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How do you deal with women that lay there like a sack of spuds?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We boil and mash em

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We boil and mash em"

Kinky...

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

If they say it's cold , say you should participate then as I am warm

Say next time before you come round look at some porn , so you know what to do

Seriously is that the best you can do

Why lie about it , if they are crap , tell them .

Or suggest they watch you with a woman that know how to treat a man

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If life gives you potatoes make chunky chips.

Anyone just lying there would be really of putting to me... I would be likely to make my excuses to exit stage left.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Connect them to the national grid would probably have a positive effect

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By *ivinefoxWoman over a year ago

Coventry

My first question would be, what have you done to fully arouse them? Maybe they're not turned on or relaxed?

I know I'm way more into sex if I'm turned on!

However if you've done everything you can then maybe ask them if they're ok?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They've been watching too much of that potato based porn. Thinking all they've got to do to please a man is just lie there, maybe covered in oil if they're pushing the boat out. So selfish, and it's an increasing problem on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently? "

First sentence gets a

from me. Ask what we like, if possible, before the meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They've been watching too much of that potato based porn. Thinking all they've got to do to please a man is just lie there, maybe covered in oil if they're pushing the boat out. So selfish, and it's an increasing problem on here."

I guess i could try and be a bit unusual by asking her to leave her jacket on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard finger blast or tea bagging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

I think we would ask her to put the telly on so we had something to amuse ourselves with while we did the deed

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oil? No wonder she's unhappy. Everyone knows its butter that goes with potatoes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put MOTD on & crack open a beer.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Isn't that what we're supposed to do? When don't move during sex that's just rude.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Isn't that what we're supposed to do? When don't move during sex that's just rude.

*women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Used to have one like this, beautiful slim blonde + just lay there.

I used to wonder if she enjoyed it much, then Sometimes she'd squirt like a hose.

But yeah I think some believe, just being naked for you is all they have to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put MOTD on & crack open a beer."

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sounds to me like the impetus is being put on the man to make a good meet. "Find out what she likes first" "what have YOU done to get her fully aroused". It takes 2 to tango. Women especially swingers should be confident enough to take the lead when playing. (and you can lead without being on top as it were). When i play with men I'm always "the girl" but using my body language i can always show him what i want. With no pre-job brief.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's an increasing problem on here."

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently?

First sentence gets a

from me. Ask what we like, if possible, before the meet.

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Thanks! So what do you like?! Lol

Message me if you fancy a chat. J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hard finger blast or tea bagging "

Music to my ears ! What modern woman doesn't enjoy a dam good tea bagging!?

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Sprinkle her in semolina and give her a good roasting

Personally I couldn't just lie there, I like to have a go on top and try different positions, it's gives the man involved a bit of a breather

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sprinkle her in semolina and give her a good roasting

Personally I couldn't just lie there, I like to have a go on top and try different positions, it's gives the man involved a bit of a breather

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hard finger blast or tea bagging

Music to my ears ! What modern woman doesn't enjoy a dam good tea bagging!?"

Exactly an often overlooked technique.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Sounds to me like the impetus is being put on the man to make a good meet. "Find out what she likes first" "what have YOU done to get her fully aroused". It takes 2 to tango. Women especially swingers should be confident enough to take the lead when playing. (and you can lead without being on top as it were). When i play with men I'm always "the girl" but using my body language i can always show him what i want. With no pre-job brief."

I think the onus is often put on the man and they frequently accept the responsibility, I often see phrases such as "it's all about the lady's pleasure" the infamous "I could lick for hours" "I always make sure the lady is satisfied before I think of my pleasure".

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oil? No wonder she's unhappy. Everyone knows its butter that goes with potatoes."

Not if she was expecting a good roasting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes onus, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The other thread didn't blame men. "

Admittedly I skimmed it...but most of the posts I read were blaming men (and trends in modern porn). Even the thread title was blaming the man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently?

First sentence gets a

from me. Ask what we like, if possible, before the meet.

Thanks! So what do you like?! Lol

Message me if you fancy a chat. J x "

oh right, well, ill do that, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought the other thread was putting the onus on men somewhat IMO.

You have brought balance to the force OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give her a sex toy and have a wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I thought the other thread was putting the onus on men somewhat IMO.

