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"Regardless of age... if you start a relationship with someone and basic honesty isn't there from the get go then you're not with the right person. If someone loves you, I mean really loves you then they will accept that you have a past, it's been part of what's moulded you into the person you've become and if they can't accept that... run! "True that. 
My first abusive ex used to think there was something wrong with me for being a 'slag' even though he was one himself. It didn't work out at all and i can't even talk to him at all now, he's the main reason i'm glad i gave up drinking coz i made a lot of bad choices when pissed. | |||
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"I would hide this from my future settling down partner if they were not into kink and or swinging. I don't see how they would find out. I don't think doing this makes me less likely to marry" | |||
"I would hide this from my future settling down partner if they were not into kink and or swinging. I don't see how they would find out. I don't think doing this makes me less likely to marry" 
If you're never going to bump into someone you've met from here that's pretty ease to do. However, loads of my friends from here are friends outwith so there's always that question of 'how did you meet x' and I have such a bad memory, I'd never be able to keep track of the lies. It's not like you can say 'hang on, let me just refer to my notes'
I just prefer to be honest. I am who I am. I'm not going to change that to be accepted. This is the package, there's the door. | |||
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"NB:Please don't consider me as sexist or anything like that coz I am only interested to know what happens with single women on Fab , just for this thread. My issue is with single young women on here who I suspect have not been married or been in a long term relationship that I find on this site . What are the chances that , after meeting a few, if not hundreds , of men on here , they will eventually find a non -swinger to marry and settle down with ? Would it not be difficult if not impossible to ever be able to live that conventional life of kids and family after being on here first ? What about if the future husband finds out that you were previously on Fab? Am just asking guys and please don't misconstrue , it's all for my educational informative purpose." Hi OP. I am not a young woman and I am in a relationship with someone I met here on fab. But I have to admit when I see a young man or woman on here I think they should be perhaps doing what I was doing at their age and if they have such a liberal and open attitude to sex at such a young age, where will it go? I was on here as a single fem (albeit an older one) for four years, and I, like AB, don't swing when I am in a relationship where it is not part of it. I can totally adapt and do. Even now my relationship with my partner is making me change my outlook, hence I don't meet men alone and even with him, I rarely do. The problem I have with my own attitude to other younger women is that I compare them to myself and times have changed - so do I have the right to do that. I worry for them that they won't get to have a stable loving relationship, but then I think I may be imposing values from a bi-gone age. I still don't feel comfortable with seeing this, but then again, a fair few teenagers and young adults are promiscuous outside of swinging. My partner and myself discussed this on the evening of our first meet (as you do) - namely, we have gone so far, each on our separate journeys and done so much, that there is indeed little left to do - so where do you go from here? What happened to us was we went and had a relationship, that is both vanilla and totally normal and has the swinging fetish element too. It's the best of both worlds. I think people settle down in time and youth is a time for exploration and self expression. Rambling ... sorry. Made me think about my own attitudes. | |||
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"My wife was very promiscuous before I met her and still is " | |||
To be honest even on this site you get guys and gals that judge you. | |||
"NB:Please don't consider me as sexist or anything like that coz I am only interested to know what happens with single women on Fab , just for this thread. My issue is with single young women on here who I suspect have not been married or been in a long term relationship that I find on this site . What are the chances that , after meeting a few, if not hundreds , of men on here , they will eventually find a non -swinger to marry and settle down with ? Would it not be difficult if not impossible to ever be able to live that conventional life of kids and family after being on here first ? What about if the future husband finds out that you were previously on Fab? Am just asking guys and please don't misconstrue , it's all for my educational informative purpose. Hi OP. I am not a young woman and I am in a relationship with someone I met here on fab. But I have to admit when I see a young man or woman on here I think they should be perhaps doing what I was doing at their age and if they have such a liberal and open attitude to sex at such a young age, where will it go? I was on here as a single fem (albeit an older one) for four years, and I, like AB, don't swing when I am in a relationship where it is not part of it. I can totally adapt and do. Even now my relationship with my partner is making me change my outlook, hence I don't meet men alone and even with him, I rarely do. The problem I have with my