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing I see or read on here depresses me. The men I meet don't depress me. The amount of men I find to meet doesn't depress me. It's just a website I use for my enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very interesting posts. Thanks to all who have had something to say. I guess I should treat the site more as entertainment than anything else.
To be honest Im not actually expecting anything to happen as these things just don't happen to me. I don't have a great record. 3 years on POF without a meet and 2 years on Tinder without a match. Also gave naughty adults a go for over a year and recieved literally a handfull of genuine messages. Thars it!
You couldn't make it up lol. Yes there are times I get cheesed off with the situation but I just laugh it off. I do find my situation rather hilarious.
Thanks again for the comments |
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"for the last few years I have really enjoyed my time on here, nothing is depressing me. I treat it all with complete indifference "
Hang on a minute....can one both enjoy something and be indifferent to it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My football team at times depresses me then I can look on fabs and see all these lovely sexy women and then I think sod the football
This "
I dont feel depressed on here. If i feel horny i can either;
Deny myself..pleasurable in itself !
Have a nice long wank /edging session
Go shag my GF
Whats not to like??
Thank God he gave me arms long enough to reach my dick |
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