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How you feel before the meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I wondered how people feel when they first meet someone (a stranger) for the first time to have sexual fun? What do you feel like sacred, nervous, have butterflies or very confident lol?
I never met anyone off here yet but the thought of it make me nervous that you will be having the most intimate sex with someone you dont really know....it seems scary but also exciting and the thrill of it..
Just curious about how people feel before they meet..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Optimistic usually.
I hope they won't be selfish and we'll fancy each other. I'm preferring regular meets at the minute then i know what i'm getting is gonna be good.
Not really feeling 'it' for a lot of guys lately and they're putting me off sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the first meet, I don't meet someone for any sexual intimacy as I have to feel attracted to someone, therefore I meet in a mutual place first to see if there is then plan from there on.
The first time I was a little nervous, now it's a bit more of Fed up feeling and optimistic, due to past experiences and people not looking like their photos. Which is what puts me off meeting people this way and rather stick to a club, that way it gets done easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We actually had our first meet with another couple this past weekend...we were both very nervous but also excited. The anticipation was nearly overwhelming. We had made contact with the couple thru another site so we had lots of pics of them and they of us but other than a few text messages and emails that was our only contact. We met them at their house and we couldn't have asked for a better introduction to the lifestyle, they quickly made us feel at ease and though still nervous the predominant emotion throughout the nite was definitely excitement  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nervous ,excited ,butterflies for days even if its someone I've met before I get the same feelings although not quite as bad....and if its someone Ive met a few times then the feelings of lust take over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take time to get to know someone before we meet. I wouldn't meet anyone if I felt uncomfortable or unsure. I get excited about seeing him in the flesh. I don't get nervous about meeting,I get nervous about finding my way to where I'm going. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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First meet is always a social meet .
Nervous ...then as I always turn up early so the woman I'm meeting doesn't have to walk into a pub alone and wait for me I start to worry abit about whether they will turn up .
When I get the message saying their out side the pub relief as I go outside to escort them in .
All normal emotions to have in any type of date situation the method of finding someone to meet ma be different but the emotion stay the sane . |
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Nervous, very nervous. We used to do social only meet before progressing, now we meet socially in public (hotel bar ideally) and if we click we progress same day. Had 2 incredible meets recently where things have clicked and the physical side was really enhanced, the nerves dissipated and everyone relaxed into it, really nice |
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"You don't really get any of those feelings in clubs as you don't go with that expectation. Which is quite a good thing!
On the odd meets we have done in private, been nervous but mainly excited.
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we get even more nervous going to clubs..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG I feel so nervous, jittery & excited all in one go. Had 2 really good meets in a pub recently, plenty of chemistry, cudnt wait to undress each other! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nervous excitement. In a good way. It's part of what I enjoy, I'd miss it if I didn't feel that."
....and if it got to a time when I didn't felt that anymore, I'd walk away from them / this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have only met couples in pubs so far for social meets. It's strange how different people look with the clothes on and I'm Worried I won't recognise them. Since we have never gone with Any expectations then we have not felt those nerves yet. However OH does say as we pull into the car park that the nerves are kicking in but I don't think that lasts long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once meeting for a social I was so nervous I needed chocolate to calm my stomach!
Now I'm calmer, but I'm a grinning loon for days before and after "
Any excuse to eat chocolate.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nervous excitement. In a good way. It's part of what I enjoy, I'd miss it if I didn't feel that.
....and if it got to a time when I didn't felt that anymore, I'd walk away from them / this."
Definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once meeting for a social I was so nervous I needed chocolate to calm my stomach!
Now I'm calmer, but I'm a grinning loon for days before and after
Any excuse to eat chocolate...."
Excuse?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Super nervous, really really bad when getting ready but completely at ease at the club. I feel excited the days before the meet. We have only had about two hotel meets so the last one I was so nervous I felt sick. Don't really know what I'm nervous about because it's not there when having sex at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel a mixture of apprehensive and excited. But if I feel I've got to know the guy pretty well online then why waste the first meeting on just being social! |
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