own attitude to other younger women is that I compare them to myself and times have changed - so do I have the right to do that. I worry for them that they won't get to have a stable loving relationship, but then I think I may be imposing values from a bi-gone age. I still don't feel comfortable with seeing this, but then again, a fair few teenagers and young adults are promiscuous outside of swinging. My partner and myself discussed this on the evening of our first meet (as you do) - namely, we have gone so far, each on our separate journeys and done so much, that there is indeed little left to do - so where do you go from here? What happened to us was we went and had a relationship, that is both vanilla and totally normal and has the swinging fetish element too. It's the best of both worlds. I think people settle down in time and youth is a time for exploration and self expression. Rambling ... sorry. Made me think about my own attitudes. " You are not rambling at all , that's exactly my point , call me a bit old fashioned nut I honestly think swinging should be done after you have experienced the conventional "normal" life and then opt for swinging.Ideally , after marriage or long-term relationship then opt for swinging as a lifestyle thereafter. Well that's just me. | |||
"Im single. Ive never been married but ive had long term relationships. Im happy being single but if i was to date or look for a relationship, i wouldnt be looking on here for one. So for me finding a partner on here would never happen. " Me too. I'm here for fun. Nothing serious. | |||
"NB:Please don't consider me as sexist or anything like that coz I am only interested to know what happens with single women on Fab , just for this thread. My issue is with single young women on here who I suspect have not been married or been in a long term relationship that I find on this site . What are the chances that , after meeting a few, if not hundreds , of men on here , they will eventually find a non -swinger to marry and settle down with ? Would it not be difficult if not impossible to ever be able to live that conventional life of kids and family after being on here first ? What about if the future husband finds out that you were previously on Fab? Am just asking guys and please don't misconstrue , it's all for my educational informative purpose. Hi OP. I am not a young woman and I am in a relationship with someone I met here on fab. But I have to admit when I see a young man or woman on here I think they should be perhaps doing what I was doing at their age and if they have such a liberal and open attitude to sex at such a young age, where will it go? I was on here as a single fem (albeit an older one) for four years, and I, like AB, don't swing when I am in a relationship where it is not part of it. I can totally adapt and do. Even now my relationship with my partner is making me change my outlook, hence I don't meet men alone and even with him, I rarely do. The problem I have with my own attitude to other younger women is that I compare them to myself and times have changed - so do I have the right to do that. I worry for them that they won't get to have a stable loving relationship, but then I think I may be imposing values from a bi-gone age. I still don't feel comfortable with seeing this, but then again, a fair few teenagers and young adults are promiscuous outside of swinging. My partner and myself discussed this on the evening of our first meet (as you do) - namely, we have gone so far, each on our separate journeys and done so much, that there is indeed little left to do - so where do you go from here? What happened to us was we went and had a relationship, that is both vanilla and totally normal and has the swinging fetish element too. It's the best of both worlds. I think people settle down in time and youth is a time for exploration and self expression. Rambling ... sorry. Made me think about my own attitudes. You are not rambling at all , that's exactly my point , call me a bit old fashioned nut I honestly think swinging should be done after you have experienced the conventional "normal" life and then opt for swinging.Ideally , after marriage or long-term relationship then opt for swinging as a lifestyle thereafter. Well that's just me. " just out of interest, what would be the difference between a young woman sleeping around..... and a young man sleeping around? | |||
"NB:Please don't consider me as sexist or anything like that coz I am only interested to know what happens with single women on Fab , just for this thread. My issue is with single young women on here who I suspect have not been married or been in a long term relationship that I find on this site . What are the chances that , after meeting a few, if not hundreds , of men on here , they will eventually find a non -swinger to marry and settle down with ? Would it not be difficult if not impossible to ever be able to live that conventional life of kids and family after being on here first ? What about if the future husband finds out that you were previously on Fab? Am just asking guys and please don't misconstrue , it's all for my educational informative purpose. Hi OP. I am not a young woman and I am in a relationship with someone I met here on fab. But I have to admit when I see a young man or woman on here I think they should be perhaps doing what I was doing at their age and if they have such a liberal and open attitude to sex at such a young age, where will it go? I was on here as a single fem (albeit an older one) for four years, and I, like AB, don't swing when I am in a relationship where it is not part of it. I can