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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, seeing a new guy who has asked me if I could be more dominant.
It's not something I've ever done (I'm really sub) but I'd really like to please him by doing this.
So all you lovely fabbers, what kind of things can I do? I've watched some FemDom porn but it's all a bit extreme.
I'm just not very good at being bossy  |
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Have a search on the internet there are a ton of scenarios available.
As you are naturally submissive, treat it like a game and that you are assuming a role. It sounds stupid but practice your voice commands before you meet just like any other actor. You can change the way you act for a short period of time but ultimately you won't be for filled... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to ask him what he means. He may just want to experience you 'in control' in a mild way. Probably best not to impale him on a strapon unless you know for sure it's what he wants.  |
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over a year ago
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You pushing him onto his back and riding the fuck out of him is being more dominant.
Asking for what you want sexually and making him do that is being more dominant.
Things like when he's licking you out don't just lie there, grab the back of his head and push him into your pussy, or sit on his face and grind on it.
All the stuff us women hate having done to us basically, they like that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are by nature a sub you may find it hard to take more control and be the dom, although there is no harm in trying, you may discover a switch side you never knew existed and it could be a new role for you, if not you've tried and probably had a bit of fun anyway, enjoy your role whatever it turns out to be
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Find out what turns him on in terms of domination. Everyone has different levels so you need to find where his are. One person might want to be made to crawl behind on a collar and lead - that's way to extreme for someone else. They may just want you to take the lead(not collar type) in the bedroom. Plus it can all be built on, so start slowly. Reading erotica can give you good ideas and talking to other submissive guys and Dominatrix. Just treat it all as a new experience and just have fun with it. |
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