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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it"
Good luck with this post..i hope your both thick skinned  |
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it
Good luck with this post..i hope your both thick skinned "
Will not be told anything wee ain't been told before. We are open with couples we meet about what we like so nothing to hide |
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it
Good luck with this post..i hope your both thick skinned "
Seen the news this evening about a super-strain of gonorrhea emerging out of the West Yorkshire/Leeds area that's resistant to anti-biotics?
Yuk!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever had bareback sex with one guy and the last time I had sex with him was well over 10 years ago, to be honest Im just used to condoms now they don't bother me in the slightest |
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We don't but plenty do and I think it's because it feels so different and as you say the buzz. Being open as you are is the way forward. I wish everyone who enjoyed unprotected penetration was as open as you. |
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it
Good luck with this post..i hope your both thick skinned
Seen the news this evening about a super-strain of gonorrhea emerging out of the West Yorkshire/Leeds area that's resistant to anti-biotics?
Yuk!!"
You know it's transmitted via oral contact too right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare back, and you're playing with fire. Is it really worth the risk?"
To some yes
To be honest I never get the hype people get over bareback
You do the best you can to protect yourself if others do things differently ....well they are adults that's their choice
Really does not bother me what other do so long as my meets respect what I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It always seems to come out on these posts that people seem to think that if they use condoms that they are safe from catching things x
We don't bareback as a general rule but if we wanted to we would. To be honest I prefer not to have full sex most of the time because I dislike condoms... But I choose to go without often rather than take a risk to far for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my partner don't use condoms! Had a regular fuck buddy who we also went bareback with but we were the only people he was seeing!
Wouldn't go bareback on a meet!
But I can put a condom on with my mouth so not all bad I suppose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Had a regular fuck buddy who we also went bareback with but we were the only people he was seeing!
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Wonder how many of the people he was seeing believed that line? |
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"It always seems to come out on these posts that people seem to think that if they use condoms that they are safe from catching things x
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That is way more worrying than people being honest about bare back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it"
Yea such a buzz when you catch a non curable std |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
Got any stats to back up that rather wild claim? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise
Got any stats to back up that rather wild claim?"
I was wondering the same. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it"
If your idea of a buzz, is sitting in a GUM clinic wondering if you've caught an STD or God forbid something worse? You really need to sit in a corner and give yourself a little head wobble!
I have visions now of you both sitting there fidgeting excitedly hoping  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As ever the thread heads off topic from the original question. If you want a safe sex debate, go and start one.
We don't partake in bare play but don't have any problem with anyone that does if they choose to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be aware of this that hit the news today
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11874559/Super-gonorrhoea-outbreak-Everything-you-need-to-know.html"
we know, there's been a few threads already covering the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be aware of this that hit the news today
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11874559/Super-gonorrhoea-outbreak-Everything-you-need-to-know.html we know, there's been a few threads already covering the subject "
And as most people seem to do oral without , it makes a void argument as everyone is at risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As ever the thread heads off topic from the original question. If you want a safe sex debate, go and start one.
We don't partake in bare play but don't have any problem with anyone that does if they choose to.
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I think the op started a safe sex debate by starting this thread |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise
Got any stats to back up that rather wild claim?
I was wondering the same. X "
What a load of Bollocks! |
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"Be aware of this that hit the news today
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11874559/Super-gonorrhoea-outbreak-Everything-you-need-to-know.html we know, there's been a few threads already covering the subject
And as most people seem to do oral without , it makes a void argument as everyone is at risk "
Yep! |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"We love these posts and it increases our Blocked List lol xxthink you'll probably find they won't lose sleep over that"
Oh people do, we've had all sorts of people trying to talk us into it and then getting nasty when we say no. It's why we use the PreBlock system xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Enjoy BB more but the sickly, worried feeling afterwards is just not worth the wait from the clinic! "
That's right, but it seems like couples don't get stds lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
What utter nonsense! Everyone who has gone bareback knows their status and are probably infected??
Also I rather think some of the very vocal anti bareback people here have probably done it in the heat of playing. |
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
Is there a "deadly sexually transmitted disease" left? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
I really shake my head at some of the incredulous statements on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op I can't really answer the question about what makes swingers decide to go bareback as I have never done this and it's not something I'd consider.
However I applaud those who are upfront about their preferences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. Honesty doesn't really come into it for me. I've lost count of the amount of profiles on here professing to be 'safe' players with a profile full of bareback pics with different people. I protect myself. Get checked regularly. What other people do is their own choice and their own problem if they catch a nasty. We are all adults are we not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Had a regular fuck buddy who we also went bareback with but we were the only people he was seeing!