You have brought balance to the force OP. "

It's what i do. Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck! All this talk about potatoes is making me want a roast dinner today. That means I have to stop laying here like a sack of spuds. Bugger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fuck! All this talk about potatoes is making me want a roast dinner today. That means I have to stop laying here like a sack of spuds. Bugger. "

But you do it so well!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you talk before hand and she then just lies there then dont do anything if she cant be botheredthen nor should the man.

I've never just laid there some men are surprised just how active I get

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

20,000 volts

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By *ivinefoxWoman over a year ago

Coventry

I think the difference is that men can get aroused very quickly but most women need more time to get to that place so yes initially I would say yes it is up to the guy to make sure his partner is fully aroused. Also some women aren't always good at asking for what they want. I've done a lot of Tantra workshops and the philosophy was always to pleasure the woman first. And then you'll get back so much more from her!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

Be interesting to see this thread in comparison to the "why do blokes treat me like a piece of meat and try to just copy porn" thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20,000 volts"

60% of the time, it works everytime!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"20,000 volts

60% of the time, it works everytime!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck! All this talk about potatoes is making me want a roast dinner today. That means I have to stop laying here like a sack of spuds. Bugger.

But you do it so well!?"

Not sure if you mean the roast dinner or laying like a sack of spuds. ..

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm sill give as good as I get kind of girl so If im lying there like a sack of spuds you've not been doing your job right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So just to get more info....was it that she wouldn't touch you, suck your cock?

Or that she made no noise or movement to show she was responding to what you were doing to her?

My advice would be, if you're shagging a corpse, say to her 'I think we should stop, because clearly you aren't enjoying yourself' That would either start a conversation so hopefully improve the meet, or give her something to think about for the future.

And yes I have done this with a guy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think the difference is that men can get aroused very quickly but most women need more time to get to that place so yes initially I would say yes it is up to the guy to make sure his partner is fully aroused. Also some women aren't always good at asking for what they want. I've done a lot of Tantra workshops and the philosophy was always to pleasure the woman first. And then you'll get back so much more from her! "

I would suggest that if a woman is attending a club or an organised meet and is not already turned on by the situation it's self. ( and no i don't mean fully aroused, but at least mildly moist) then she shouldn't be swinging. It sounds more like she needs a man whore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So just to get more info....was it that she wouldn't touch you, suck your cock?

Or that she made no noise or movement to show she was responding to what you were doing to her?

And yes I have done this with a guy!!

Good advice, if it's tried and tested then I'll be using it next time I get it on with this lass who turns into a corpse in the bedroom, hopefully she'll be less stiff so I can be more stiff!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stick it up her bum with out warning?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Move her to the end of the bed and do her doggy.

If she drifts off, cool it makes the exit easier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We boil and mash em"

That comment really made me chuckle LOL

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

It's finding I can context with the person on some level that turns me on not the social situation. No one should go to a club with the anticipation of a guaranteed shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So just to get more info....was it that she wouldn't touch you, suck your cock?

Or that she made no noise or movement to show she was responding to what you were doing to her?

And yes I have done this with a guy!!

This is a hypothetical, retaliatory post not based on actual events.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

It's finding I can context with the person on some level that turns me on not the social situation. No one should go to a club with the anticipation of a guaranteed shag "

*connect not context

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

It's finding I can context with the person on some level that turns me on not the social situation. No one should go to a club with the anticipation of a guaranteed shag

*connect not context "

In fact you shouldn't go to a meet anticipating sex there's always a chance the spark fizzles out in person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The other thread didn't blame men.

Admittedly I skimmed it...but most of the posts I read were blaming men (and trends in modern porn). Even the thread title was blaming the man.

Fair point. However if a guy (or woman) starts painfully ramming his/ her fingers into you with no warning, that's his/ her fault. If the woman lies there and lets them if she doesn't want them to, she's at fault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!"

Yes i think the other thread covered that point quite well thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So just to get more info....was it that she wouldn't touch you, suck your cock?

Or that she made no noise or movement to show she was responding to what you were doing to her?

And yes I have done this with a guy!!

This is a hypothetical, retaliatory post not based on actual events. "

It's still a valid subject!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So just to get more info....was it that she wouldn't touch you, suck your cock?

Or that she made no noise or movement to show she was responding to what you were doing to her?

And yes I have done this with a guy!!

This is a hypothetical, retaliatory post not based on actual events.

It's still a valid subject!

Oh i know. But there's no point in asking me about my experience with the afore mentioned "sack".

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By *inzi LTV/TS over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Was it her first time meeting or was/is she still pretty new? I know I was like a rabbit in the headlights my first meet and I'm still a bit shy now to begin with but that's with Tgirls, which I suppose is a bit different....

