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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx |
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx"
Approach who I'm attracted to It's really that simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And who is to say how that works?
Who gets to judge?
Is it based on looks?
Or personality?
Or both?
Because I have seen some vacuous, shallow hot looking people that I wouldn't touch with yours!
And some lovely lovely average people who are stunning in my eyes.
Nothing uglier than a bad attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Perhaps you are more confident then but we'd never message someone who we thought wouldn't find us attractive from a physical match perspective or what their profile preference is. |
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"Perhaps you are more confident then but we'd never message someone who we thought wouldn't find us attractive from a physical match perspective or what their profile preference is."
I wouldn't message someone whose profile I didn't match, but if I liked the profile and picture I'd message them, what's the worst they can do apart from say no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"bothwell I could understand it in real life but on here you have photos and a profile to attract attention"
A photo doesn't give u an idea of personality...I wouldn't just shag anyone has to be a spark |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"bothwell I could understand it in real life but on here you have photos and a profile to attract attention"
see what you are saying but our photos are us and our text explains what we are looking for
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"bothwell I could understand it in real life but on here you have photos and a profile to attract attention
A photo doesn't give u an idea of personality...I wouldn't just shag anyone has to be a spark"
I'm on a out getting unwanted attention |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx"
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact  |
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx"
Nonsense.
Every great dream starts with a dreamer.
And I'm never been one much interested in 'rules'.
We're here for great sex, so who's to say who's out of who's league?
Besides:
"The world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star"
(My world certainly is, have fun in yours)
;-)
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact "
don't be silly you are missing the point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
Nonsense.
Every great dream starts with a dreamer.
And I'm never been one much interested in 'rules'.
We're here for great sex, so who's to say who's out of who's league?
Besides:
"The world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star"
(My world certainly is, have fun in yours)
;-)
Mr ddc"
we would rather live in reality |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact don't be silly you are missing the point"
Oh no I get the point very well you believe human beings below you on the attraction level are approaching you for sex .
Or have I got that wrong do explain ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact don't be silly you are missing the point
Oh no I get the point very well you believe human beings below you on the attraction level are approaching you for sex .
Or have I got that wrong do explain ..."
We would never expect you to message us due to you not meeting our preferences, it is a shame that people do not read profiles, since when has being choosy a sin? |
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By *immCouple
over a year ago
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Sexy isn't a size. Mrs goes weak at people that make her laugh and are chatty. I like women who are comfortable with how they look regardless of if they are large or small. |
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact don't be silly you are missing the point
Oh no I get the point very well you believe human beings below you on the attraction level are approaching you for sex .
Or have I got that wrong do explain ...We would never expect you to message us due to you not meeting our preferences, it is a shame that people do not read profiles, since when has being choosy a sin? "
everyone gets messages from people that haven't read their profile you just ignore them |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact don't be silly you are missing the point
Oh no I get the point very well you believe human beings below you on the attraction level are approaching you for sex .
Or have I got that wrong do explain ...We would never expect you to message us due to you not meeting our preferences, it is a shame that people do not read profiles, since when has being choosy a sin? "
That's not what you original post said is it if you ment that why didn't you say that in the first place ..
Yes you can be picky but there's a way of putting it that does not imply your superiority .
Look I'm far from perfect I'm selfish a flawed human being playing devils advocate because I can and felt like it . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
OP your quite right after checking out your pictures I wouldn't approach you because you wouldn't have a chance with me .
Don't you know I'm bloody perfect only looking for perfection because of this fact don't be silly you are missing the point
Oh no I get the point very well you believe human beings below you on the attraction level are approaching you for sex .
Or have I got that wrong do explain ...We would never expect you to message us due to you not meeting our preferences, it is a shame that people do not read profiles, since when has being choosy a sin?
That's not what you original post said is it if you ment that why didn't you say that in the first place ..
Yes you can be picky but there's a way of putting it that does not imply your superiority .
Look I'm far from perfect I'm selfish a flawed human being playing devils advocate because I can and felt like it . "
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I agree, the original statement does read like you are tired of getting messages from ugly people. Maybe you have a very high opinion of yourself (possibly justified, I don't know) and others don't?
I'm of the opinion that you have to buy a ticket to win the raffle.  |
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx"
"Batting above your weight" is such a pure way to put it, lol! Love that saying! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
"Batting above your weight" is such a pure way to put it, lol! Love that saying!"
so do we |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx"
stop messaging people out of your league then
seriously though who decides who's above who's weight? all because you look at somebody who's mailed you and think I'm way out of their league that does not mean they feel the same, maybe they felt you were well suited |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
"Batting above your weight" is such a pure way to put it, lol! Love that saying!so do we "
So you admit to believing in your own superiority ......a certain madman thought the same thing over 70 years ago and it lead to the deaths of millions of so called inferiors maybe you should build a gas chamber for the uglies hay |
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"So you admit to believing in your own superiority ......a certain madman thought the same thing over 70 years ago and it lead to the deaths of millions of so called inferiors maybe you should build a gas chamber for the uglies hay "
Good Godwin, man.
Already?
We haven't even touched on David and Goliath yet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why don't people within the swinging scene apply the same rules as you would in a pub or club? To explain, you would only approach someone who you thought you may have a chance with instead of batting way above your weight? xx
"Batting above your weight" is such a pure way to put it, lol! Love that saying!so do we
So you admit to believing in your own superiority ......a certain madman thought the same thing over 70 years ago and it lead to the deaths of millions of so called inferiors maybe you should build a gas chamber for the uglies hay "
Sorry I don't think Hitler was on a swinging site? And wanting to only have sex with people who you find physically attractive is hardly a personality disorder. We assume that you must then think that a proportion of the population are potential dictators if they are choosy about who they sleep with. However your reaction seems to speak more to your personal experience than it does to whether we think we are superior or not...an extreme reaction indeed!!! |
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To me this appears to be a 'look at me' disguised as a complaint about ugly people.
Did you want everyone to go omg you poor things and yes you are sooooo above anyone's weight?
If you feel so much better than those that message you stop them messaging and go out and look for perfect people
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