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Wonder how many of the people he was seeing believed that line? "
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"Only ever had bareback sex with one guy and the last time I had sex with him was well over 10 years ago, to be honest Im just used to condoms now they don't bother me in the slightest "
...apart from the smell of burning rubber ( as Billy Connely once said )
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I only do this this if a person has written certs no more than 28 days old...as you can imagine i don't do much bareback with swingers lol.
Its my job & i know even certed bareback is risky but i have never caught anything in 20 years, i still cross my fingers at every test because no matter how health concience you are everyone is infallible. |
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"I only do this this if a person has written certs no more than 28 days old...as you can imagine i don't do much bareback with swingers lol.
Its my job & i know even certed bareback is risky but i have never caught anything in 20 years, i still cross my fingers at every test because no matter how health concience you are everyone is infallible."
The last bit should have said nobody is infallible lol. |
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"We are adults, we make choices. Some may not like it but although I play safe, who are we to judge.
We can only protect ourselves and honesty is the best policy I find.
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However, when you start a thread like this you'll inevitably get differing opinions. Stating an opinion is not necessarily judgemental, although I do find it funny that we, as swingers, having sex with multiple sexual partners (strangers) can somehow find moral high ground in this "toxic" heap to look down on fellow deviants who take more risk than us.
It's akin to Lewis Hamilton berating Ryan Villapoto for racing too fast on a bike, but it's ok for him because he has the protection of his car!  |
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"Each to their own. Honesty doesn't really come into it for me. I've lost count of the amount of profiles on here professing to be 'safe' players with a profile full of bareback pics with different people. I protect myself. Get checked regularly. What other people do is their own choice and their own problem if they catch a nasty. We are all adults are we not?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This won't end well "
I wonder if all the people who posted negatively don't do oral as you can catch stuff that way as well. If they don't then they shouldn't have posted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love these posts and it increases our Blocked List lol xx"
I hope you're not blocking people just for agreeing. I think people have the complete right to do bareback. I don't do it myself. But each to their own. Do you also block people who do oral. Because that's risky too. We do that. That's our risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own. Honesty doesn't really come into it for me. I've lost count of the amount of profiles on here professing to be 'safe' players with a profile full of bareback pics with different people. I protect myself. Get checked regularly. What other people do is their own choice and their own problem if they catch a nasty. We are all adults are we not?
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I always make sure I have a Mac on.....
If done right it can be part of great forplay
Personally I would be less likely to play with a couple or Fem that does bareback but I would wear a condom anyway
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
In the 35 years we have been swinging we know of nobody who would stoop to such measures.
When someone makes such an accusation it makes us think they doing exactly what they are accusing others of.
Just as very often the people who accuse their partner of cheating are very often the people who are cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's quite a few bareback participants on this site and I'm curious to know how many you receive sexual health checks. -Mr."
What about the people that use condoms? Do you wonder if they get checked? |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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"There's quite a few bareback participants on this site and I'm curious to know how many you receive sexual health checks. -Mr.
What about the people that use condoms? Do you wonder if they get checked?"
I wonder about all sexual health practices and not to judge those that have an different interest from ours.
(Please excuse the grammar from my previous post) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's quite a few bareback participants on this site and I'm curious to know how many you receive sexual health checks. -Mr.
What about the people that use condoms? Do you wonder if they get checked?"
Some seem to feel that a condom protects you from everything. Personally I think they're worse than those who bareback openly.
Whatever you choose to do, get yourself checked regularly.
As for the OP. It's not for me but you guys enjoy yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads always interest me greatly. Generally read and jog on but felt the need to add my bit.
Bareback away if that's what you enjoy!!
Two incurable sti's can easily be caught while using condoms, warts and herpes. Once you have these you will never be free of them and can pass them to everyone you have close sexual contact with.
Most sti's are curable with antibiotics provided you bother to get checked regularly. So not 'deadly' as previously mentioned.
ORAL!! Who honestly uses dental guards on a woman? Do you know how difficult and expensive these are to buy? Lots of pics of cum smothered faces etc on here so obviously not playing safe.
All you can do is try to protect yourself. Regardless of wether someone says they only play safe, are you really gonna believe some random person you meet on line? Do what you feel is right for you. Get checked regularly and let other people do what makes them happy. We are all adults (debatable sometimes) and have the freedom of choice! |
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"Me and my partner don't use condoms! Had a regular fuck buddy who we also went bareback with but we were the only people he was seeing!