totally adapt and do. Even now my relationship with my partner is making me change my outlook, hence I don't meet men alone and even with him, I rarely do. The problem I have with my own attitude to other younger women is that I compare them to myself and times have changed - so do I have the right to do that. I worry for them that they won't get to have a stable loving relationship, but then I think I may be imposing values from a bi-gone age. I still don't feel comfortable with seeing this, but then again, a fair few teenagers and young adults are promiscuous outside of swinging. My partner and myself discussed this on the evening of our first meet (as you do) - namely, we have gone so far, each on our separate journeys and done so much, that there is indeed little left to do - so where do you go from here? What happened to us was we went and had a relationship, that is both vanilla and totally normal and has the swinging fetish element too. It's the best of both worlds. I think people settle down in time and youth is a time for exploration and self expression. Rambling ... sorry. Made me think about my own attitudes. You are not rambling at all , that's exactly my point , call me a bit old fashioned nut I honestly think swinging should be done after you have experienced the conventional "normal" life and then opt for swinging.Ideally , after marriage or long-term relationship then opt for swinging as a lifestyle thereafter. Well that's just me. " Why though? It makes more sense, to me, to fuck around and not commit yourself to one person at first to get an idea of what different relationships can be about. Then find out what you like and settle with that, if you even want to settle at all. | |||
"Regardless of age... if you start a relationship with someone and basic honesty isn't there from the get go then you're not with the right person." | |||
"NB:Please don't consider me as sexist or anything like that coz I am only interested to know what happens with single women on Fab , just for this thread. My issue is with single young women on here who I suspect have not been married or been in a long term relationship that I find on this site . What are the chances that , after meeting a few, if not hundreds , of men on here , they will eventually find a non -swinger to marry and settle down with ? Would it not be difficult if not impossible to ever be able to live that conventional life of kids and family after being on here first ? What about if the future husband finds out that you were previously on Fab? Am just asking guys and please don't misconstrue , it's all for my educational informative purpose. Hi OP. I am not a young woman and I am in a relationship with someone I met here on fab. But I have to admit when I see a young man or woman on here I think they should be perhaps doing what I was doing at their age and if they have such a liberal and open attitude to sex at such a young age, where will it go? I was on here as a single fem (albeit an older one) for four years, and I, like AB, don't swing when I am in a relationship where it is not part of it. I can totally adapt and do. Even now my relationship with my partner is making me change my outlook, hence I don't meet men alone and even with him, I rarely do. The problem I have with my own attitude to other younger women is that I compare them to myself and times have changed - so do I have the right to do that. I worry for them that they won't get to have a stable loving relationship, but then I think I may be imposing values from a bi-gone age. I still don't feel comfortable with seeing this, but then again, a fair few teenagers and young adults are promiscuous outside of swinging. My partner and myself discussed this on the evening of our first meet (as you do) - namely, we have gone so far, each on our separate journeys and done so much, that there is indeed little left to do - so where do you go from here? What happened to us was we went and had a relationship, that is both vanilla and totally normal and has the swinging fetish element too. It's the best of both worlds. I think people settle down in time and youth is a time for exploration and self expression. Rambling ... sorry. Made me think about my own attitudes. You are not rambling at all , that's exactly my point , call me a bit old fashioned nut I honestly think swinging should be done after you have experienced the conventional "normal" life and then opt for swinging.Ideally , after marriage or long-term relationship then opt for swinging as a lifestyle thereafter. Well that's just me. just out of interest, what would be the difference between a young woman sleeping around..... and a young man sleeping around? " For me, absolutely not. I personally think that you can duck around, but better to be with people sort of your own age and emotional maturity - I think someone who is 18 to 20 ish is too close to a child in their needs - I can say that based on the fact that I was and although some of that age will claim they are not, how many times did I listen to my fifteen year old saying he knows more than me about life - its an affliction of the young. Yes duck around to find yourself, but with others who are trying to find themselves too. And it goes as much for boys as it does for girls. | |||
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"Women get labelled a term. Don't think I really need to say it do I?. Either way if you lie about this what else would you not be trueful about. If your not ashamed of it then you would say. Not like they would dump you is it?" You're right,she may lie about shoes costing £20 less than she paid for them  | |||