But I have been with women/females in the past where some do just lie there and others that get really into it and let their inhibitions go completely but both enjoy the moment just as much as the other.

I have to be honest a motionless, silent shag is a bit... different but it just gives you more time to admire the furnishings and take your mind off cummin!

Just take charge, tease them, caress them, tempt them but make them wait a little for the prize...

It won't be long and you'll be flipping them all over the bed and jumping off the wardrobe!

Usually works for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sometimes i like to lay there like a rag doll and have him go at me like an angry dog. But I'll still have a twinkle in my eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheque please!

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

Yes i think the other thread covered that point quite well thank you."

I missed that one and was commenting on this one..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

Yes i think the other thread covered that point quite well thank you.

I missed that one and was commenting on this one.."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would wake her up and tell her I was finished

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"I would wake her up and tell her I was finished"

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Lancashire

"We boil and mash em"

You beat me to it, but you forgot to add milk and butter?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We call them starfish

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Stick it up her bum with out warning?"

Yep, that would definitely wake me up!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Maybe she's like sleeping beauty and needs to have the right interaction, to awaken her from her slumber. Are you a fella who's just doing the same old and haven't inspired her?

Play is a two way street but helping someone to think she's a sack of spuds isn't going to be uplifting nor energising. Go back to basics. If you've gotten this far, then maybe you didn't get the earlier parts right. Was the meet really at the right time? How well and how much/well did you really communicate qualitatively more than a 'fancy a fuck' message?

If it's not going right for you - whichever gender we are - then stop, if you're at a loss to know what to do. Start interacting differently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a woman just lays on her back that's fine , I will just get on top of her and fill her pussy with cum sex is sex at the end of the day lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a woman just lays on her back that's fine , I will just get on top of her and fill her pussy with cum sex is sex at the end of the day lol"

You smoothe talking bugger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe she's like sleeping beauty and needs to have the right interaction, to awaken her from her slumber. Are you a fella who's just doing the same old and haven't inspired her?

If it's not going right for you - whichever gender we are - then stop, if you're at a loss to know what to do. Start interacting differently. "

I think you're taking this far to seriously. But bless you for trying x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bring a potato peeler?

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

Cut their eyes out. Rub them hard. Fork them and do them for an hour.

Then add butter before entering the brown bit

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Stick them with a cattle prod, they will soon start jumping about then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The meets I've had of late I'd of had to of been dead to of laid there like a sack of spuds.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just give me a book and wipe me down when you're finished. Oh and flick the kettle switch down on your way out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

Be interesting to see this thread in comparison to the "why do blokes treat me like a piece of meat and try to just copy porn" thread. "

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"If life gives you potatoes make chunky chips.

Anyone just lying there would be really of putting to me... I would be likely to make my excuses to exit stage left. "

In my experience of working on the stage, I would tend to advise exiting stage right, not left- stage left tends to be to dressing rooms and Fire Exit, however, stage right tends to have the short cut to the theatre bar!!! X

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I suppose you could say oh bitch im giving it my all here so join in or fuck off

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"If life gives you potatoes make chunky chips.

Anyone just lying there would be really of putting to me... I would be likely to make my excuses to exit stage left.

Yea if they exit my bedroom stage left they're jumping out my window, so I'd advise exiting to the right too, using the stairs is much safer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stick it up her bum with out warning?

Yep, that would definitely wake me up!

I'm available for alarm calls :p

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By *oyuer99Man over a year ago

PRESTON

I suspect you need a stunt double

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah happened few times to me too, they just lay like a log but great bj lol. They are very passive like a sub in away, quick shag and it doesn't bother me as it a tick of the old bed post

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

It's a quandary and no mistake. I have been known to feel guilty after a meet I and someone else thoroughly enjoyed since I spent part of it tied up and unable to move around a bit. I am naturally lazy so I loved it though.

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently?

First sentence gets a

from me. Ask what we like, if possible, before the meet.

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I tried to reply to your message but it won't let me now. J x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hell, they're lucky I even agreed to meet them, let alone let them fuck me.

Why I should actually do anything while they fuck me is a step too far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bloody hell, they're lucky I even agreed to meet them, let alone let them fuck me.

Why I should actually do anything while they fuck me is a step too far

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PP I would actually put them on top of a truck heading to Dover and send them back to France where they came from or take them down the morgue they could be dead xxx

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"I suppose you could say oh bitch im giving it my all here so join in or fuck off

Yeah, but I could never speak to a lady like that...