Wouldn't go bareback on a meet!
But I can put a condom on with my mouth so not all bad I suppose "
Now that is a talent ?? |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
manchester |
Yes, you are correct...however, the extreme acids in your saliva are a natural repellent of the HIV virus, hence your chances of contracting the virus via oaral sex are about 10,000 - one. However bareback sex is a very different matter...in my view totally irresponsible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time I got HIV it was a bloody nightmare. I had to go and see a witch Doctor in Namibia who cured me and told me I was now immune. So lucky for me I don't need to wear a condom any more. I've explained this to all my meets and they are happy with the situation |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
warrington |
"Last time I got HIV it was a bloody nightmare. I had to go and see a witch Doctor in Namibia who cured me and told me I was now immune. So lucky for me I don't need to wear a condom any more. I've explained this to all my meets and they are happy with the situation"
gay men with aids now live longer than the gen pop. jammy bastard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some seem to feel that a condom protects you from everything. Personally I think they're worse than those who bareback openly"
So you think, people who use protection for penatrative intercourse are worse than those who blantantly bareback? |
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Some seem to feel that a condom protects you from everything. Personally I think they're worse than those who bareback openly
So you think, people who use protection for penatrative intercourse are worse than those who blantantly bareback? "
No they said people who think a condom protects you from everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love how these posts seem to focus so much on HIV. Even so called 'mild' STIs can have severe complications. I've seen people blinded by ocular herpes and chlamydial conjunctivitis, with liver failure due to hepatitis and a multitude of cancers due to HPV.
No disrespect to anyone who plays this way but for me the risks are just not worth it for a bit of fun. |
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"Love how these posts seem to focus so much on HIV. Even so called 'mild' STIs can have severe complications. I've seen people blinded by ocular herpes and chlamydial conjunctivitis, with liver failure due to hepatitis and a multitude of cancers due to HPV.
No disrespect to anyone who plays this way but for me the risks are just not worth it for a bit of fun. "
How is ocular herpes transmitted? |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"Love how these posts seem to focus so much on HIV. Even so called 'mild' STIs can have severe complications. I've seen people blinded by ocular herpes and chlamydial conjunctivitis, with liver failure due to hepatitis and a multitude of cancers due to HPV.
No disrespect to anyone who plays this way but for me the risks are just not worth it for a bit of fun.
How is ocular herpes transmitted?"
its not fully known. scientists cant see eye to eye |
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"There's quite a few bareback participants on this site and I'm curious to know how many you receive sexual health checks. -Mr.
What about the people that use condoms? Do you wonder if they get checked?"
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"Love how these posts seem to focus so much on HIV. Even so called 'mild' STIs can have severe complications. I've seen people blinded by ocular herpes and chlamydial conjunctivitis, with liver failure due to hepatitis and a multitude of cancers due to HPV.
No disrespect to anyone who plays this way but for me the risks are just not worth it for a bit of fun.
How is ocular herpes transmitted?
its not fully known. scientists cant see eye to eye "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people assuming still that its only those that do bareback sex will catch things.."
I'm always shocked how incredibly stupid some people can be. Using condoms and thinking they are safe. It's those types that don't get tested because they think condoms are 100% safe that will still be spreading diseases. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people assuming still that its only those that do bareback sex will catch things.."
Especially with the eye diseases mentioned .
Other than tight fitting goggles I am not aware of condoms , dams , or anything else which may protect them .
And how far does one go ?
No cum anywhere other than in the condom ?
Gloves for any contact ?
No kissing ?
We choose this lifestyle for sexually liberated fun and although we only bareback with each other , everything else we are happy to do with playmates . This includes unprotected oral , and although we know that's not safe either , we are happy to take the risk after considering the alternative which is to either use a condom and a femidom plus a dental dam , or not to do it at all .
We get checked at the gum clinic every 6 weeks , and have had the hep jabs . We also exercise our own hygiene regime and thus far have either been very lucky or whatever we are doing has worked out for us . |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"Be aware of this that hit the news today
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11874559/Super-gonorrhoea-outbreak-Everything-you-need-to-know.html we know, there's been a few threads already covering the subject "
And ? Post police ? |
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So a this could be a scenario
" fancy a meet ? , OK bare is what we like ? , that's fine as long as you don't have anything?
No I don't !!!!!! 
