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over a year ago
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I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too.  |
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I'd go with the flow but if you want to date with a view to a relationship, keep your knickers on. Do the dating thing, get to know him. If he's not boyfriend material but you want to fuck him, drop your knickers when you've worked that out and not before.  |
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"Depends if you want to see if a relationship could work with him or you just want a shag..?"
This is the confusion, I don't know what I want, I really like him, but can't imagine giving this lifestyle up
....but if I instantly give him sex tomorrow, I might not hear from again, as he got what he wanted......confused.com. He is so my type of man. |
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"I'd go with the flow but if you want to date with a view to a relationship, keep your knickers on. Do the dating thing, get to know him. If he's not boyfriend material but you want to fuck him, drop your knickers when you've worked that out and not before. "
Exactly thanks for that  |
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Christ vanilla!
Cos I'm soooo good at that
So you have to play by the rules. Don't shag him until the 10th date, or is that the 20th?
No kissing on the lips for the first date, just cheek. Take a chaperone with you, preferably a family member.
Totally make up the number of ex boyfriends and shags you've had.
In fact you're a virgin!
So best of luck! |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too. "
well there are two options:
1) take it slowly and act all sweet and innocent and see where it goes
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2) Take him home, tie him the the bed and ride him till he cant take anymore 
If it is a potential proper adult relationship 1 might be best and let him slowly come to terms with your liberated side! |
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I have a vanilla date on Sunday...after an incredible meet on Saturday. I feel quite flattered, and for a short moment experiencing the best of both worlds. |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too.
well there are two options:
1) take it slowly and act all sweet and innocent and see where it goes
or
2) Take him home, tie him the the bed and ride him till he cant take anymore
If it is a potential proper adult relationship 1 might be best and let him slowly come to terms with your liberated side!"
I fancy him so much , I might just dive into option 2 lol......oh come on, he looking for a shag too, who am I kidding myself......If the sparks are there, they are, if not, so what, I got to fuck a gorgeous guy. |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too. "
think your pics give it away I have a good idea what he will be expecting |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too. think your pics give it away I have a good idea what he will be expecting "
Emmmmmm I didn't meet him on here lol, he has never seen these pics |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too. "
Play it by ear.
At least you will hear him comming
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If all he's after is a fuck and then to fuck off then he'll do that after a few dates or the first date.
If he isn't into sexually promiscuous women then you're gonna have to change who you are to be with him.
Just enjoy your time with him, if it's meant to be it'll happen. |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too.
well there are two options:
1) take it slowly and act all sweet and innocent and see where it goes
or
2) Take him home, tie him the the bed and ride him till he cant take anymore
If it is a potential proper adult relationship 1 might be best and let him slowly come to terms with your liberated side!
I fancy him so much , I might just dive into option 2 lol......oh come on, he looking for a shag too, who am I kidding myself......If the sparks are there, they are, if not, so what, I got to fuck a gorgeous guy. "
You go for it then - i hope it turns out really well for you x
PS i think i would do the same |
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" I have a vanilla date tomorrow, I'm so excited, because he is gorgeous, and we've spoken over the phone........as a swinger I will just go in for the kill.....but...but... should I control myself? Kiss, cuddle, pretend I'm innocent? Totally confused!!!!!!!!I really like this guy, but who knows he might be a swinger too. "
This made me laugh because our first two meets we did not fuck, just takes and talked .... Turns out now mr law was thinking it was a date because we got on so well. I could not handle it after two meets, and jumped him .... Well, we had met on a swinging site after all, but he says now he did not want to spoil what we had. Nothing has spoilt what we had but then we both knew where we were coming from ... At times it's an interesting dynamic, being most intimate and loving with the person you are filthiest with, doing the dishes and the shopping and making the bed with the person you have shared your most depraved thoughts and actions with, but I guess that what true love is all about ....really, if you want it to work, I would not jeopardize it for a quick fuck and I would totally give up the lifestyle if the time was right for both of us .... The lifestyle has plus and minus points, but there is a sort of soulless quality to it at times ....pepper |
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I do not understand guys the difference you make between the "vanilla" life and the "swinger" life 
There is only one life 
A good normal date finishes with a "happy ending". A swinger date has only the "happy ending"...
I vote for normal dates anytime  |
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