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"If life gives you potatoes make chunky chips.

Anyone just lying there would be really of putting to me... I would be likely to make my excuses to exit stage left.

Yea if they exit my bedroom stage left they're jumping out my window, so I'd advise exiting to the right too, using the stairs is much safer

Lol

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I would try get her more involved and talk to her about what she likes when having fun and what she might like to try out. Has this happened to you recently?

First sentence gets a

from me. Ask what we like, if possible, before the meet.

I tried to reply to your message but it won't let me now. J x "

Well in fairness, she only said she liked that sound of that, she never said she wanted to receive it from you

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!"

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

Maybe she doesn't fancy you after all

Hah

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Hard finger blast or tea bagging

Music to my ears ! What modern woman doesn't enjoy a dam good tea bagging!?"

more a coffee woman myself lol

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Make a note to yourself to use less chloroform next time

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By *ivWoman over a year ago

Carmarthen

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By *ivWoman over a year ago

Carmarthen

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

Surely this conversation happens before a meet ?!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Admittedly I'm not sure if you're taking the peas, (admittedly it wouldn't be a turnip for the books) but if one of you is laying there like a sack of spuds, while the other is treating them like a piece of meat, perhaps the onus should be on someone to offer a carrot (instead of a stick) Otherwise it's bound to be a recipe for getting in a right pickle. Afterall what's sauce for the goose...

Obviously I've never bean in such a grave(y) situation though, mainly cos I know my onions.

(sorry)

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

Surely this conversation happens before a meet ?!"

What the "I think you're a bit shit at this sex lark" conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?"

Yes you're right. I feel sorry for those poor women that have to force themselves to suck on a guys cock. After all, it isn't lady like to take a cock in ones mouth. Eurgh!! It doesn't get more degrading! Have a word with yourself

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Maybe its her way of saying she wants to be roasted ?

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By *illyjohnyCouple over a year ago

brighton

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"
What's it like to fuck a sack of spuds does it chaff your dick

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

Surely this conversation happens before a meet ?!"

No because until they've shagged them they don't know how shit they are

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?"

Personally I'd choose tidbit, a lovely word

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?"

Yes. Women aren't the victims when it comes to having sex. We've come a long way from the good old days when it was a woman's duty to satisfy her man. Women these days perform a sexual act because they want to. So yes have a word with yourself to remind yourself it's 2015 !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh a bit of catyness there.

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

The pleasure should be mutual. Like the saying goes "it takes two to tango!" So both should contribute to the experience as it's shared.

Having said that, some people are simply not in synch with each other sexually. Oh well!

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By *onia1969Woman over a year ago

Bridgwater

"We boil and mash em"

Lol got to peel them first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The pleasure should be mutual. Like the saying goes "it takes two to tango!" So both should contribute to the experience as it's shared.

Having said that, some people are simply not in synch with each other sexually. Oh well!

I got a stich so made her go on top

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?"
what are you on about, I'm sure you will find most women will do something because they want to not because its a duty, and if they are doing it out of duty more fool them

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

More than happy to suck cock. It's more the attitude of the guy not even touching me but expecting me to unzip and service him. Isn't it a mutual thing having sex? Unless it's been agreed first of course.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?What's it like to fuck a sack of spuds does it chaff your dick

not sure but I once got frostbite from shagging a bag of frozen chips

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

You leave with your tail between your legs like a scorned dog realizing your technic has done one of two things.

ether sent her to sleep or bored her to death ether way its your queue to leave and not come back until you know what your doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it "

He also said he felt like he was degrading the lady...which would only be the case if the woman didn't want to do it, surely?

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By *onia1969Woman over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

Have a chat first to relax and find out likes and dislikes.

If then she still lays there like a sack of potatoes.... Suggest different positions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will stop fucking her, get off of her, roll on to my back and tell her to hop on top and ride me. Thats the simple answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tickle and fuck skills lacking sir?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it

He also said he felt like he was degrading the lady...which would only be the case if the woman didn't want to do it, surely?"

Which is consistent with him saying he can't understand why a woman would want to do it...

Tbh it's not exactly surprising that a straight man finds the thought of sucking cock unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cover them in gravy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it "

To me, it read like he thinks women are too ladylike to really enjoy sucking cock and it's just a way to degrade them.