That's ok then as so many people have said yes we have XYZ and we turn them down
You can trust me honestly  |
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We play "safer" ( notice the wording ) using condoms , but it always worries me this term people use "safe sex" , there is no such thing as safe sex! Everyone is still at risk of contracting and passing on a std and as such should be checked regularly. It always makes me wonder how many people think condoms make them immune.
If people openly admit to bareback good for them that's how they want to play then who are we to judge, at least they are honest about it, would these people who judge ( and use the old Russian roulette speech) prefered they lie about it? make it go underground so no one knows who's using condoms Who isn't and who gets tested regularly ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We play "safer" ( notice the wording ) using condoms , but it always worries me this term people use "safe sex" , there is no such thing as safe sex! Everyone is still at risk of contracting and passing on a std and as such should be checked regularly. It always makes me wonder how many people think condoms make them immune.
If people openly admit to bareback good for them that's how they want to play then who are we to judge, at least they are honest about it, would these people who judge ( and use the old Russian roulette speech) prefered they lie about it? make it go underground so no one knows who's using condoms Who isn't and who gets tested regularly ? "
All the people bitching about bb saying it will end in death yada yada... I do wonder if they ever get tested themselves. It's a dreadful attitude. |
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"We play "safer" ( notice the wording ) using condoms , but it always worries me this term people use "safe sex" , there is no such thing as safe sex! Everyone is still at risk of contracting and passing on a std and as such should be checked regularly. It always makes me wonder how many people think condoms make them immune.
If people openly admit to bareback good for them that's how they want to play then who are we to judge, at least they are honest about it, would these people who judge ( and use the old Russian roulette speech) prefered they lie about it? make it go underground so no one knows who's using condoms Who isn't and who gets tested regularly ?
All the people bitching about bb saying it will end in death yada yada... I do wonder if they ever get tested themselves. It's a dreadful attitude. "
If bareback sex with more than one partner ended in death those of us who became sexually active in the seventies would be long gone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair play to the op, each to their own and there is nobody on here in any place to judge how other people enjoy their sex life
"How have we got to the point where the people who don't have sex are telling the people who do have sex how to have sex?"
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"Fair play to the op, each to their own and there is nobody on here in any place to judge how other people enjoy their sex life
"How have we got to the point where the people who don't have sex are telling the people who do have sex how to have sex?"
Mr"
Who isn't having sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fair play to the op, each to their own and there is nobody on here in any place to judge how other people enjoy their sex life
"How have we got to the point where the people who don't have sex are telling the people who do have sex how to have sex?"
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Who isn't having sex? "
its just a quote that always comes into my head when i read posts like this, dont overthink it
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"Fair play to the op, each to their own and there is nobody on here in any place to judge how other people enjoy their sex life
"How have we got to the point where the people who don't have sex are telling the people who do have sex how to have sex?"
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Who isn't having sex? "
Us at the moment due to a direct result of bb ....bloody kids ! ( and for the record I mean our children and they have come down with chicken pox so plans are on hold until they are better ) |
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"Fair play to the op, each to their own and there is nobody on here in any place to judge how other people enjoy their sex life
"How have we got to the point where the people who don't have sex are telling the people who do have sex how to have sex?"
Mr
Who isn't having sex?
Us at the moment due to a direct result of bb ....bloody kids ! ( and for the record I mean our children and they have come down with chicken pox so plans are on hold until they are better ) "
See.....they told you it would come to no good!
Get well soon the itchy mini giggles  |
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"We play "safer" ( notice the wording ) using condoms , but it always worries me this term people use "safe sex" , there is no such thing as safe sex! Everyone is still at risk of contracting and passing on a std and as such should be checked regularly. It always makes me wonder how many people think condoms make them immune.
If people openly admit to bareback good for them that's how they want to play then who are we to judge, at least they are honest about it, would these people who judge ( and use the old Russian roulette speech) prefered they lie about it? make it go underground so no one knows who's using condoms Who isn't and who gets tested regularly ?
All the people bitching about bb saying it will end in death yada yada... I do wonder if they ever get tested themselves. It's a dreadful attitude. "
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Interesting answers. Can anyone tell us how many swingers they know got any std from visiting clubs and who was bare and covered
Be interesting to see a chart of weather clubs or private meets are more risky |
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it
Good luck with this post..i hope your both thick skinned
Seen the news this evening about a super-strain of gonorrhea emerging out of the West Yorkshire/Leeds area that's resistant to anti-biotics?
Yuk!!"
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"Hi all just curious what makes people decide to swing bareback? For us it's the feeling and buzz we got from it"
Bareback is a great feeling. And something I like to enjoy with my partner only.
