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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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When it comes to trying to connect with people on here and hopefully arrange meets, do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals you come across or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with? |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."
  ...personally I generally need both... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me  "
Hotness is a major factor. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor. "
I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge  |
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"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor. "
That's why we keep ending up with a gas fire that tell a jokes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll look at pics and profile description and if either spark interest I'll message. Obviously if I match what they are looking for. It is very rare I'll message nowadays having said that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks always come first for me
Sorry just being honest
If I look at pics and I'm not attracted I see no point in talking
Personality is just as important though
As they say looks get my attention, personality keeps it
My idea of good looking isnt what most people would find good looking though, they only have to be good looking to me not to the majority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor.
I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge "
Aim high we like it. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor.
I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge
Aim high we like it. "
sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it comes to trying to connect with people on here and hopefully arrange meets, do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals you come across or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?"
I personally have everyone on an equal footing and message women couples who have a profile I think matches mine but hey theirs no accounting for taste |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor.
I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge
Aim high we like it.
sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable.... "
You need to work on your aim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I scored a HAWT dancer in March.
As I said on our first meeting: "You are *almost* out of my league."
Who knows what is possible until you attempt the imposable and succeed? "
I've got hot men coming out of my ears. I'm on here to find the freaks and wayward types. |
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I don't tend to take much notice of pics. I've been caught out too many times before. Whether they look better or nothing like their pics at all, I've not always been pleasently surprised. I've learnt to appreciate the banta that I have before I meet; that's much more of a turn on for me then their mug shot. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me
Hotness is a major factor.
I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge
Aim high we like it.
sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable....
You need to work on your aim. "
Hmm...higher...lower...left a bit...fire!! Could at least be friends on here...can even friend request you guys...Grrrr |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I don't, I prefer to be targetted  "
Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go the occasional socials and tend to meet people there that I think I like then arrange further meets. So it's a looks/personality combo for me too x"
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"When it comes to trying to connect with people on here and hopefully arrange meets, do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals you come across or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?"
Why the aim lower bit, looks aren't everything. There is much more to a person than looks, sometimes the person's personality is more beautiful than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."
That's handy there's plenty of mental people on fabs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are important but I don't think my idea of hot is the same as a lot of other people's idea of hot. So I go for a hitlist of hand selected folk who I'm attracted to. |
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"When it comes to trying to connect with people on here do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?"
Somewhere in the middle..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its mostly personality that attracts me, the man doesnt need to look like a model but at the same time I have to find some thing attractive about the face
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"99% of the time I don't use the site for meets. It has to be someone I really like to meet them off here. "
Me too!
I use sites like this to meet people I wouldn't usually meet in my daily life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to message men as I know the guys I go for are way out of my league!! i have a soft spot for young bad boys with tattoos, so anyone else messages me then they have to be a certain kind of person to keep me interested.
Think I've messaged about three men in total since I've been here, I plucked the courage up and it wasn't too bad but yeah they were really hot guys, I did meet one the other day so I didn't do to bad.
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"I don't, I prefer to be targetted
Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman..."
I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol! |
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The ones that make me laugh, have an obvious sense of humour and interesting profiles
Couples with good verifications appeal to me. I only approach couples or females looking for group fun as I am not looking for a relationship.
Like profiles that offer something different who can help me experiment and explore and women who can play with my mind more so than my body. Love wanting something I cannot have, of have to earn rewards and favours and accept the fact that they might not be forthcoming.
Always look for secure couples, Couples that are happy in their relationship and who’s partners will be the alpha male. Having said that instructing Cuck couples appeals to me.
I’m also attracted to couples who show understanding, maybe in their profile text or in the forums. Avoid those who shout using capitals, have prejudices or judge others (especially in the forums)
My biggest soft spot is for Indian couples, couples that intrigue me who I’d like to be friendly with, without sexual play. Admire confident people, people who know what they want and who are open with their desires and are secure in their own relationship
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us looks certainly help but ultimately it comes down to personality. Sexiness is so much more than just looking good. Our 17 year old selves would probably disagree but without the person to match it gets boring. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I don't, I prefer to be targetted
Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...
I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol! "
Its an unfair world on fab....dog eat dog too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."
I kind of agree have been chatting to a woman for nine months never seen a pic of her but already know I like her |
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"I don't, I prefer to be targetted
Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...
I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol!
Its an unfair world on fab....dog eat dog too "
It's karma for the hard time women get on dating sites haha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message
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Couldn't have said it better myself , although I'm finding they aren't the nicest people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message
Couldn't have said it better myself , although I'm finding they aren't the nicest people"
hey if you want nice that's me x  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Looks obviously play an initial part then their profile and if it hits the right tones for us we'll then get into a conversation to see if there's any common ground. We tend to like what we consider, grounded, realistic, nice to be around kind of people, veris sometimes we find can be a good indicator of this. We're pretty quite, reserved and quick witted types and not shy at all, lol, and ultimately here for play and good play at that, when we feel we have a connection and they're wanting to meet us on a mutual basis then it's all go for us, just need to arrange a convenient time to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who are looking for the same kinds of experiences as we are...
Looks do play a part but only in so much as there are some absolute no go areas for us...bad teeth, dirty fingernails, poor hygiene in general... shaven heads are a massive turn off for Janey but not to the extent that it would be a deal breaker if we got on well with people... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The weak and the injured...easy prey.
Puny guy with broken leg here...."
Limps in behind this guy; in a full body cast.
Sence of humor is the most important thing . If your going to allow yourself to get chatted up by a leprechaun . Your probably very polite too ...
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