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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...
If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.
To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing scary about being curious
How curious though ?
What turns you on when you think about it ?
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Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing scary about being curious
How curious though ?
What turns you on when you think about it ?
Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x"
Sounds good
Meeting convincing tv/ts is so horny  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.
Only one way to find out. For both of us!
Good luck "
It's the pushing my self to find out that I'm struggling at.
Would it count if I pretend to be a girl for you and you pretend to be a boy for me?! Lol.x |
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Get yourself down to Chams on a Monday evening - join in the fun. See if you like it or if it makes you run away! Seriously though - have fun. Experiment. See what turns you on - or off. Explore. Touch. Feel. Taste. Make up your own mind and don't be swayed by others. Do what feels right for you. Take care. J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing scary about being curious
How curious though ?
What turns you on when you think about it ?
Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x
Sounds good
Meeting convincing tv/ts is so horny "
I have a bit of a fantasy of one tricking me...as in I meet her on a night out at a pub/club and we dance and drink the night away. We get back to hers and she's very dominant with me, I still have no idea she's tv/ts and then....well you can guess the rest lol.x |
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Doesn't sound pathetic at all... taking time out to figure things out is a really switched on thing to do. Totally avoids confusing yourself any further.
Well done you for coming back and exploring. You've nothing to be ashamed of. Take it at your own pace and on your own terms and have as much fun as you like.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...
If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.
To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"
Its not pathetic at all, good on you for having the courage to admit you want to do something about it. Try a bi night at a club, there will be no pressure to do anything but you will be around like minded people with no prejudice and may give you a bit more confidence.
Hope you find what you're looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done you.
My first major crush was on a woman but I just kept denying it, in adulthood I knew I always fancied the same sex, I mean what's not to like?
I only popped my bi cherry about 8 months ago and boy am I glad I finally took the plunge.
Huge step for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Really appreciate the support everyone
As small of a step as it may sound, admiting it here was the step 1... Step 2 for me is openly talking about it (on fab at least :p which your all helping with)....step 3 will be to explore my curiosity by my self (which iv never let my self do before)....x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...
If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.
To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"
Well done and no it doesn't sound pathetic this will be the best place for you to find out what you like and don't like and what turns you on or off. Good luck and have fun exploring xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.
Only one way to find out. For both of us!
Good luck
It's the pushing my self to find out that I'm struggling at.x"
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sound like it's a really big deal for u. Perhaps don't take it all so seriously with the labels thing.
Maybe just have a little fun, see which part of trying bi you like?
My play has taught me I'm more situationally bi. Because I've not gotten hung up about it, it's just worked itself out.
However I do accept it's easier and more socially acceptable for a woman to play bi than a man.
Good luck with it all xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...
If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.
To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"
Good for you, just take time to explore you new found side. Above all, have fun. XX |
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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago
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Good for you...I've been on the journey myself and Fab and all of the wonderful people I've met and talked to since I joined have allowed me to explore my own sexuality and I've enjoyed the journey....very much so!
It's been confusing at times but people have been both patient and let me explore.
Straight, to bi-curious to a loud and proud bi-sexual. It's been nothing short of amazing and I've never been happier!
Don't rush yourself, gently explore and at any point you can stand still, move forward, or even move back. It's all about you!
Good luck xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.
Only one way to find out. For both of us!
Good luck "
Same here...want to but need to find someone that's right to try
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it matter?? The beauty of being on here is you can indulge in any Kink you like and have a great time doing it!
Have fun and enjoy, you could be struck down tomorrow! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It was about admitting it to my self as much as anything. The issue I have is that I'm struggling to act on it. I'd love if someone could coach/help me/push me out of my comfort zone. X |
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"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...
If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.
To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"
Seems like a big step for you, fuck the haters, just do what makes you happy.. Life is too short not to mate. |
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"It was about admitting it to my self as much as anything. The issue I have is that I'm struggling to act on it. I'd love if someone could coach/help me/push me out of my comfort zone. X"
have you thought about meeting someone a bit older or just someone with experience who is patient and wont push you or just meeting for a drink with a bi guy who can talk through there first experience. There is a lot of bi guys on here and some of them will have experienced how you feel. Good luck xx
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