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over a year ago
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Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand. |
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"Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand."
Is that a challenge? |
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"Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand."
Probably because you allow you mind to wander I can't orgasm if my mind is elsewhere instead of in the moment and I find it hard to believe that if she's amazing at it your mind still wanders I'm only thinking about other things if the person mediocre or worse |
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No.
A bad BJ is just not worth it.
Unfortunately i have experienced too many from ladies at parties and clubs. Like the thread about single guys not being good, same holds true for the ladies.
good sex technique has to be learnt.
i have had ladies give me BJ'S that were so bad i asked them to stop. Yet others have had me coming multiple times.
There's good and bad with both sexes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Blow-Job....is Better Than No Blow Job.. x
A few of us would say not if its a bad one!"
I'd say lots would say not if it's a bad one if they're being honest. I've rarely had a good one that makes me cum. Most in my experience can't give a bj that holds your attention long enough...I end up wanking anyway to finish it off. |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand.
Is that a challenge?"
Same here never been able to cum through oral and some have been amazing. Would love a woman to make me cum without my help. So that is a challenge. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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I've never had a orgasm from oral sex ( I know some of you will be rolling your eyes at this thinking pull the other one its got bells on but its true )for that reason and that reason only if I'm after a orgasm i'd go for a wank .if its a intimate sensual experience I'm after i'd go for the blow job even a bad one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....still better than a good wank?  "
no last bad bj i had she drew blood where tooth sliced side of my head didnt feel it at first but when we see blood in her mouth it turned both our guts over and the nxt couple days with a mini slit on side of helmet and sting when pissing rather have a wank thanks.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And some girls can do amazing things with their tongues luv deep throat and see girl gag n my missis deos this tongue thing and i judder especialy when she swallows! Like im having a sexalepptic fit!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just as men need to learn how to get a lady to cum, so do ladies need to learn how to get men to cum. My wife gives great bj's and is known for being able to drain a bloke dry. But it took her years of practice to get it right. I have had some bj's that yes I have thought does this person know anything about bj's?
Actually had one lady who honestly thought you blew!  |
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"Just as men need to learn how to get a lady to cum, so do ladies need to learn how to get men to cum. My wife gives great bj's and is known for being able to drain a bloke dry. But it took her years of practice to get it right. I have had some bj's that yes I have thought does this person know anything about bj's?
Actually had one lady who honestly thought you blew! "
To be fair to her if you have no experience how would you do it when it's called a BLOW job? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just as men need to learn how to get a lady to cum, so do ladies need to learn how to get men to cum. My wife gives great bj's and is known for being able to drain a bloke dry. But it took her years of practice to get it right. I have had some bj's that yes I have thought does this person know anything about bj's?
Actually had one lady who honestly thought you blew!
To be fair to her if you have no experience how would you do it when it's called a BLOW job? "
Blow job is a contraction, it started out being called a below job because the prostitutes who named it would work below, and it became blow job because of accents language etc. over time. |
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"Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand."
Hit the nail on the head m8. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just as men need to learn how to get a lady to cum, so do ladies need to learn how to get men to cum. My wife gives great bj's and is known for being able to drain a bloke dry. But it took her years of practice to get it right. I have had some bj's that yes I have thought does this person know anything about bj's?
Actually had one lady who honestly thought you blew!
To be fair to her if you have no experience how would you do it when it's called a BLOW job?
Blow job is a contraction, it started out being called a below job because the prostitutes who named it would work below, and it became blow job because of accents language etc. over time."
Love learning new facts like this
I would rather the guy tell me if he wasn't enjoying rather than let me think I was pleasuring him , but never had any complaints .... YET!! Lol
Will be giving them closer eye contact in future to make sure their mind isn't wandering
A xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer a good wank!
Although I wouldn't turn down a bj, never seem to find the right person for it to be fully enjoyable to the end.
I have had some good ones, but never cum from one yet!
One day maybe..... |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"A bad bliwjob is a complete waste of time. Number one rule, if you don't enjoy doing it the recipient can tell so don't waste anyone's time by trying to pretend you do....  "
Quite correct I can tell every time whether the girl does it because she likes doing it finds it a turn on or whether she doing because its expected . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had a bad blow job and THE most amazing blow job in the same night (2 different people) the difference was that one was doing it for them and the other was doing it for me.
I suppose an orgasm is about working the brain and getting into head space, not just physical!
Jen
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always had a lot compliments from the blowies I give. I think it's dependant on if you enjoy giving them. But I made a mistake at a club once and gave a blowie to a man i didnt fancy, just because his wife was seeing to my hubby. He didn't even get properly hard. I was so embarrassed. I will never do that again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bad blow job is worse than no blow job. A good wank can be fantastic, though in all honesty I've only met 2 woman that I could say know how to give a good wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bad blow job is worse than no blow job. A good wank can be fantastic, though in all honesty I've only met 2 woman that I could say know how to give a good wank. "
I always think wats the point in the female trying to give a guy a hand job ... Ive no clue and you probably perfected it in your early teens!
