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What makes you decide not to have a second meet with someone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're a selfish fuck and make no attempt to please me. Hardly any guys are like this thank god.
Also the way they interact with me, say it feels awkward to be around them or just nothing to talk about with them. I usually can chat to anyone but some people i can't.
And, if they make funny noises during sex that make me wanna laugh...sorry but i just can't.
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Well, the society today is like that...always excuses to not meet again
The question should be:
"what do I need to do to able to have a 2nd date with someone?" 
It is awesome to know each other...Sex is better, laughs are better, kisses are better  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well, the society today is like that...always excuses to not meet again
The question should be:
"what do I need to do to able to have a 2nd date with someone?"
It is awesome to know each other...Sex is better, laughs are better, kisses are better "
Iv not asked because I'm trying to get a second "date"
I'm asking why people wouldn't choose to have a second meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they're a selfish fuck and make no attempt to please me. Hardly any guys are like this thank god.
Also the way they interact with me, say it feels awkward to be around them or just nothing to talk about with them. I usually can chat to anyone but some people i can't.
And, if they make funny noises during sex that make me wanna laugh...sorry but i just can't.
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 funny noises can put me off too! Howling or grunting |
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"If they're a selfish fuck and make no attempt to please me. Hardly any guys are like this thank god.
Also the way they interact with me, say it feels awkward to be around them or just nothing to talk about with them. I usually can chat to anyone but some people i can't.
And, if they make funny noises during sex that make me wanna laugh...sorry but i just can't.
funny noises can put me off too! Howling or grunting "
Fine we wont meet you on a full moon then...!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they're a selfish fuck and make no attempt to please me. Hardly any guys are like this thank god.
Also the way they interact with me, say it feels awkward to be around them or just nothing to talk about with them. I usually can chat to anyone but some people i can't.
And, if they make funny noises during sex that make me wanna laugh...sorry but i just can't.
funny noises can put me off too! Howling or grunting
Fine we wont meet you on a full moon then...! "
good choice! I'd probably eat you alive |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not here for regular meets so wouldn't be that bothered, but guys I would definitely not meet again would be the ones who won't go down on me, even if they have 'love oral' on their profile. And ones who mess me about. Like the guy who asked me to delay our meet by an hour then waited 10 mins before leaving the meet venue (I was there as well, but he didn't see me). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Defo porn star noises would be a huge no for me! I would piss myself laughing instantly "
If I'm enjoying something it comes natural to me to moan (in a good way) and groan.
I can't stand silent fuckers! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not here for regular meets so wouldn't be that bothered, but guys I would definitely not meet again would be the ones who won't go down on me, even if they have 'love oral' on their profile. And ones who mess me about. Like the guy who asked me to delay our meet by an hour then waited 10 mins before leaving the meet venue (I was there as well, but he didn't see me)."
Oh no! What a twat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv on occasion met a guy twice then the third time was shit "
Been there done that
Met a few guys where at first the sex was great but after a few meets they have stopped putting any effort into it and just wanted a blow job and a shag
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"Iv on occasion met a guy twice then the third time was shit
Been there done that
Met a few guys where at first the sex was great but after a few meets they have stopped putting any effort into it and just wanted a blow job and a shag
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Ah well you would need to select partners better than XD the third time seems too early to me to decrease the Sex quality!? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not been funny but u go down some one and it smells like a rat has just died there, ofcos if it clean a day tidy enough the guy should "
I feel for you |
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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago
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Like the guy who asked me to delay our meet by an hour then waited 10 mins before leaving the meet venue (I was there as well, but he didn't see me).
I don't follow this... Can you explain?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I said shit sex would that be too obvious??
Not at all! Iv been known to tell some guys they are shit in bed
I would like to know what it is "good sex" for you all. Just make a survey  "
You really shouldn't need telling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're a selfish fuck and make no attempt to please me. Hardly any guys are like this thank god.
Also the way they interact with me, say it feels awkward to be around them or just nothing to talk about with them. I usually can chat to anyone but some people i can't.
And, if they make funny noises during sex that make me wanna laugh...sorry but i just can't.
funny noises can put me off too! Howling or grunting "
Haha, never had a howler, don't mind a bit of grunting though. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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I tend not to worry about it too much - as others have said, it is NSA after all.
When I miss out on repeat meets, it is usually to do with time/distance constraints. I still keep in touch with some people that I have only met once, say and I have known a long time.....people have busy lives, me included. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv on occasion met a guy twice then the third time was shit
Been there done that
Met a few guys where at first the sex was great but after a few meets they have stopped putting any effort into it and just wanted a blow job and a shag
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I fall into that mindset sometimes, if I spot it, the next meet I put in more effort to satisfy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly for Me (ms) its boredom.... Its rare I ever find some one I'd want to meet a 2nd time.
