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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
what is it with some guys ive had this several times from guys.i want to hold u an cuddle you all night argh noooo im not a teddy bear..some people like it but not for me im looking for nsa friendship an im not cold but to me that just makes me feel claustophobic...i dont want to be cuddled all night..i like a guys caress an touch but not holding me so i cant do anything else too creepy an full on ... 
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore. "
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that.. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
i had a suffocating marriage an now i have freedom...an cuddles not all night i want. im happy in life dont need romance, or guys wanting to give me cuddles all night
it may seem harsh, but if it goes to cuddles all night guys get attached it does happen. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"i had a suffocating marriage an now i have freedom...an cuddles not all night i want. im happy in life dont need romance, or guys wanting to give me cuddles all night
it may seem harsh, but if it goes to cuddles all night guys get attached it does happen. "
different issue in my opinion...if cuddles related to attachment for me or the other, male or female..but it doesnt..i can enjoy them fully, without expectation of someone being around tomorrow.. and if they get attachment feelings we would talk about that.. maybe i dont need to be so defensive in my boundaries any more, fresh out of a divorce i can see why it would mean something different to you ..be well and be happy xx |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"i had a suffocating marriage an now i have freedom...an cuddles not all night i want. im happy in life dont need romance, or guys wanting to give me cuddles all night
it may seem harsh, but if it goes to cuddles all night guys get attached it does happen.
different issue in my opinion...if cuddles related to attachment for me or the other, male or female..but it doesnt..i can enjoy them fully, without expectation of someone being around tomorrow.. and if they get attachment feelings we would talk about that.. maybe i dont need to be so defensive in my boundaries any more, fresh out of a divorce i can see why it would mean something different to you ..be well and be happy xx"
Thanks. im well an happy 
i find it difficult at mo cuddles tbh
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over a year ago
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"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that.."
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that..
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship."
im not really in the right place with cuddles all night...dont want to give a guy wrong idea |
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over a year ago
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"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that..
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship.
im not really in the right place with cuddles all night...dont want to give a guy wrong idea "
I don't do it all night,it's too uncomfortable and I like going home to my own bed. It wouldn't mean anything serious if I stayed overweight with someone and cuddled. I love the feeling of warm flesh on me,that's why I ask for erotic,sensual men. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that..
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship.
im not really in the right place with cuddles all night...dont want to give a guy wrong idea
I don't do it all night,it's too uncomfortable and I like going home to my own bed. It wouldn't mean anything serious if I stayed overweight with someone and cuddled. I love the feeling of warm flesh on me,that's why I ask for erotic,sensual men. "
my ex husband was too needy an too much cuddling, i felt i couldnt do anything
i prefer nsa an no complications of a relationship an definately no cuddles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that..
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship.
im not really in the right place with cuddles all night...dont want to give a guy wrong idea
I don't do it all night,it's too uncomfortable and I like going home to my own bed. It wouldn't mean anything serious if I stayed overweight with someone and cuddled. I love the feeling of warm flesh on me,that's why I ask for erotic,sensual men.
my ex husband was too needy an too much cuddling, i felt i couldnt do anything
i prefer nsa an no complications of a relationship an definately no cuddles "
You don't have to justify to anyone how you want to be. Don't ever apologise for being you.
Good luck on the divorce. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a cuddle with Mr... but I would freak totally if someone said they wanted to cuddle up on here.... to be honest I like clubs as you can just sort of get up and leave then...
Hotels or other peoples houses its a bit more difficult..
I could not sleep all night cuddled up though even with Mr.... as I fidget way to much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't sleep being cuddled
Now don't get me wrong I love a cuddle but when I'm sleeping I need my own space
I get to hot as well "
Me too, luvre being held & snuggling but when I want to sleep I want to sleep in a cuddle free zone. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"i had a suffocating marriage an now i have freedom...an cuddles not all night i want. im happy in life dont need romance, or guys wanting to give me cuddles all night
it may seem harsh, but if it goes to cuddles all night guys get attached it does happen.
different issue in my opinion...if cuddles related to attachment for me or the other, male or female..but it doesnt..i can enjoy them fully, without expectation of someone being around tomorrow.. and if they get attachment feelings we would talk about that.. maybe i dont need to be so defensive in my boundaries any more, fresh out of a divorce i can see why it would mean something different to you ..be well and be happy xx
Thanks. im well an happy
i find it difficult at mo cuddles tbh
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much love but no attached hugs..id like you to be comfy being you, cos you are enoughxx s xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I (female half) may be doomed. For someone who's independent, self sufficient and pretty bloody single minded, I have become a real snuggler with him. Hasn't happened with anyone else ever, but with him I curl round his back and go out like a light. As much as I love it, it scares me too. I can't imagine ever repeating the experience with anyone else. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"i had a suffocating marriage an now i have freedom...an cuddles not all night i want. im happy in life dont need romance, or guys wanting to give me cuddles all night
it may seem harsh, but if it goes to cuddles all night guys get attached it does happen.
different issue in my opinion...if cuddles related to attachment for me or the other, male or female..but it doesnt..i can enjoy them fully, without expectation of someone being around tomorrow.. and if they get attachment feelings we would talk about that.. maybe i dont need to be so defensive in my boundaries any more, fresh out of a divorce i can see why it would mean something different to you ..be well and be happy xx
Thanks. im well an happy
i find it difficult at mo cuddles tbh
much love but no attached hugs..id like you to be comfy being you, cos you are enoughxx s xx"
Thanks iam happy without cuddles from a guy.. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"A small cuddle now and then is fine but need my space and nothing too clingy or it becomes a relationship and not a fb anymore."
im glad you get it.. yes i find it clingy too an argh no...why do u have to cuddle
exactly it becomes a relationship which i dont want |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"On overnighters we have a little cuddle and then turn over to sleep. Or he falls asleep and I lay awake watching him snore.
not for me, i cant do that tbh im just seeking friendship an nsa an cuddling is for relationships. ive had this before ive had a friendship i had to let go in feb this year as he got too attached an wanted me to be his..an only his..an im not seeking that..
I have a nice snuggle buddy. We spent more time laying under the covers chatting,watching tv or snoozing than we do having sex. It's very relaxing and nothing like being in a relationship.
im not really in the right place with cuddles all night...dont want to give a guy wrong idea
I don't do it all night,it's too uncomfortable and I like going home to my own bed. It wouldn't mean anything serious if I stayed overweight with someone and cuddled. I love the feeling of warm flesh on me,that's why I ask for erotic,sensual men.
my ex husband was too needy an too much cuddling, i felt i couldnt do anything
i prefer nsa an no complications of a relationship an definately no cuddles
You don't have to justify to anyone how you want to be. Don't ever apologise for being you.
Good luck on the divorce. x"
Thanks its nice im getting support about my divorce.. its nearly at the end an i will be totally free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been single 6 years. I dream of someone holding me close all night.
However it's different for everyone so you are right to stick with what you are comfortable with. |
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