However im pretty sure ive had more practice with my mouth than you have ( unless your extra flexible ha) so i know what id rather be giving .... How good i am is probably not for me to say and seems to vary from person to person and what they like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always think wats the point in the female trying to give a guy a hand job ... Ive no clue and you probably perfected it in your early teens!
However im pretty sure ive had more practice with my mouth than you have ( unless your extra flexible ha) so i know what id rather be giving .... How good i am is probably not for me to say and seems to vary from person to person and what they like "
Haha its so true, its a struggle for me to cum from a wank from a woman where as I think I could get one off in 3 minutes flat(This is in no way connected to my staying power during sex) however a shit wank from a woman can be boosted by the presence of her face/tits so despite what I've said previously i still take a shit sank from a woman over a dyi job and most definietly a good blow job comes before that. Infact I find sometimes a blowjob is better than full sex. Though a shit blowjob comes bottom of everything cos that's just frustration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"however a shit wank from a woman can be boosted by the presence of her face/tits so despite what I've said previously i still take a shit sank from a woman over a dyi job."
Dammit! I dont have much boobs and like to wear one of those butterfly masks from last nights webcam couples show to preserve my anonymity .... Probably best to stick to B&Q then |
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"What makes a good one then !?"
Not scraping it agonisingly with your teeth?
Not trying to force yourself to deep throat it when you can't which just results in your teeth being rammed incredibly painfully into the Base of it.
Not getting frustrated and being to want it so hard that on the down stroke it feels like your gonna peal it like a banana.
Generally just keep it pain free |
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"What makes a good one then !?
Not scraping it agonisingly with your teeth?
Not trying to force yourself to deep throat it when you can't which just results in your teeth being rammed incredibly painfully into the Base of it.
Not getting frustrated and being to want it so hard that on the down stroke it feels like your gonna peal it like a banana.
Generally just keep it pain free"
Well said.
In a nutshell, teeth on a cock constitutes is a big no-no.
Don't wank the cock by grabbing too hard. In fact, no pulling at all, just glide your hands up and down the cock and make it very very sloppy. You can never fail if you do the above!
Most women have no idea that every man likes it different and one technique doesn't fit all. Don't assume you are good because one person liked it. |
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"What makes a good one then !?
Not scraping it agonisingly with your teeth?
Not trying to force yourself to deep throat it when you can't which just results in your teeth being rammed incredibly painfully into the Base of it.
Not getting frustrated and being to want it so hard that on the down stroke it feels like your gonna peal it like a banana.
Generally just keep it pain free"
Personally I love a really hard down stroke, but the opposite a really hard pull is so painful. Happened to me s few times in clubs. 
The golden rule to an amazing blow job - enjoy it!
There is nothing worse, whatever the technique, in getting the impression she doesn't want to do it. Then, It really is a case of please, just stop.
D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've not found a guy that I can't finish.
Me neither! I'm surprised how many haven't cum or at least had to stop it as was about to cum.  "
For good reason...not all men will admit to the girls she's not doing much to him...I know some girls here have said they'd rather know....but the chance then of the night going pear shaped is high....better say nothing or say she's good and then get on with the nice stuff wouldn't you say? Tell a girl she's not doing it right and most will have their confidence knocked. Good sex starts with a good frame of mind x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had the worst BJ ever a few weeks ago. Was at a club when this other TV started to suck me off. Had to tell her to stop, as it was just painful. It was really awful. However I'll take a good one over a wank, anytime!
Claire
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had the worst BJ ever a few weeks ago. Was at a club when this other TV started to suck me off. Had to tell her to stop, as it was just painful. It was really awful. However I'll take a good one over a wank, anytime!
Claire
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Absolutely an amazing blow job is better than any wank luckily my last blow job was absolutely heavenly |
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"Had the worst BJ ever a few weeks ago. Was at a club when this other TV started to suck me off. Had to tell her to stop, as it was just painful. It was really awful. However I'll take a good one over a wank, anytime!
Claire
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Absolutely an amazing blow job is better than any wank luckily my last blow job was absolutely heavenly "
Thank you very much xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally..no...blowjobs...even good ones aren't better than a good wank, no one knows my cock better than me and blowjobs get a little boring after a while..the mind wanders...no matter how amazing a woman thinks she is at giving head there really isn't much difference..im yet to meet a woman that has made me cum with oral sex without me stepping in and giving a helping hand.
Probably because you allow you mind to wander I can't orgasm if my mind is elsewhere instead of in the moment and I find it hard to believe that if she's amazing at it your mind still wanders I'm only thinking about other things if the person mediocre or worse "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got a friend that can't get hard without a blowjob but I've never cum from one and although ok has never blown my mind. I've cum like a train from a hand job so in my opinion good handjob beats crap blowjob |
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