I may be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the ones that only stay hard in ur mouth n go soft in ur cunt that perplex me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's the ones that only stay hard in ur mouth n go soft in ur cunt that perplex me

Depending on position it's much easier to think about someone you fancy during a blow job than during sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which is consistent with him saying he can't understand why a woman would want to do it...

Tbh it's not exactly surprising that a straight man finds the thought of sucking cock unpleasant."

No it isn't. But to think that women get no pleasure from it and to say that he doesn't understand why women do it, I just find a bit odd. It very much came across like "i have loads of respect for women and wouldn't dream of asking them to do something so degrading". that's how I took it anyway hence why I said what I said.

Anyway I'm having my sack of spuds roasted with strangled chicken that's what I'd do with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's the ones that only stay hard in ur mouth n go soft in ur cunt that perplex me

Depending on position it's much easier to think about someone you fancy during a blow job than during sex "

Lmao I asked for that didn't I xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

I leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

question myself as to why am I not doing my job its up to me to get her motor running ,

easy way to get her moveing is to put her on her knees and give her a nice spanking that will warm her up and get her squirming, hee hee

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it

To me, it read like he thinks women are too ladylike to really enjoy sucking cock and it's just a way to degrade them.

I may be wrong

That's basically how I feel- I don't enjoy it because I'm sure she can't be wanting to do it. I feel like a horrible person if I enjoy it. I really don't think I'm making this clear am I? I must apologise if I'm offending anybody , man or woman...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's the ones that only stay hard in ur mouth n go soft in ur cunt that perplex me

Depending on position it's much easier to think about someone you fancy during a blow job than during sex "

And you don't have to look at her face during a bj

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By *ighting17thMan over a year ago

Bodmin

Which is consistent with him saying he can't understand why a woman would want to do it...

Tbh it's not exactly surprising that a straight man finds the thought of sucking cock unpleasant.

Anyway I'm having my sack of spuds roasted with strangled chicken that's what I'd do with them

You put that better than I could - that's basically how I feel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys just lie there and expect a bj..there are selfish people of both sexes. Sometimes I think it's just what people are used to doing!

I never could expect a bj.

To be honest, I can't relax and 'enjoy' it as I feel that I am degrading the lady as I honestly can't see how she can possibly want to be doing it.

I like ( or LOVE ) giving her oral and I often wonder if she feels the same about it as I do?

Am I thinking too hard?

Have a word with myself?

Which has nothing at all to do with what he said.

He said he couldn't understand how a woman could want to do it

To me, it read like he thinks women are too ladylike to really enjoy sucking cock and it's just a way to degrade them.

I may be wrong

You need to change your mindset then because lots of women love doing it.

And not enjoying it is a bit of a slap in the face to the woman giving you the bj. It's a turn on knowing you're doing something that brings pleasure to a man. So bloody well enjoy it

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Make a note to yourself to use less chloroform next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

You've blown it up too tight, let some air out of her, hey presto!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least she's in bed with you, otherwise you'd have another couch potato on your hands!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's the ones that only stay hard in ur mouth n go soft in ur cunt that perplex me

Depending on position it's much easier to think about someone you fancy during a blow job than during sex

And you don't have to look at her face during a bj

Ok ok ok I get the hint......

*goes to find the paper bags*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We boil and mash em"

made me really lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I,ll done sack of spuds with my ex husband...

All In the hope it was done quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could never happen. I'm too good.

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

My valet says my wifes like that.

Very worrying. Would be jolly hard to replace him.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What sort of spuds?

Seriously? Sometimes being still is the RIGHT position to get what I need but I communicate that and reciprocate with something that meets their needs.

If you've got a sack of spuds you're not happy with then be polite, leave and go and find some runner beans.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"
you didn't say if she was tied up and couldn't move ,bound and gagged so to speak ,I've only come across this once and she was liverpudlian enough said

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By *ieutenantMan over a year ago

london

How come if men mention the weak spot of women.You will be branded as misogynist.wheras misandrist synonyms is most associated with most female critics.we should be fair and balance .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How come if men mention the weak spot of women.You will be branded as misogynist.wheras misandrist synonyms is most associated with most female critics.we should be fair and balance ."
yes I agree most women tell me they love me so to address the balance we ought to tell them wether we mean it or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would say i think u better leave right before it gos any deeper lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i would say i think u better leave right before it gos any deeper lol"
I love you foxy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like u2 trademark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Peel the outer layers off,give them a good roasting then eat them. Simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep a bottle of tabasco by the bed.

