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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a bi guy, pretty much all of my sexual experiences have been with other men. As such, it means I'm a complete virgin when it comes to girls. Do girls/ladies enjoy 'teaching' newbies, or do they always prefer experienced men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the age of 27 your a complete virgin with girls, I would change your name to gaycraig not bi craig"
i think that is a very harsh thing to say, thier are guys who know thier bi/ bicur and have only ever played with women. all that means is growing up he may (probably did) have leaned more towards men.. or thought he was gay and realized "o hold on i still find women sexy" |
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"I wouldn't imagine there was much difference, its just a case of throwing your sausage down a different alley."
I think you should keep an eye on this thread... it sounds like you could do with a few teachers too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're probably best looking for younger girls. With them being less experienced themselves, they like to feel in control and like they know what they're doing. You'll probably find that going with a girl that is also a virgin is probably easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you, but I'll be ok.
I was more concerned with the poor alleys your sausage might get chucked down."
Ultimately, its none of your concern.
At the end of the day, assuming he's had penetration before, its unlikely that its going to be as big a deal as someone having sex (with any gender) for the first time. Relax, the theory is the same - it'll all be fine. |
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"Thank you, but I'll be ok.
I was more concerned with the poor alleys your sausage might get chucked down.
Ultimately, its none of your concern.
At the end of the day, assuming he's had penetration before, its unlikely that its going to be as big a deal as someone having sex (with any gender) for the first time. Relax, the theory is the same - it'll all be fine."
Yep ... poking your nob in is all there is to sex.... right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you, but I'll be ok.
I was more concerned with the poor alleys your sausage might get chucked down.
Ultimately, its none of your concern.
At the end of the day, assuming he's had penetration before, its unlikely that its going to be as big a deal as someone having sex (with any gender) for the first time. Relax, the theory is the same - it'll all be fine.
Yep ... poking your nob in is all there is to sex.... right "
Celery was intrigued by the idea that there was more to it than that....please help him....from Treacle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you, but I'll be ok.
I was more concerned with the poor alleys your sausage might get chucked down.
Ultimately, its none of your concern.
At the end of the day, assuming he's had penetration before, its unlikely that its going to be as big a deal as someone having sex (with any gender) for the first time. Relax, the theory is the same - it'll all be fine.
Yep ... poking your nob in is all there is to sex.... right "
He's had gay sex, I assume they have all the build up too, unless of course gays just cram their nobs into each other and run off home - I imagine the chances of him spaffing his love custard before he's got his little man out of his pants is an unlikely event - so all in all I don't think he's got much to worry about.
3 cheers for moral support  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He's had gay sex, I assume they have all the build up too, ...
And whilst I can't assume none of them were cunts, I can assume none of them had one."
Well all he can do is try - and since he's not your typical inexperienced virgin (he's had sex of one form of the other) I don't think trying it is such a big deal.
Theres been people who have been fucking for decades and still don't get it right - he's as good a chance as any. |
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"At the age of 27 your a complete virgin with girls, I would change your name to gaycraig not bi craig
i think that is a very harsh thing to say, thier are guys who know thier bi/ bicur and have only ever played with women. all that means is growing up he may (probably did) have leaned more towards men.. or thought he was gay and realized "o hold on i still find women sexy""
sorry but having read the op's profile, in which he says he is bi curious, not bi or gay but curious, yet admits to having most of his exp with men to us qualifies him as gay oh and not a woman in sight on his friends list mmm we all have our own opinions, but never met or heard of a 27 yr old guy who is a virgin with women unless its because he is gay, and even then a lot of gay guys have tried it with women at least once and found it wasnt for them |
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"At the age of 27 your a complete virgin with girls, I would change your name to gaycraig not bi craig
i think that is a very harsh thing to say, thier are guys who know thier bi/ bicur and have only ever played with women. all that means is growing up he may (probably did) have leaned more towards men.. or thought he was gay and realized "o hold on i still find women sexy"
sorry but having read the op's profile, in which he says he is bi curious, not bi or gay but curious, yet admits to having most of his exp with men to us qualifies him as gay oh and not a woman in sight on his friends list mmm we all have our own opinions, but never met or heard of a 27 yr old guy who is a virgin with women unless its because he is gay, and even then a lot of gay guys have tried it with women at least once and found it wasnt for them"
How the hell can you tell the guy he is gay and doesn't know his own sexuality?
