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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope 
I don't really get hung up on veris. I can usually tell if I like someone myself, and if I do, then verification content, or their abundance, won't change that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I rarely look at verifications if I'm honest. I can see how many they have usually without physically looking at them.
Although if there are a lot I may just check they are not cam verifications. It may suggest they are not actually up to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does not put me off - its an indication of if they are genuine -
When was on here previously I had some 40 veri's and would often get rejected because of them - my response was always the same .........quote "if I was able to post a self verification for every time had sex with my other half, there be 100's every year, so 40 over 2 years is nowt" - that usually shut them up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if too graphic and too many of them .If spelling is wrong puts me off."
Wait, what? If the verifications that other people have left have spelling errors that puts you off? |
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Not at all..
We have many from people we have met at clubs and parties but haven't played with.
But looking at others with a high volume of veris doesnt put us off, even if they're all play meets. I should add, if safe sex is practised then we have no problem. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes puts us off if there are lots of frequent play veris e.g. Once a week with different people as its not what we are after and want to meet people who are the same quality over quantity x |
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"Yes puts us off if there are lots of frequent play veris e.g. Once a week with different people as its not what we are after and want to meet people who are the same quality over quantity x"
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Hopefully you will like that we only have one veri x |
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Yes... and the type of people they meet.... iv said no to a few because the people the have been with...
The term scraping the bottom.of the barrel comes to mind
N I'm gunna be honest bout it... I'm sure sumone will have a go at me |
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Doesn't bother me in the least I only read the first couple anyway.
Did have a guy once pm me to say that he was interested but the amount of verifications I had put him off, I lost a lot of sleep over that |
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The bigger the veri the more that there is that I can choose to put my attention on. Or ignore.
Like some others, I'm not looking for some erotic porn to read, so a lot of detail is beyond my interests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me in the least I only read the first couple anyway.
Did have a guy once pm me to say that he was interested but the amount of verifications I had put him off, I lost a lot of sleep over that"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a lot? A lot could be 5 or could be 500"
This.
Verifications mean nothing. Just because someone just has social veri's on show, doesn't mean they don't fuck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me in the least I only read the first couple anyway.
Did have a guy once pm me to say that he was interested but the amount of verifications I had put him off, I lost a lot of sleep over that"
OMG diamonds! A guy on a swingers site didn't want to meet an experienced woman!!!
What is the world coming to!
Personally I love em. The more veris the more likely I am to answer the messages  |
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Verifications are just that; to verify the person is genuine, and will meet others, they don't need to be graphic and give a blow-by-blow (excuse the pun) account of a meet. I do like to check who someone has met before, but I don't like 2 or 3 veris per week. I have had people turn me down because they thought me 'too active' though  |
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"Doesn't bother me in the least I only read the first couple anyway.
Did have a guy once pm me to say that he was interested but the amount of verifications I had put him off, I lost a lot of sleep over that
OMG diamonds! A guy on a swingers site didn't want to meet an experienced woman!!!
What is the world coming to!
Personally I love em. The more veris the more likely I am to answer the messages "
I found it amusing, I have no idea why some random guy who I had never come across in my life would think I'd be disappointed he didn't want to meet me. |
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If they have 100 verifications from the same woman, each meet the level of possessiveness being racked up a notch with every other sentence "I want to keep him to myself..." then yeah, it puts me off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got bollocked the other day by someone I was talking to on here (just exchanged a few messages) because I had the audacity to meet someone else for a social and they verified me. Gadzooks!!!!!!
Veris can be a bonus or a hindrance depending on the viewer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive hidden all my veris, dont have a friends list or pics anymore...
It just becomes a headache ...
I have got caught up in other peoples issues, which havent even had anything to do with me, all because of veris from people...
So I now keep it simple |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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To those that think a smaller amount of veris is in some way better than a larger number............
Sleep safe in the knowledge that those people have only ever slept with those people that have verified them.
Nobody else.
Ever.
Because it's not at all possible that they're on other sites. Or visit clubs and hook up with people not on fab. Or go dogging. Or indulge in weekly bareback gangbangs with unknown strangers. Or pick up random people in pubs.
So long as they only have a few veris - all is good! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... and the type of people they meet.... iv said no to a few because the people the have been with...
The term scraping the bottom.of the barrel comes to mind
N I'm gunna be honest bout it... I'm sure sumone will have a go at me"
No because I as well as others agree with you. Makes me cringe when I see they've done it bare back too. All my verifications are socials. I have had sexual meets but the details are between me and the guy I'm with. I personally dislike reading graphic sexual details in verifications. All I need to know is if that guy is genuine, looks like his pics and is safe to alone with. |
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over a year ago
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"To those that think a smaller amount of veris is in some way better than a larger number............
Sleep safe in the knowledge that those people have only ever slept with those people that have verified them.
Nobody else.
Ever.
Because it's not at all possible that they're on other sites. Or visit clubs and hook up with people not on fab. Or go dogging. Or indulge in weekly bareback gangbangs with unknown strangers. Or pick up random people in pubs.
So long as they only have a few veris - all is good!
A"
Nice one Obi! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive hidden all my veris, dont have a friends list or pics anymore...
It just becomes a headache ...
I have got caught up in other peoples issues, which havent even had anything to do with me, all because of veris from people...
I had one crazy sounding woman asking if the guy I just had a verification from kissed me. Apparently he told her he wasn't into kissing. I found it absolutely strange why she felt the need to message me something like that!
So I now keep it simple "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest. Someone could have more veris than they publish.
Lots of people like us attend socials. A verification is just to show people are who they say they are |
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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago
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"To those that think a smaller amount of veris is in some way better than a larger number............
Sleep safe in the knowledge that those people have only ever slept with those people that have verified them.
Nobody else.
Ever.
Because it's not at all possible that they're on other sites. Or visit clubs and hook up with people not on fab. Or go dogging. Or indulge in weekly bareback gangbangs with unknown strangers. Or pick up random people in pubs.
So long as they only have a few veris - all is good!
A"
You said exactly what i was thinking.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive hidden all my veris, dont have a friends list or pics anymore...
It just becomes a headache ...
I have got caught up in other peoples issues, which havent even had anything to do with me, all because of veris from people...
I had one crazy sounding woman asking if the guy I just had a verification from kissed me. Apparently he told her he wasn't into kissing. I found it absolutely strange why she felt the need to message me something like that!
So I now keep it simple "
Some of my veris are really lovely, but really dont need random people asking someone from my veri list, to ask me about someone else on my veri list in the hope for looking for an answer to a question they may have ( and so it went on and on and on)
So got rid of the lot !!
Simples. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes... and the type of people they meet.... iv said no to a few because the people the have been with...
The term scraping the bottom.of the barrel comes to mind
N I'm gunna be honest bout it... I'm sure sumone will have a go at me"
I know what you mean; I've said no to a few of them too after reading who they had met |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"What's a lot? A lot could be 5 or could be 500"
5 or less for a guy means that he is a timewaster
500 or more for a woman means that she is a slag
Now that is sorted out, let me check mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if too graphic and too many of them .If spelling is wrong puts me off.
Wait, what? If the verifications that other people have left have spelling errors that puts you off?"
it's the profile that would put me off |
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