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Should I bale out gracefully???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
If you're not sure if it's what you want anymore, then take a break.
Bow out at the age of 51 ? Let me tell you I am in my prime at 51. Don't be so daft.
Are you sure you don't want to get yourself a bit more attention OP ?
Basically though.....do what is right for you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're getting what you want, stay?
If you feel you're not, then don't feel like you're wasting your time.
I'd personally say stay, because why not? You're in good shape, engage in the forums and if you wanted to get more I'm sure you can? |
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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago
In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust |
"Bugger off and leave it to the sexy people??? Have you seen yourself? I think you'll find you fit into the sexy category "
This exactly - if your having doubts just have a break and hide your profile , I did look and it's a shame you live so far away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bow out gracefully?????
Fuck no!!!!
Best way yo go is a heart attach, strapped to a bed, with a leather clad dominatrix beating you into submission
Hell yes!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh god. I love you guys, yes I do meet, under the right circumstances!!! Not comfortable having sex with someone who could be my daughter, guess I'm having a midlife crisis, shit if I make 102 something's not right, just feeling a bit uncertain I guess, worried about being a perve,is it wrong for me to want sex so much ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god. I love you guys, yes I do meet, under the right circumstances!!! Not comfortable having sex with someone who could be my daughter, guess I'm having a midlife crisis, shit if I make 102 something's not right, just feeling a bit uncertain I guess, worried about being a perve,is it wrong for me to want sex so much ? "
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god. I love you guys, yes I do meet, under the right circumstances!!! Not comfortable having sex with someone who could be my daughter, guess I'm having a midlife crisis, shit if I make 102 something's not right, just feeling a bit uncertain I guess, worried about being a perve,is it wrong for me to want sex so much ? "
It's wrong that you haven't had sex with me.....  |
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Many people here have been quite brief and to the point...
The best advice seems to be to take a break, but even if you do that, you should still stay " around " even if you're not actively looking to meet? If you stay in the "eye" of the forums, etc, you won't be forgotten and you won't need to start over?
It's an Executive Decision that only you can make, but it seems like there's some ladies who'll be crying into the babycham if you go!
Good luck either way fella!! |
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
Do you REALLY need the advice of anonymous strangers to tell you what to do?!! Are you that needy you need same anonymous strangers to massage your ego?!!
If the answer is yes, then leave and seek psychiatric help...pronto!!! |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please
Do you REALLY need the advice of anonymous strangers to tell you what to do?!! Are you that needy you need same anonymous strangers to massage your ego?!!
If the answer is yes, then leave and seek psychiatric help...pronto!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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or just stop being a jessie knowing you'll come back..leave the drama by the door..
I'd be happy if you left saying you have found a woman...
but this is really a look at me and please message me to stay post...lotsa women do it...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please
Do you REALLY need the advice of anonymous strangers to tell you what to do?!! Are you that needy you need same anonymous strangers to massage your ego?!!
If the answer is yes, then leave and seek psychiatric help...pronto!!!"
as we always argue this..maybe the anonymous are not who he's aiming this at...
its like a single woman who posts about finding that fuckbuddy..most of the time its to attract the attention pof a former or current fuckbuddy, as they have now realized they want a said person to themselves..
this is how lotsa singles work, and given the op's sorta non swingingnessness..I'd say, its being aimed squarely at someone he'd rather not see play..
again..am surmising and cynical...but heyho.. seen the t-shirt,never wore it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can't make your mind up,how are we supposed to know? Shall i flip a coin for you?
The decision is easy. If you no longer get what you want from the site then go. It's not like you can't come back if you feel you made the wrong decision, so it's hardly one of those life changing decisions! Take control of your own life, man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you can't make your mind up,how are we supposed to know? Shall i flip a coin for you?
The decision is easy. If you no longer get what you want from the site then go. It's not like you can't come back if you feel you made the wrong decision, so it's hardly one of those life changing decisions! Take control of your own life, man!"
look this is purely from a man's perspective fab is a very frustrating place for guys even guys who are in good shape and have a good visual person and ladies lovely as you are many of you have had your egos massaged to the max ,this place has highs and lows for me but it serves a purpose but my answer and its purely selfish I think you should leave and give me better odds you know where I'm coming from or did that have the reverse effect and spur your competitive spirit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you can't make your mind up,how are we supposed to know? Shall i flip a coin for you?