He wants to have sex with men (and does) he also wants to have sex with women.... how can that be anything but bi?
If a guy said he had only ever shagged women but wanted to pop his cherrie with a man and actively sought to make that happen... would you be telling him he was straight? I think not! |
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we agree polo you are so right, and if anyone cared to read what we first put, it was meant light heartedly, suggesting that looking at all the facts he may want to change his name from bi craig to gay craig, cos what ever his wants may be, he seems to have only had men which till it changes dont make him straight or bi.
this was all started a little tongue in cheek till someone let the wolves out.
hey we all have our own opinions, dont like ours move on |
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ok polo sit comfortably and we will begin
you obviously dont like or agree with our opinion, and surely the op must know he is gay or as near as it gets since most people become sexually active in thier teens and as he is now 28 according to his profile and been having sex with men since we would guess at least 2002.
hello dont you think a man who has been having sex with men for at least 8 yrs and no sex with women realises what he is?
jeez some people aint got a clue |
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jeez some people aint got a clue"
Indeed... so I have noticed.
Now... open your minds for a moment.
What would you call a guy who had only had sex with women for the past 8 years BUT openly admitted he wanted to have sex with men and was actively seeking to have sex with men?
Straight, bi or gay?
Whilst sexuality is never as simple as a few clearly defined boxes and is more like a continuum, the experts on human sexuality do define bi-sexual as a person who is sexually attracted to both men and women…. regardless of whether they have got around to bonking both genders yet.
To quote Wikipedia
“Bisexuality is a sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical and/or romantic attraction to both males and females.[1] It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. Individuals who lack sexual attraction to either sex are known as asexual. People who have a distinct but not exclusive preference for one sex over the other may also identify themselves as bisexual”
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ok your starting to get boring now polo but just to put the record straight, if he is actively seeking nothing has changed till he actually does it.
then he will decide if he likes to be a real man and have fun with women or if he wants to remain as he is and be gay
ok look up something else for me "an opinion" |
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"ok your starting to get boring now polo but just to put the record straight, if he is actively seeking nothing has changed till he actually does it.
then he will decide if he likes to be a real man and have fun with women or if he wants to remain as he is and be gay
ok look up something else for me "an opinion""
Sorry for being boring... it's sometimes what happens when you know stuff
I think you're "real man" comment explains it all really.
I'm off to look up 'opinion'. Can you try looking up 'bigot'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok your starting to get boring now polo but just to put the record straight, if he is actively seeking nothing has changed till he actually does it.
then he will decide if he likes to be a real man and have fun with women or if he wants to remain as he is and be gay
ok look up something else for me "an opinion""
So... A gay man can't be a real man? |
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"love it when someone want to make it personal, btw we as you have guessed are not into bi gay or curious guys, or come to that bbw's"
You preferences are your choice.
You 'opinion' on sexuality remains factually and theoretically incorrect and appears to be based on a somewhat archaic view of what makes a man a 'real man'.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're probably best looking for younger girls. With them being less experienced themselves, they like to feel in control and like they know what they're doing. You'll probably find that going with a girl that is also a virgin is probably easier."
He'll be done for paedophilia as the only place he'll find a virgin is in a primary school!!! 
As to the OP: no way, a man who's sexual experience has only been with other men would never be for me. I'd feel I was a practise session and that wouldn't sit well with me.
There are all types here, someone will find you just up their street.
