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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Once we have read the profile and looked at the photos we make an instant decision whether we would like to send a message, how long it takes to write that message is another matter. |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Once we have read the profile and looked at the photos we make an instant decision whether we would like to send a message, how long it takes to write that message is another matter. "
Oh why so? Are you a long message sender? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once profile pics have been viewed and profile read in full, I'm often ready to text right away if Im attracted to the faber and think I've got a realistic chance in a reply |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Usually message after a couple of minutes. It doesnt hurt to say hello and what is the worst thing that can happen, they say no."
The worst they can say is 'er I used to be a stripper why would I want a fat thing' E was not happy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still find it difficult to message men. Am I too old fashioned?"
Just say hello, they will be shocked they got a message!! By messaging someone it does not mean you will be jumping into bed with them tomorrow. Dont be shy |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
UTTOXETER |
"I still find it difficult to message men. Am I too old fashioned?"
No I don't find you old fashioned. You use the site how you feel comfortable. There must be lots of ladies like you judging my the number of views I get and no messages lol |
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"Just say hello, they will be shocked they got a message!! By messaging someone it does not mean you will be jumping into bed with them tomorrow. Dont be shy"
It still feels too assertive to me. I am confident in real life but not on here it seems |
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Often I will make a quick decision that I want to write to a lady or couple but I might not be able to do so there and then. I might want to take time to think about my message or could have spotted the profile on my break at work, on a packed train or during a social gathering where I would feel it rude to start writing a long message.
Usually I hotlist them for later. Might end up being days or even weeks. |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"I dare you!!
Pick a guy and send him a message.
He'll probably think its too good to be true and therefore that you must be a bloke but you have literally nothing to lose"
Funnily enough we've done that tonight regarding another post and he doesn't seem sure, maybe he didn't like our profile lol x |
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It depends,
It could be weeks...
if I like a profile, I usually add them to my Hotlist. re-read it a couples of times to ascertain their likes / desires and what we have in common and then pen something which explains why I want to meet them in particular.
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"It depends,
It could be weeks...
if I like a profile, I usually add them to my Hotlist. re-read it a couples of times to ascertain their likes / desires and what we have in common and then pen something which explains why I want to meet them in particular.
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That sounds like a lot of work, does it pay off? Xx |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"I'm quick. If I've taken a decision, it's only to communicate, I'm not mailing my keys, for them to pop over for guaranteed sex, whenever it's fancied."
Yeah true, I keep leaping into diaster lol x |
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