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Very inexperienced and taking a chance on here...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I decided to take a chance on here and create a profile. I am very inexperienced male when coming to woman or sex as I lack confident and never had girlfriends.
So I decided to create this profile and try my luck on here. I am finding that I am very cautious and prefer to chat before meeting. Which doesnt help as most people here I find like to move fast and meet up for fun which is too fast for me.
I know most of you will probably say this site is not for me and i should try a dating site or club but I prefer to be on here as I dont want a relationship.
So looking for females or couples who wouldnt mind my inexperience and also looking for friends on here to chat with and help.
I know most people will be put off by my inexperience so Im looking for those that arent... |
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Just to reassure you - there are several other deaf people on here including me. I have no idea what's going on, without my hearing aids. Which I have to take out before a guy gives me a facial!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you make this clear in your message to people so they can make an informed decision.
You may find you flush out women who like the idea of helping you.
Otherwise making friends in here may also help.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, I decided to take a chance on here and create a profile. I am very inexperienced male when coming to woman or sex as I lack confident and never had girlfriends.
So I decided to create this profile and try my luck on here. I am finding that I am very cautious and prefer to chat before meeting. Which doesnt help as most people here I find like to move fast and meet up for fun which is too fast for me.
I know most of you will probably say this site is not for me and i should try a dating site or club but I prefer to be on here as I dont want a relationship.
So looking for females or couples who wouldnt mind my inexperience and also looking for friends on here to chat with and help.
I know most people will be put off by my inexperience so Im looking for those that arent..."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you make this clear in your message to people so they can make an informed decision.
You may find you flush out women who like the idea of helping you.
Otherwise making friends in here may also help.
Good luck x"
That was my intention to find people who wouldnt mind my inexperience and also just make friends to chat with... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you make this clear in your message to people so they can make an informed decision.
You may find you flush out women who like the idea of helping you.
Otherwise making friends in here may also help.
Good luck x
That was my intention to find people who wouldnt mind my inexperience and also just make friends to chat with..."
I'm not one to give advice normally, but take your time, don't set yourself any arbitrary goals or expectations, just relax and be yourself and let your personality come through on these forums as a first step.
Build up your profile over time and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you make this clear in your message to people so they can make an informed decision.
You may find you flush out women who like the idea of helping you.
Otherwise making friends in here may also help.
Good luck x
That was my intention to find people who wouldnt mind my inexperience and also just make friends to chat with...
I'm not one to give advice normally, but take your time, don't set yourself any arbitrary goals or expectations, just relax and be yourself and let your personality come through on these forums as a first step.
Build up your profile over time and take it from there. "
thanks thats good advice..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agreed we all started somewhere - my first social in swinging club I was walking around with a stiffy....and didn't know where to look
I would take things slowly and relax...get to know people "
Thats what I hope to do, hopefully it will work out |
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