I would describe a swingers club as like any other pub/club on first glance (at least those we've been to) but with optional (possible) extras and usually higher charges 
Give one a go and find out. |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"I would describe a swingers club as like any other pub/club on first glance (at least those we've been to) but with optional (possible) extras and usually higher charges
Give one a go and find out."
Exactly as it says above. Treat a party or club as a social night out with the chance of some extra fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found going to the clubs got us invited to parties.
It's a simple formula OP find a decent club from research and go along and enjoy. Doors may then open to other things. |
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It's pretty much as the others say. You'll get a great welcome from the staff, who'll explain things and likely show you around - it stops you stumbling around, feeling a bit lost.
Depending on the venue, you'll be able to have coffee/refreshments and potentially some alcohol. You could find yourself at the bar area, rubbing shoulders with others and you'll probably find people really friendly. You can chat small talk, maybe a little about being new, whatever.
If you venture further afield: and again this'll depend on the venue and layout, then you'll find a range of play environments and possibly people in different states of undress. Just keep yourself getting acquainted with the place and people/
I generally go to chill out, maybe meet some new people, use some facilities: maybe hot tubs or whatever's going.
Any contacts you make are great, and any fun you have is just a bonus. Plan on just going for an hour or so first time: it'll likely be longer, but I don't think hanging around a place potentially being viewed as desperate is good for you. Your first time can be exciting - you'll never have another one, so it's an eye opener. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't expect it to be wall to wall free sex. You still have to put the effort in. We see a lot of newbies who think that they will just be walking into an orgy like you see on Porn sites. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks for all the tips! Don't worry, I wasn't expecting to walk in to a place and have people falling over themselves to have sex with me!
It's sounds really exciting. Best do my research and find a good London based club to start! |
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