After all, it's nice to have something just for yourselves in the world of swinging where your intimate life is open.
Personally it is each to their own and I guess if bareback people want to bareback with each other that is their prerogative.
To the lady that suggested that condoms aren't 100% safe. Maybe not, but it does reduce risk somewhat and does promote safe sex and best practice.
Again personally, I do not agree with bareback in swinging. That is my subjective view and my reason is that we try and install safe sex and condoms to the youth of today and think that we should lead by example.
I think it is ethical and promotes good morals.
Though I also agree it isn't 100% safe and that the pope probably wouldn't agree with me.
Coincidentally, an advert has just come on that I've never seen before. It was the Durex Real Feel!!! Haha |
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Really... another couple advertising the fact they love bareback and really not phased by the consequences of doing so. You are crazy in my opinion.
Grabbing my popcorn and sitting back now! |
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise
Got any stats to back up that rather wild claim?
I was wondering the same. X "
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"Be aware of this that hit the news today
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11874559/Super-gonorrhoea-outbreak-Everything-you-need-to-know.html we know, there's been a few threads already covering the subject
And as most people seem to do oral without , it makes a void argument as everyone is at risk "
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"Most people who do bare means they already know their status and most likely they are infected so it doesn't bother them . The law requires people to declare otherwise you will be in trouble , the fact that they tell you that they do bare with strangers is in itself enough to admit being a carrier of some deadly sexually transmitted disease .
I don't know any sane healthy person who knows that they are not infected , like myself , knowingly going bareback .
It's , to me , a fools paradise "
Unbelievable. I don't bareback EVER but I'm not stupid enough to make claims like this. Where do you get these 'facts' from? |
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"These threads always interest me greatly. Generally read and jog on but felt the need to add my bit.
Bareback away if that's what you enjoy!!
Two incurable sti's can easily be caught while using condoms, warts and herpes. Once you have these you will never be free of them and can pass them to everyone you have close sexual contact with.
Most sti's are curable with antibiotics provided you bother to get checked regularly. So not 'deadly' as previously mentioned.
ORAL!! Who honestly uses dental guards on a woman? Do you know how difficult and expensive these are to buy? Lots of pics of cum smothered faces etc on here so obviously not playing safe.
All you can do is try to protect yourself. Regardless of wether someone says they only play safe, are you really gonna believe some random person you meet on line? Do what you feel is right for you. Get checked regularly and let other people do what makes them happy. We are all adults (debatable sometimes) and have the freedom of choice!"
Agree with this entirely!!
I much prefer bareback - don't we all? - but have decided that, for me, it's not worth the risk unless with a regular, trusted partner!
I DO have unprotected oral play though - so I'm still taking risks but yes - I get checked out regularly! Xx |
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STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu. |
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Condoms or not everyone on here should still get checked out a couple of times a year. It's free and you can stock up with a free goody bag of lube and condoms from the clinic. Also if you tell them you are a swinger you can get the free Hep B jab too. All adds to keeping you healthy. |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu. "
I think it's because you can ring in sick with flu |
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Personally, it is not something that I would do. The only person I ever barebacked with was my husband. You are exposing yourselves to all manner of things. You might get a buzz and a good feeling right now but when you are contacting all of those whom you have slept with to tell that that you have an STI and they need to be checked out, both yourselves and those other people might be a bit more careful.
This is just my opinion |
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"We love these posts and it increases our Blocked List lol xxthink you'll probably find they won't lose sleep over that
Oh people do, we've had all sorts of people trying to talk us into it and then getting nasty when we say no. It's why we use the PreBlock system xx"
Choosing to preblock people who do not meet your preferences is perfectly fine,
But choosing to announce when you do is pointless, unnecessary and quite unfair |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu.
I think it's because you can ring in sick with flu "
And you get sympathy. Tell people you're ill with gonorrhea and you won't be getting any chocolates and get well cards. |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu.
I think it's because you can ring in sick with flu
And you get sympathy. Tell people you're ill with gonorrhea and you won't be getting any chocolates and get well cards."
I would most definitely get a pound shop condom of my collegues
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"This kind of post is a passion killer for me because it makes me think of the six degrees of separation math equation .
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After a man who said he insisted on safe sex clearly had no intention of using one when we met him and was visibly surprised when we produced our own we believe the degrees of separation to be far fewer than six. |
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"This kind of post is a passion killer for me because it makes me think of the six degrees of separation math equation .
After a man who said he insisted on safe sex clearly had no intention of using one when we met him and was visibly surprised when we produced our own we believe the degrees of separation to be far fewer than six."