To be fair we rarely seem to... We have a few friends that we do meet on occasion with but certainly wouldn't meet often x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely do repeat meets.......if I meet again then we have clicked beyond the sex.
Well you have never had amazing Sex then "
I said rarely....not never  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Like the guy who asked me to delay our meet by an hour then waited 10 mins before leaving the meet venue (I was there as well, but he didn't see me).
I don't follow this... Can you explain?
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he meet was arranged for 7pm, he asked if we could delay it til 8pm. No problem. I turned up at 7.45pm, waited til 8.15pm before texting him, Turned out he'd already been and gone. So he waited 10 mins, didn't even bother to look around for me, and buggered off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who was the op? Anyone know/care?
BCW I think....
Bcw?
Breakfast can wait.
I cba to type it full the 1st time... "
Oh.....doh...thick moment......i think shes had 3 profiles while I've been in between meets! She'll be back tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who was the op? Anyone know/care?
BCW I think....
Bcw?
Breakfast can wait.
I cba to type it full the 1st time...
Oh.....doh...thick moment......i think shes had 3 profiles while I've been in between meets! She'll be back tomorrow "
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"I rarely do repeat meets.......if I meet again then we have clicked beyond the sex.
Well you have never had amazing Sex then
I said rarely....not never "
You said "rarely" and then you said that "if you did meet again it meant you clicked beyond sex"
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No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely do repeat meets.......if I meet again then we have clicked beyond the sex.
Well you have never had amazing Sex then
I said rarely....not never
You said "rarely" and then you said that "if you did meet again it meant you clicked beyond sex"
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Yes and had amazing sex with those that I choose to meet again. I've never had amazing sex with someone I haven't clicked with beyond the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females. "
Exactly.......this is the whole reason.why we swing....for variety. I'm not necessarily looking to connect beyond sex so there is usually no reason for further meets. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females.
Exactly.......this is the whole reason.why we swing....for variety. I'm not necessarily looking to connect beyond sex so there is usually no reason for further meets."
If I meet a good 'un and there's a chance to meet again, I will. But I won't hanker after it. |
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"No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females.
Exactly.......this is the whole reason.why we swing....for variety. I'm not necessarily looking to connect beyond sex so there is usually no reason for further meets."
I do understand the philosophy of nowadays: quantity over quality...
However you actually said that if you find someone you like particularly you will meet again
That makes me happy, it means that there is a remote possibility to find a few girlfriends on this site to see for a certain period of time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely do repeat meets.......if I meet again then we have clicked beyond the sex."
hey sexy who was the op on this thread and that is a gorgeous bum xx |
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If they lie.
If they put zero effort in to keep in touch in between meets.
If they're a game player.
If they smell.
If the sex was disappointing.
If they had no conversation in them.
I could go on.. |
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"Who was the op? Anyone know/care?
BCW I think....
Bcw?
Breakfast can wait.
I cba to type it full the 1st time...
Oh.....doh...thick moment......i think shes had 3 profiles while I've been in between meets! She'll be back tomorrow "
The OP's puppy died earlier tonight  That's why she's left us. |
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"Who was the op? Anyone know/care?
BCW I think....
Bcw?
Breakfast can wait.
I cba to type it full the 1st time...
Oh.....doh...thick moment......i think shes had 3 profiles while I've been in between meets! She'll be back tomorrow
The OP's puppy died earlier tonight That's why she's left us."
Oh that's so sad, no wonder she's not interested in being on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females.
Exactly.......this is the whole reason.why we swing....for variety. I'm not necessarily looking to connect beyond sex so there is usually no reason for further meets."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter how good you are in bed.majority of women in fab don't like to meet the same person twice.
Because the essence of joining fab site is to meet variety of different people. InfacIn fact this is mostly prevalent with single females. "
I prefer to meet the same men aa the sex gets better as you get to know each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they lie.
If they put zero effort in to keep in touch in between meets.
If they're a game player.
If they smell.
If the sex was disappointing.
If they had no conversation in them.
I could go on.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they lie.
If they put zero effort in to keep in touch in between meets.
If they're a game player.
If they smell.
If the sex was disappointing.
If they had no conversation in them.
I could go on.."
And loooooooads of game players on here, male and female |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who was the op? Anyone know/care?
BCW I think....
Bcw?
Breakfast can wait.
I cba to type it full the 1st time...
Oh.....doh...thick moment......i think shes had 3 profiles while I've been in between meets! She'll be back tomorrow
The OP's puppy died earlier tonight That's why she's left us."
Oh no. That is sad. Send her our sympathies please Howard. Xxx |
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