The decision is easy. If you no longer get what you want from the site then go. It's not like you can't come back if you feel you made the wrong decision, so it's hardly one of those life changing decisions! Take control of your own life, man!look this is purely from a man's perspective fab is a very frustrating place for guys even guys who are in good shape and have a good visual person and ladies lovely as you are many of you have had your egos massaged to the max ,this place has highs and lows for me but it serves a purpose but my answer and its purely selfish I think you should leave and give me better odds you know where I'm coming from or did that have the reverse effect and spur your competitive spirit "
a lil correction I typed personna |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
Only you can decide that, maybe you should switch to a different kind of site like tinder for example? Plenty of one on one |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
Yes bugger off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to be another ego massager but jeez, OP, if you were closer I'd bypass my age filters and message you myself."
hehe Harlot where's your dignity woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hijack but I think I should give in gracefully as I'm clearly not going to win this one. Not leaving the site though as then it means I've allowed them to win |
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
It's entirely your decision and if you feel that you're not what's required any longer then maybe it is time to bow out. There is after all no point in flogging a dead horse. It would be a shame but nothing ever endures. |
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"Sorry to be another ego massager but jeez, OP, if you were closer I'd bypass my age filters and message you myself.
Yep, I reckon that will work! ( ego ) lol"
if _igeia gave me an offer like that I'd never go lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
No! Stay please, I want to be adored |
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
Well I'm 56 and I'm not too old and I'm having the time of my life  so stay enjoy, have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your looking great bud , the choice is yours .
You can give these young gym bunnies a run for their money and you can give experience.
I say stay mate . The choice is yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
Don't go..come round mine and we can discuss it....please |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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hope this decision is not going to be made in the next week or so..give it time OP, you never know whats going to happen. decisions made in haste, repent at leisure, spring to mind x |
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"Anyone want to stroke my ego? I would like to stroke something please
That's a better offer than from not for softies "
Oops I meant stroke damn autocorrect! But hey, happy to strike too when your botty is better!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god. I love you guys, yes I do meet, under the right circumstances!!! Not comfortable having sex with someone who could be my daughter, guess I'm having a midlife crisis, shit if I make 102 something's not right, just feeling a bit uncertain I guess, worried about being a perve,is it wrong for me to want sex so much ?
It's wrong that you haven't had sex with me..... "
Penelope you harlot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have met some wonderful people on here, and fulfilled lots of fantasies, but I'm beginning to wonder if a) I'm too old b) I'm only into 1on1 encounters (I'm very selfish lol) c) I'm very heterosexual d) I'm very masculine d) I'm very physical and dominant) , should I retire from fab gracefully. I Truly have had a wonderful time but not sure it's what's wanted anymore. Genuine doubt, not a look at me thread. Is it time to bugger off and leave it to the sexy people......opinions will affect my decision so be sincere please "
A, you're never too old, B, fab is what you make of it, C, personal tastes and all that, some women will only look for hetero guys, d, your masculinity is part of who you are, if people don't like that, then that's their problem, and double D) that sounds quite hot, this is definitely the place for someone like you.
I say just enjoy the ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was talking to a sexy Beautiful woman earlier and she's actually entering into a relationship with a guy she met on here only time will tell if that's a good thing but one on one paid off for her but as I've said before leave and give me a chance will you my torso isn't anywhere near as good as yours or is it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A genuine wobble guys, no ego stroking required, think most of you know me well enough.
To be honest, I'm genuinely touched by the replies and messages, like most of us on here, distance makes meeting most impractical, but I feel among friends, male and female which is why I've been on here so long.
Anyhow, I'll say it again, I love you guys, sorry if I bleated, life's roller coaster eh. Got my own place again from the 30th, so fresh start and I don't want to do it without you lot.
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"A genuine wobble guys, no ego stroking required, think most of you know me well enough.
To be honest, I'm genuinely touched by the replies and messages, like most of us on here, distance makes meeting most impractical, but I feel among friends, male and female which is why I've been on here so long.
Anyhow, I'll say it again, I love you guys, sorry if I bleated, life's roller coaster eh. Got my own place again from the 30th, so fresh start and I don't want to do it without you lot.
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Congrats on the new place, shall I pop round for a coffee and a biscuit |
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"A genuine wobble guys, no ego stroking required, think most of you know me well enough.
To be honest, I'm genuinely touched by the replies and messages, like most of us on here, distance makes meeting most impractical, but I feel among friends, male and female which is why I've been on here so long.
Anyhow, I'll say it again, I love you guys, sorry if I bleated, life's roller coaster eh. Got my own place again from the 30th, so fresh start and I don't want to do it without you lot.
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thank God for that .. I'm sure some people think you're me lol.. Or I'm you |
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