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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi to all the genuine (playing by the rules ) swingers out there .....just a little warning to some off you to let you be aware that there are some bad men out there....3 weeks ago we arranged a meet with a local guy after messaging for days and phone convos the meet was arranged he was given our home address and we awaited his arrival ...he let us down 30 mins before he was due to arrive ...so as a time waster he was blocked and deleted end of story ..........OH NO !!! last night nearing midnight we were awoken to our door being knocked by guess who ....NO not santa ......it was the time wasting fool who had let us down he had the cheek to turn up without any contact expecting a meet ....this is total disrespect for others and the scene ...anyone else encountered this ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey...I hope your hubby got the shot gun out. Cheeky bleeder.
Not nice at all, I have kids so I'd be mortified if someone turned up at my door uninvited. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for the replies no J didnt get to go to the door as he thought it was our neighbour knocking that time at night having one off her many crisis lol....i was shocked and told him he had the wrong address was shocked to be honest that something this much fun could turn dangerous but its ok i got the baseball bat and the rough end of a pineapple if the f****r comes back ....we have messaged him asking for an explanation of his actions but as of yet he has not replied ....slowly losing my faith on single guy meets now which is wrong as i do enjoy the genuine ppl we have met xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is why we never meet single guys at home, you never know, we are careful with others also and dont often give out our address until we have met them, saftey first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the replies no J didnt get to go to the door as he thought it was our neighbour knocking that time at night having one off her many crisis lol....i was shocked and told him he had the wrong address was shocked to be honest that something this much fun could turn dangerous but its ok i got the baseball bat and the rough end of a pineapple if the f****r comes back ....we have messaged him asking for an explanation of his actions but as of yet he has not replied ....slowly losing my faith on single guy meets now which is wrong as i do enjoy the genuine ppl we have met xx"
Most single guys wouldnt dream of doing that but must admit, its bound to make you think twice. I have heard of similar cases, mainly from single ladies being pestered.
In future, I would only concentrate on guys who have a few verifications. The guy in question might have had a few, I dont know, and I realise its still no guarantee.
Good luck anyway. Have fun |
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I had an older lady I used to text a lot and we were moving toward a meet. When I didn't text her for a couple of days once she went bonkers at me. 
She apologised a few days later but I just thought 'no thanks, I don't need a stalker' and stopped texting her back.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like a plonker and one who need to be taught a lesson ..time waster and unannounced meets do not go down well
I imagine he wont explain his moptives to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet single guys and 95% of the meets are in my home. I've NEVER had a single man overstep his boundaries and turn up at my house unannounced, and most of them are local to me. One of my playmates we used to bump into each other in Sainsbury's, we were both on our own and just barely acknowledged each other. We didn't stop in the middle of the frozen section for a chin wag - and we've been playing together for three years...boundaries!!!
This is not the first tale I've read about men turning up unannounced, someone posted this week about taking a taxi to a meets house and he turned up at hers as he knew the taxi owner and he gave him her address!!!
This was a totally unacceeptable thing for this man to do, but please don't tar all single men with the same brush.
In three years I've not encountered a timewaster as I always meet socially first to gauge the type of person they are. I've been able to spot a few unsavourary characters that way for sure! |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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Was he pissed? I can't believe anyone would be so outrageous to act like that without being tanked up. I reckon a seeing to with the baseball bat would have been the best outcome really. |
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We don't ever give out our home address to any one - we always meet in a pub round the corner and they only get invited back if we're totally happy, can't imagine giving a random bloke who I had never met my address. Z |
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Yep twat! 
