 |
By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
I've been here a week well just over I'm really enjoying the forums on here a real insight into different outlooks and kind of addictive for some strange reason .
But and this is not a criticism of anyone more like a criticism of the swinging vibe if you will.
I like intimacy call me weak but I like the warmth of intimacy .
yes I like bondage, s/m, rough sex, spanking ,hair pulling ,role play and being intimate with another mans wife .
You noticed I said intimate and not fucking another mans wife its a mind set I seem to have I want her to be my friend my girl and because of how my sexuality works my fuck toy .i would want the exact same experience with a single woman to.
I'm not saying they have to be mine exclusively although I have entered into a fuck buddy arrangement where we were exclusive apart from our other half's of coarse to each other .plus i dated one lovely women with her husbands consent and knowledge even going out for drinks as a threesome although the sex was strictly between his wife and me he was in the house but never in the room with us .
This is my first time on a true swingers site I normally use site more designed around naughty dating but a friend gave me a link to here so here I am .
What I'm saying is I'm not the kind of guy who would ever pay for sex because its fake a business arrangement . I find that thought cold and a complete turn off .
The same as the idea of just turning up dropping my trousers and getting to work then leaving to never see her again its to cold for my tastes there's no connection and there for a turn off to me.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with people who enjoy their sex like that after all different courses for different horses .
I'm just saying its not for me and I may be wrong in my thinking here but from reading profiles I get a business like vibe about the sex on offer.
Am I a freak or do others feel this vibe running through a lot of profiles ....?
am I in the minority on here being a man with a dominate nature who wants his girl his lover not only on a physical level but a intimate one too.
That thought leads to the next one can I guy like me find what he's looking for on a swinging site ...?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Emotions connected to sex are mixed dont fall in love quickly , u can be great friends yet make mistake of intamacy and friendship gone , can accidently connect through meeting for sex , it all fate , cud get on with someone do deed then spark and tension gone connection happen if ment to ,wud rather not have feelings as that when get selfish and complicated , sorry but fun not havin to answer to any one but your self , |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We are somewhere in the middle, we like there to be connection a bit of laugh and conversation, but that is it, to me it feels weird when the person tries to be Mrs ls friend asking how her days been and shit like that, it doesn't feel right and puts me off them
We are here to share our bodies Mrs ls mind and soul are mine and not to be shared, |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
I hate the first meet trousers down sorta thing.