Dab a bit on my finger and slide it up her pooper.

That usually makes her move a bit

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By *eforfuncplCouple over a year ago

Morecambe

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

Perhaps a finger shoved in ones ass get her moving a little lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is precisely the reason my mate Merv the Perv got sacked from his job at the undertakers

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

After ensnaring a lovely sub girl, think I'm gonna have to give her the heave ho for being a sack of spuds.

I'm a top but still want passion, not a passive princess

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"After ensnaring a lovely sub girl, think I'm gonna have to give her the heave ho for being a sack of spuds.

I'm a top but still want passion, not a passive princess "

Ha ah, that brought a wry smile

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

I'm going to have to defend the "I always make sure the lady is satisfied before I think of my pleasure" school of thought... Numerous times over the decades I've proved if you ensure the woman is fully satisfied she invariably will reciprocate in ways she never thought she would, or does things she categorically stated she wouldn't do.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

But how do you know how to ensure the woman is fully satisfied if she doesn't take responsibility for telling you? I agree though that a man making the effort to listen and find out is a powerful aphrodisiac.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

You might be talking about my first wife

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I've had sex with 2 Japanese people - one man, one woman - and both just lay there.

I mean just totally did nothing except breathe, like some freaky life-sized doll, while I attempted to arrange them.

Just weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After ensnaring a lovely sub girl, think I'm gonna have to give her the heave ho for being a sack of spuds.

I'm a top but still want passion, not a passive princess "

can do a lot from underneath -

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

Not to blow my own trumpet (ribs get in the way) but I'm quite adept at reading reactions. Plus, I'm all for communication, likes and dislikes, beforehand. And, if necessary, during and after.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

Not to blow my own trumpet (ribs get in the way) but I'm quite adept at reading reactions. Plus, I'm all for communication, likes and dislikes, beforehand. And, if necessary, during and after."

I suspect that we're probably in broad agreement on this

just approaching it from different angles.

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

I would take the time to talk to them ask them what turns them on and kiss/touch eroginous zones and find out what hits the spot. Having said that some women do just lay there no matter what you do

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

Sex, any sex is about all parties taking responsibility for their own pleasure in my opinion. Some people will still be crap though

Not to blow my own trumpet (ribs get in the way) but I'm quite adept at reading reactions. Plus, I'm all for communication, likes and dislikes, beforehand. And, if necessary, during and after.

I suspect that we're probably in broad agreement on this

just approaching it from different angles. "

I'll grab my protractor and see if we can discover some new ones

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

You might be talking about my first wife "

And mine !

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Can't help thinking a well placed cattle prod might bring about a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had sex with 2 Japanese people - one man, one woman - and both just lay there.

I mean just totally did nothing except breathe, like some freaky life-sized doll, while I attempted to arrange them.

Just weird. "

Sounds like the film "Zardoz".

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By *alisburycplCouple over a year ago

Salisbury

Agree.if no cattle prod.a well placed finger should get some sort of response!

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By *sianmale89Man over a year ago

Stockport

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?"

you wait till she falls asleep then you gently bite her on the side of her neck like a vampire and suck all her blood...

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

This only happened to me once, in in club.

A couple came into a room as I was getting my breath back, th male and I talked, the lady barely said a word. He said she was shy, so fair enough. Then she lies back and he starts kissing her nipple, so I think I'm in for a nice show. But the guy is motioning me to her other nipple with his eyes.

So, off I go, but there was no feedback whatsoever from her. I tried working my way down to see if I got told to stop and get back to the boob. Nothing.

The guy pulls her knickers aside, so I give her a little lick, then I lot more little licks. Still nothing.

So I stopped, and left them to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This only happened to me once, in in club.

So, off I go, but there was no feedback whatsoever from her. I tried working my way down to see if I got told to stop and get back to the boob. Nothing.

The guy pulls her knickers aside, so I give her a little lick, then I lot more little licks. Still nothing.

So I stopped, and left them to it.

Sounds like she might have been a zombie. Did any bits come off in your mouth?

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By *ivWoman over a year ago

Carmarthen

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

Surely this conversation happens before a meet ?!

What the "I think you're a bit shit at this sex lark" conversation?"

no, the, 'so what are you into?' conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you just get it over with and get the hell outta dodge? Or spend time communicating with them, bringing them out of their shell to let them learn that it's "ok" to move around a bit?

I was just about to ask "what if she just lay there because that's where you tied her?"!

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