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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If my lovers all had a veri from me, I wonder if they really would be shunned by their previous and future meets?

How would you feel if a guy you'd played with turned out to be into a 'girl' like me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

"Wouldn't bother me. "

but would bother plenty others

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"If my lovers all had a veri from me, I wonder if they really would be shunned by their previous and future meets?

How would you feel if a guy you'd played with turned out to be into a 'girl' like me?"

I'd wonder why he hadn't mentioned it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't care, but if he was ashamed of it then I'd not be interested in him.

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

As I'm straight and my partners tend to be women, I'll transpose this to "she" instead of "he".

It wouldn't bother me one little jot. In fact, if anything, I'd heartily approve of their open mindedness and lack of prejudice.

I think our prejudices speak more about ourselves than those against whom we're prejudiced, and the sooner we see interpersonal encounters as meetings of human beings (or souls drawn together) rather than between categories thereof the better. Having said that, since I'm straight, I probably epitomize the nature of such barriers holding us back from that aspect of oneness, and so I guess I have as far to go as anyone on that journey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't care, but if he was ashamed of it then I'd not be interested in him. "

^^ This.

Being ashamed of sleeping with someone is a far worse offence than who they've actually slept with.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I wouldn't bat an eyelid (although I might ask if he could take me along on a repeat meet).

;-)

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS over a year ago

Epsom

"I wouldn't bat an eyelid (although I might ask if he could take me along on a repeat meet).

;-)"

I think I love you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me.

but would bother plenty others

I don't care about others.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

"If my lovers all had a veri from me, I wonder if they really would be shunned by their previous and future meets?

How would you feel if a guy you'd played with turned out to be into a 'girl' like me?"

I would be worried in case they were comparing how bad I am, to how good you were.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair to say 'WE' have all been just that person!

Bothered?

Not a bit!

But Id still only play 'safe' x x

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By *encarolCouple over a year ago

Tyneside

Yes happened to me many years ago on a works night out , did not tell anyone, but I found it a very sexy experience

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

I'd do a mini dance because they're into T-girls like I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes happened to me many years ago on a works night out , did not tell anyone, but I found it a very sexy experience

Do you mean you met a woman who was a tgirl on a night out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some of my partners veris make interesting reading; quite a few people stating they won't play with people who've been near a tgirl or bi guy.

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By *urvyemmaWoman over a year ago

wigan/bolton

I would be pissed off. ..because I would think he obviously likes great legs and I haven't got great legs so I would feel all jealous and insecure

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"If my lovers all had a veri from me, I wonder if they really would be shunned by their previous and future meets?

How would you feel if a guy you'd played with turned out to be into a 'girl' like me?"

We share ... as we are both into 'girls like you' ...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wouldn't bother me.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn't care, but if he was ashamed of it then I'd not be interested in him.

^^ This.

Being ashamed of sleeping with someone is a far worse offence than who they've actually slept with."

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