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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it just me or is it not right that when you're partner returns from playing at a party that her back is badly scratched and her neck bitten. Is this a step to far

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Do you see the state of the other parties involved?

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By *eanutButterJellyTimeCouple over a year ago

the middle of the world

Depends what your personal "rules" are. Kev's been bitten and scratched while playing before now and it doesn't bother me

Although I take it as a personal challenge to cover up all those bites and scratches with my own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it just me or is it not right that when you're partner returns from playing at a party that her back is badly scratched and her neck bitten. Is this a step to far "

did she object?

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends if they are smiling.

Suspect there is more to this the one sentence OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did she willing partake & enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends.. She does has a voice. She could have stopped it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes she did enjoy it but dident realise she was marked until I pointed it out. Iur boundaries are no marks which the guy involved knew. Its probably me just bieng soft at the thought of someone hurting her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When I say she enjoyed it I mean the sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes she did enjoy it but dident realise she was marked until I pointed it out. Iur boundaries are no marks which the guy involved knew. Its probably me just bieng soft at the thought of someone hurting her"

seems to me like the green eyed monster has shown up in your life and you aren't happy with your wife having second with some one else.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Possibly hasn't bothered me since with the last few meets and I enjoy watching her taking it.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Boundaries are important to all parties and I agree, hope there isn't something deeper. Op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I say she enjoyed it I mean the sex"

Surely the biting and scratching are part of the sex? I doubt it hurt, as you say she didn't notice it. She just rather enjoyed it... all... as you've said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't like seeing it then it's a step too far. My husband and I only have one rule....if one of us doesn't like something/isn't happy with something, it doesn't happen. It's all about communication and respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for your help I appreciate it

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