Good luck! |
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omg how can someones own personal opinion be incorrect? for a clever woman you are leaving a lot to be desired someones opinion is thier own thoughts, facts dont come into it its what they think and believe.
and as for an archaic view of what makes a man a real man, well again opinion but dont think that its an old fashioned that men and women are meant to have sex hence the shape of reproductive organs. i guess the church approves of guys having anal sex? |
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"omg how can someones own personal opinion be incorrect? for a clever woman you are leaving a lot to be desired someones opinion is thier own thoughts, facts dont come into it its what they think and believe.
and as for an archaic view of what makes a man a real man, well again opinion but dont think that its an old fashioned that men and women are meant to have sex hence the shape of reproductive organs. i guess the church approves of guys having anal sex?"
Easy... if I said "in my opinion the sky looks green" it will be my opnion, you might accept it is my opinion... but it remains factually wrong. It is not a purely subjective subject.
As for the church... what do they have to do with it? Do they approve of swinging? Has the Pope suddenly said it's OK to use a condom to shag your friend's wife? |
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yeah i agree about the priests god knows i was one in a previous life, but hey chill its all becoming so serious
all stemmed from my first comment which as i said was meant in fun no disrespect to the op, but polo got the bit between her teeth, woulldnt have happened over the weekend while x factor was on |
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dont think the depth of your hole is in question hun, once again it dont seem to sink in to some, but we are all allowed an opinion and its the same old same old, straight single male looking for bi male etc.....
if a guy is straight he wont look for bi guys
if a guy is gay and wants to try women yes he is bi curious
if he tries one he is bi, till he does he is still gay
and btw polo smoking is bad for your health |
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So... if I follow your opinion...
A man who is married to a woman, has only had sex with his wife, but jerks off to gay porn, calls gay chatlines and jerks off listening to men talking dirty, tugs one off for other guys on webcam... is bi-curious, but essentially is still straight, until such time as he actually has his cock inside another man. |
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omg polo you know some well strange people, lived in leicester myself for 42 yrs never came into contact with the guy you described.
Think you need to get out the shoe box a little more, gspot right up your street |
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Damn you are too good for me... I don't think anyone noticed you side step that one.
I'll accept your opinion... the one about it just not sinking in with some people, as my arms are starting to ache from trying to get the horse's head near the water.
Happy swinging. |
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"Well if a straight guy can be bi-curious why can't a gay guy be bi-curious also  "
My sentiments exactly-he's just coming at it from a differnet direction..if you'll pardon the imagery. he is curious about being bi witht e other sex, rather thab withthe same sex, which is the norm here I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for all your thoughts guys. wasn't really here to question my sexuality; I've always been bi and have had 'non-sexual' relationships with girls in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i couldnt teach you anything, i know absolutely nothing myself - i know that a cock goes into a pussy but thats the level of my knowledge - please dont ask for good technique as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldn't mind....turns me on to be honest. i'm not so stuck up to think that i'm so might because i've had sex!!!
Pete, my hubby is bi so i'm sure we'd both love to meet you hun.
I think it'd be a lovely special time
Ems.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i wouldn't mind....turns me on to be honest. i'm not so stuck up to think that i'm so might because i've had sex!!!
Pete, my hubby is bi so i'm sure we'd both love to meet you hun.
I think it'd be a lovely special time
Ems.x"
Emma, how come I've never seen you about in Sheffield?!,- what a tragic shame! X |
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"As a bi guy, pretty much all of my sexual experiences have been with other men. As such, it means I'm a complete virgin when it comes to girls. Do girls/ladies enjoy 'teaching' newbies, or do they always prefer experienced men?"
Oh dear, have you not been assigned a proper sexual label by Swinger Control yet?
Good luck with your search and keep at it, I hope you find what your looking for. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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regarding OP's original question.
Sometimes it can be good to share knowledge with those new to things- it always means that there is one more guy out there willing to learn how to please a woman...and who knows he may teach the fem he finds something new to. After all no one knows everything.
wish you well in your search hun xxx |
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