And by one I mean condom. |
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We bareback with a couple of very good friends. Something we're all happy with, and it adds a lot to a swinging session. We're from the generation that started sex when the pill had just become available, most girls took them and expected to be barebacked on dates. It's a generational thing as our kids always used condoms when young. |
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"This kind of post is a passion killer for me because it makes me think of the six degrees of separation math equation .
After a man who said he insisted on safe sex clearly had no intention of using one when we met him and was visibly surprised when we produced our own we believe the degrees of separation to be far fewer than six."
I'm put off even more now he's shrunk another inch  think I need to see more safe sex pictures on my activity feed to reassure me people do play safe out of the six or seven sex pictures I've seen on there today not one was rubbered up .  |
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"We bareback with a couple of very good friends. Something we're all happy with, and it adds a lot to a swinging session. We're from the generation that started sex when the pill had just become available, most girls took them and expected to be barebacked on dates. It's a generational thing as our kids always used condoms when young. "
I became sexually active in the seventies when condoms were called rubber johnnies and nobody who was on the pill would have dreamed of using them. It's only a generational thing in as far as it's what happened then, in terms of safer sex practices it surely transcends generations. |
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"This kind of post is a passion killer for me because it makes me think of the six degrees of separation math equation .
After a man who said he insisted on safe sex clearly had no intention of using one when we met him and was visibly surprised when we produced our own we believe the degrees of separation to be far fewer than six.
I'm put off even more now he's shrunk another inch think I need to see more safe sex pictures on my activity feed to reassure me people do play safe out of the six or seven sex pictures I've seen on there today not one was rubbered up . "
I genuinely believe that you either accept the risk and play as safe as you're comfortable with or don't play at all. Our experiences have led us to believe that many more people will have unprotected penetration given the opportunity than will ever admit to it. |
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"This kind of post is a passion killer for me because it makes me think of the six degrees of separation math equation .
After a man who said he insisted on safe sex clearly had no intention of using one when we met him and was visibly surprised when we produced our own we believe the degrees of separation to be far fewer than six.
I'm put off even more now he's shrunk another inch think I need to see more safe sex pictures on my activity feed to reassure me people do play safe out of the six or seven sex pictures I've seen on there today not one was rubbered up .
I genuinely believe that you either accept the risk and play as safe as you're comfortable with or don't play at all. Our experiences have led us to believe that many more people will have unprotected penetration given the opportunity than will ever admit to it."
Sadly I think your right I never even put down safe sex only on my profile I just assumed it was a given going to change that right now . |
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"Personally, it is not something that I would do. The only person I ever barebacked with was my husband. You are exposing yourselves to all manner of things. You might get a buzz and a good feeling right now but when you are contacting all of those whom you have slept with to tell that that you have an STI and they need to be checked out, both yourselves and those other people might be a bit more careful.
This is just my opinion "
Call me a cynic but I seriously doubt that they'd have the balls to do the call of shame |
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"I genuinely believe that you either accept the risk and play as safe as you're comfortable with or don't play at all. Our experiences have led us to believe that many more people will have unprotected penetration given the opportunity than will ever admit to it."
This.
Worry about your own practises and get checked regularly. |
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100 percent no. And please give me a heads up and tell me if you do, I'd probably not touch each other. But hey ho, you crack on with what your doing, looks like your enjoying yourself. |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu. "
Well you know if you've got the flu, you don't necessarily know if you've got chlamydia. |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu.
Well you know if you've got the flu, you don't necessarily know if you've got chlamydia."
I do I have my flu jab every year  |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu.
Well you know if you've got the flu, you don't necessarily know if you've got chlamydia."
You are right you know you have it as do the 12,000 persons, on average, who die of it each year. Yet people still don't wear latex gloves to push a shopping trolly despite the fact that the last person to use it could have flu and could have sneezed on the handle. Anyhow, If you get tested regularly you will know what STIs you have.
Amazing isnt it? We readily admit to having an incurable disease that kills 12,000 a year but not to a curable mild infection that does not kill anyone. Its a wonderful world. |
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"STIs are feared far more for the nature of their transmission than for their effect on the human body.
In reality treated chlamidia and gonorrhoea are far less damaging than, for example, influenza, yet most people will propose the use of condoms with almost religious zeal to stop STIs whilst they take little no action to avoid flu.
Well you know if you've got the flu, you don't necessarily know if you've got chlamydia.
I do I have my flu jab every year "
So you are covered against three predicted strains. Excellent! . |
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