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what can i do to improve my chances
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?"
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men"
Not the ones i meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men
Not the ones i meet. "
Same here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what you can learn from here this time around. You keep opening new profiles and asking the same question. Maybe meeting women with similar interests in your area for a relationship, join groups, go to evening classes etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be frank with you and say I am not sure this is the place for you.
The reason I say this is none other than you have no experience and I think that will put a lot of people off. Inexperienced users generally do not do well on here. You have to bear in mind people's fun time is limited so a lot of people don't wish to be showing people the ropes.
If you want to give it a go still then your best bet is likely to be a few social meets. This way you can interact and get to know people.
I use another site where they hold monthly socials so you could try something similar.
If you do stay, I would be a bit positive on your profile. Comments such as if you want a 'handsome, good looking male then unfortunately I dont fit that' do not help you. Let people make their own mind up about you. I appreciate you don't want to mislead people but at the same time such negativity wont help you.
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"Not sure what you can learn from here this time around. You keep opening new profiles and asking the same question. Maybe meeting women with similar interests in your area for a relationship, join groups, go to evening classes etc "
stop setting up new profiles and listen to the advice given previously |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men"
You have four meets in four months. I would say that is good going for anyone |
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men"
So so wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be more positive about your situation
Be realistic
Attend non sexual social events.
Take a deaf friend with you - or meet swingers who can sign (socially if need be)
Have patience
Join in the forums and not just threads about you
Improve your pics
Reduce your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?"
Remove all negatives from your profile, what DO you like to do for fun besides sex. Don't "don't" yourself. You look nice, I would! You remind me of a guy on tv chat, he always starts his profile " I am disabled, but". If you want an equal chance, be an equal person and never apologise for who you are. Let people hear about you, don't make their mind up for them. They'll do that just before the meet and that is fine. xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been here awhile now. I wrote a honest profile with a body pic. I did state that I am quite inexperience and deaf so people are aware. Havent had much luck on here....
What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men
You have four meets in four months. I would say that is good going for anyone"
Fuck I haven't had four this year, just a kiss and some friends     |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men"
Every time someone says something like this it makes me feel all warm and happy.
And only a little smug. |
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"What else can I do to improve my chances?
Fuck all mate its mostly a waste of time for all single men
Every time someone says something like this it makes me feel all warm and happy.
And only a little smug."
Yes I also try to keep the smug feeling repressed
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be more positive about your situation
Be realistic
Attend non sexual social events.
Take a deaf friend with you - or meet swingers who can sign (socially if need be)
Have patience
Join in the forums and not just threads about you
Improve your pics
Reduce your profile"
Really good advice. We meet most of the people we play with at clubs when we go for social time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure what you can learn from here this time around. You keep opening new profiles and asking the same question. Maybe meeting women with similar interests in your area for a relationship, join groups, go to evening classes etc "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any male tried offering cash or similar inducements?
Just wondering."
I believe it is banned. To answer your question though I have heard of this before in the forum. |
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