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over a year ago
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For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone! |
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"For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone! "
I just looked at your profile and I love the profile and the pics
Thanks for your advice x |
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"For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone! "
Pretty much this, showing you've actually taken time to read a profile and put some thought into your message as opposed to just sending out "blanket" messages. |
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"For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone!
Pretty much this, showing you've actually taken time to read a profile and put some thought into your message as opposed to just sending out "blanket" messages."
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sure thing!  "
Sort for going off topic but..
Wow, amazing photos! And not too far from me either.
Back to the topic in hand, I agree. Be natural, not too forward, comment on what attracted you to their profile and don't send a cock pic unless they specify it! Nice face pic works though, shame I don't have a nice face! |
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"Sure thing!
Sort for going off topic but..
Wow, amazing photos! And not too far from me either.
Back to the topic in hand, I agree. Be natural, not too forward, comment on what attracted you to their profile and don't send a cock pic unless they specify it! Nice face pic works though, shame I don't have a nice face!"
I didn't think I was that hideous until I joined this site 
Thanks mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure thing!
Sort for going off topic but..
Wow, amazing photos! And not too far from me either.
Back to the topic in hand, I agree. Be natural, not too forward, comment on what attracted you to their profile and don't send a cock pic unless they specify it! Nice face pic works though, shame I don't have a nice face!
I didn't think I was that hideous until I joined this site
Thanks mate "
Ha ha, you're welcome! ( I think)
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Hi guys girls couples wife's husbands and anyone else who wants to advice what's the best intro when approaching fellow fab swingers, I am struggling to get meets and would love some advice  "
Just something relaxed and witty if possible - maybe pick up on something in there status or profile to make a humorous comment about....and obviously, attach a good face pic or two
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"Hi guys girls couples wife's husbands and anyone else who wants to advice what's the best intro when approaching fellow fab swingers, I am struggling to get meets and would love some advice
Just something relaxed and witty if possible - maybe pick up on something in there status or profile to make a humorous comment about....and obviously, attach a good face pic or two
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Thanks pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't treat us like a service. Amount of guys lately doing this is pissing me off.
Just chat us up like you would irl really. Polite introduction, bit of banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a "Fancy a fuck?" message with a pic of your cock attached.
Don't believe those women who say they hate that. They're just frigid bitches    "
Erm.. Well I'm sure that works for some... But don't fancy your odds. Too many msgs are like that and just get deleted from my inbox. But maybe I'm a frigid swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard to say
My idea of a good first message may not be the the best for who you actually message so I feel my opinion is futile
Try me x "
OK pic
If a guy mailed me with simply hi if his pics took my fancy I'd reply
Hey I never said I wasn't shallow |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone!
Pretty much this, showing you've actually taken time to read a profile and put some thought into your message as opposed to just sending out "blanket" messages."
Yes all good advice if your message gets read.
And be patient |
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"For me... Someone who addresses myself and my husband... Sends a face pic and simply says something like...
Hi guys, nice profile. I'm interested if you are. Here's my photo and msg me if you'd like to chat more x
I agree.....h8 msgs like "im hot n hung.....u want some"? Lol....b a person not a number....guess it depends what ya looking for tho? X
But then I'm easy to please x
(Oh and no text or street speak, no sexually explicit introductions, and no lazy spelling mistakes).
Plus make it look a little personal to the person you're messaging. Not just a round robbing version that you send to everyone! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your lucky if they even open the message these days mate... I count that as a little victory haha
I reply to all my messages, even the ones from idiots "
Well us idiots appreciate it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha |
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha "
Had someone do this the other day about free designer shoes, he got a polite response that wasn't a no and then deleted it...WTF?!? |
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
I can see the logic
Haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha Had someone do this the other day
about free designer shoes, he got a polite response that wasn't a no and then deleted it...WTF?!?"
Haha that's a cracking one.. hey do you want some free shoes....and a picture of me nob. |
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha Had someone do this the other day
about free designer shoes, he got a polite response that wasn't a no and then deleted it...WTF?!?
Haha that's a cracking one.. hey do you want some free shoes....and a picture of me nob."
We said thanks for message, busy at present but maybe in future and that was that.. I want the shoes |
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha Had someone do this the other day about free designer shoes, he got a polite response that wasn't a no and then deleted it...WTF?!?"
Unfortunately I am not in your age range but wish I was |
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"I'll tell you what has a good success rate for me.. I always put something totally random in the subject box. Recent successful ones have been.
Baggy socks
That red toaster
Pickle jar
Haha Had someone do this the other day about free designer shoes, he got a polite response that wasn't a no and then deleted it...WTF?!?
Unfortunately I am not in your age range but wish I was"
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