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Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not?? |
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over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not??"
No, it wouldn't.
-Courtney |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not??"
No, not at all - actual penetration does very little for me; I much prefer lots of foreplay as I'm a very tactile person! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I got chatting to someone and all they want is soft swing, it wouldn't be a problem. It should be about respect and if it was only penetration with a partner, then I would respect their wishes. |
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I prefer soft swing it's just really hard to find single guys into it, it seems to be more a couples thing as at least you can have a shag with your own partner, men don't seem to want soft swing on a 1 on 1 meet |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I prefer soft swing it's just really hard to find single guys into it, it seems to be more a couples thing as at least you can have a shag with your own partner, men don't seem to want soft swing on a 1 on 1 meet "
If I was truly single and meeting, I'd definitely want to meet you for a soft swinger (although I would not be soft) |
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"Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not??"
Not in the least ?? |
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"I've never yet left a restaurant after just having the starter
Although if the starter was really bad"
Yeah can understand that point of view from a single guy/woman but never thought of it as a meal for one before either. Most dinner guests cum for the company and if your hosting normally you're attentive enough to please the plate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have enjoyed 'soft swing' in an MF relationship - it was exceedingly pleasurable, laying there for hours just me touching her. We met several times and hopefully will do so again next time we are in the same part of the country. I would recommend it!
In an MMF scenario, I would enjoy it too - especially if I got to enjoy watching the couple enjoy each other afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we only soft swing , we much prefer touching teasing foreplay and penetration with own partner,
weve had meets with full swap cples and they have loved our soft play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We mostly soft swing but will full swap if it feels right. What really puts us off is when profiles say they only full swap. Always feels like you're signing up to do so in advance.
We'd never plough on regardless and neither of us will take one for the team so we prefer a more organic approach. After all surely full swing says you might and not that you will? |
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We both love loads of teasing, kissing and foreplay and agree penetration is only a small part of a great evening But.. we have have found it slightly awkward as if it's soft swing at what point do you swap back, although we play all together girls with girls, girls with boys, I'm always wondering has her partner had enough of me now & wants to have his wife back for the finale. Then I start worrying that my husband is hogging his wife and needs to let her back to her husband... and so on. With full swap I feel a lot more relaxed as no boundaries which can sometimes lead to sex with own partners but out of choice x |
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"Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not??"
As long as there is full play across all then it's OK, but we've had people use it as an excuse to not play fare with Mr. Rather they just tell us he's not their dort and we will find someone else instead of trying to play with me and expect him to just watch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find if there's no shag on offer guys tend to put more time and effort into other things, makes them use their imagination more, met loads of guys who just want to rush toward the fucking then stay their all night, I love loads of foreplay, I'm not really that keen on penatrive sex, I just find I don't enjoy it that much so would rather meet somebody who was also happy not to do it or who wanted very little and was happy to get pleasure in other ways, but they are very hard to find, most guys don't want to meet if there's isnt a shag on offer |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
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"I've never yet left a restaurant after just having the starter
Although if the starter was really bad"
In the 80s in Knightsbridge in London there was a restaurant called 'Menage a Trois'
It's adverts offered 'just starters and desserts - no intercourse' |
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We have had some very good soft meets and on reading the profile secplmerc we can't see any mention of soft in the text though to be honest we didn't read all the veris so poss a mention of what you really want in the text would assist?
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By (user no longer on site)
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We'd have a prob with soft swing, I know couples that soft swing and they all have different levels of what they do! Very confusing!!! Sorry full swing for us then we know where we stand  |
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"Hi just wondering how everyone view this. We've found different responses even different understanding of the status.
For the purpose of this please assume soft swing means own partner penetration the rest is on! Would this stop you wanting to meet them or not??"
Appreciate that you are not looking for single guys but the soft swing as in watching a couple play is a big fantasy x |
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We did soft swing for the first few months and no one had a problem with it, we still swapped many times. I have found the actual sex side of it is relatively short compared to the foreplay leading up to it so for me the playing about is the best part! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swing makes me feel like a fluffer.
It's like my role is to get the guy ready and horny for his wife to enjoy.
I don't enjoy being an appetizer ."
love you to be my main meal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I want to introduce someone to it. Thinking maybe club but for first few times chat and be friendly but just watch until she feels comfortable. I'd assume that's soft swinging. |
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If someone just wanted to meet in the pub for a chat about our experiences we would be up for that ,,,,, good to make lots of friends ,,,, not all meets have to end in bed |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer soft swing it's just really hard to find single guys into it, it seems to be more a couples thing as at least you can have a shag with your own partner, men don't seem to want soft swing on a 1 on 1 meet "
I'm happy to soft swing on 1 to 1 meets |
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