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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting  "
Upsetting but perhaps understandable. Many people want to keep their swinging life quite separate from their real life, and this couple may have enjoyed being with you but felt a crossover coming. |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
Upsetting but perhaps understandable. Many people want to keep their swinging life quite separate from their real life, and this couple may have enjoyed being with you but felt a crossover coming."
But they suggested the cross over, they said they wanted both and we're our age and everything xx |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Maybe they just didn't feel the same but didn't know how to say it? So they came off as nice, and then blocked because it's easier for them?
-Courtney"
But they started the whole thing, pics were good, verifications were good and today blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes they can accidentely block when replying. I think that if you do want to block someone, you should be prompted with a box to put a reason in. Then the recipient understands why, and your not left wondering. I was chatting wiwh a cpl, exchanged pics etc, all going well, had a reply to a message and found out i was blocked. Still dont know why ! |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Sometimes they can accidentely block when replying. I think that if you do want to block someone, you should be prompted with a box to put a reason in. Then the recipient understands why, and your not left wondering. I was chatting wiwh a cpl, exchanged pics etc, all going well, had a reply to a message and found out i was blocked. Still dont know why !"
Yeah that's a good idea. I don't think that's what's happened as they've deleted all our messages xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes they can accidentely block when replying. I think that if you do want to block someone, you should be prompted with a box to put a reason in. Then the recipient understands why, and your not left wondering. I was chatting wiwh a cpl, exchanged pics etc, all going well, had a reply to a message and found out i was blocked. Still dont know why !"
we have said this - too easy to block and not realise - need a confirm you want to do this option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think maybe only one half knew? Sometimes Marc talks to a couple and when I see them I decide they aren't for me, so it then seems like we've changed our minds.
-Courtney |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Do you think maybe only one half knew? Sometimes Marc talks to a couple and when I see them I decide they aren't for me, so it then seems like we've changed our minds.
-Courtney"
Well I was talking to her only hmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think maybe only one half knew? Sometimes Marc talks to a couple and when I see them I decide they aren't for me, so it then seems like we've changed our minds.
-Courtney
Well I was talking to her only hmmm"
Might be jealousy by one of them afterwards. Do not worry though, when I was part of a couple we made several friends from swinging. We stayed in each other houses, our friends met them and we all socialised as well as having sex. But then some of them fell out with each other, even though they introduced us. Bonkers!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting "
Sorry to hear this.....for some friendship works outside the fun side. I have exactly this and feel blessed. The couple i see have become great friends and i often pop in for coffee even when there are other people there. It is all about being able to separate the two dynamics out from each other, being respectful of the boundaroes and ultimately being yourself. I would not change what we have developed (not what i was looking for on fabs) for the world. They are a fantastic couple.....so you caN be both friends on both side of the normal and swinging fence |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
Sorry to hear this.....for some friendship works outside the fun side. I have exactly this and feel blessed. The couple i see have become great friends and i often pop in for coffee even when there are other people there. It is all about being able to separate the two dynamics out from each other, being respectful of the boundaroes and ultimately being yourself. I would not change what we have developed (not what i was looking for on fabs) for the world. They are a fantastic couple.....so you caN be both friends on both side of the normal and swinging fence"
And could you pop round for solo shag with Mrs when you wanted? Xx |
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"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting "
That's a strange thing for them to do but I can only think they thought they were starting to like you too much and didn't want to have a friends friendship and didn't want to get emotionally involved. |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
That's a strange thing for them to do but I can only think they thought they were starting to like you too much and didn't want to have a friends friendship and didn't want to get emotionally involved. "
I guess I'll never know xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
Sorry to hear this.....for some friendship works outside the fun side. I have exactly this and feel blessed. The couple i see have become great friends and i often pop in for coffee even when there are other people there. It is all about being able to separate the two dynamics out from each other, being respectful of the boundaroes and ultimately being yourself. I would not change what we have developed (not what i was looking for on fabs) for the world. They are a fantastic couple.....so you caN be both friends on both side of the normal and swinging fence
And could you pop round for solo shag with Mrs when you wanted? Xx "
Yes ...is encouraged to be honest.....but love it also when we are a 3 as well. Looking for other couples to make it a 5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting "
The problem us the fact you talked for hours .
Try just establishing contact and saying you can talk more when you meet .
Way too many on here are into whiling away the time with chat and don't meet . |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
The problem us the fact you talked for hours .
Try just establishing contact and saying you can talk more when you meet .
Way too many on here are into whiling away the time with chat and don't meet ."
Oh really? Is that a thing? Do you think they were never going to meet?
They had a few verifications xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Second thoughts?
Got bored?
Just humouring you?
Did it by accident?
Got a kick out of it?
Point is it could be anything so don't bother worrying over. You can't change it now so chalk it up to experience. |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Second thoughts?
Got bored?
Just humouring you?
Did it by accident?
Got a kick out of it?
Point is it could be anything so don't bother worrying over. You can't change it now so chalk it up to experience. "
True. So is having a real friend on fab "a double edged sword"? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they just didn't feel the same but didn't know how to say it? So they came off as nice, and then blocked because it's easier for them?
-Courtney
But they started the whole thing, pics were good, verifications were good and today blocked"
Words on a screen are easy...Actions are sometimes more accurate to interpret |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Maybe they just didn't feel the same but didn't know how to say it? So they came off as nice, and then blocked because it's easier for them?
-Courtney
But they started the whole thing, pics were good, verifications were good and today blocked
Words on a screen are easy...Actions are sometimes more accurate to interpret"
Yes but they had verification, who I happen to speak to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Second thoughts?
Got bored?
Just humouring you?
Did it by accident?
Got a kick out of it?
Point is it could be anything so don't bother worrying over. You can't change it now so chalk it up to experience.
True. So is having a real friend on fab "a double edged sword"? Xx"
No we have people on here who we consider friends now. We also like fucking them. No downside |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Second thoughts?
Got bored?
Just humouring you?
Did it by accident?
Got a kick out of it?
Point is it could be anything so don't bother worrying over. You can't change it now so chalk it up to experience.
True. So is having a real friend on fab "a double edged sword"? Xx
No we have people on here who we consider friends now. We also like fucking them. No downside "
Oh cool, good for you, nice to see it can work xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently we've had a few couples who could actually be friends in real life.
we spoke to one couple last night for hours and woke up this morning to be blocked.
how upsetting
Upsetting but perhaps understandable. Many people want to keep their swinging life quite separate from their real life, and this couple may have enjoyed being with you but felt a crossover coming."
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