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Hypocracy and double standards everywhere on this site!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair...."
hey women rule here get used to it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is all about being in a position of strength; women are bombarded with messages on here - showing an attractive face pic probably makes it worse for them.
As a consequence they set the rules, you don't have to contact them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair....hey women rule here get used to it "
Haha! Yeah I have noticed that lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair....hey women rule here get used to it "
Haha! Yeah I have noticed that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, most women will share a face pic with you once you have sent one to them (assuming yours hasn't scared them away!)
I have turned women down because I didn't find them visually "my type" - I have also been turned down and even instantly blocked [someone that knew me in real life, maybe?] after exchanging face pics. We can't all find each other attractive |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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ive always had face pics public on here, i expect one back, if people want to meet, even if its sent to me attached to a message..
other people can do what they like, not my business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive always had face pics public on here, i expect one back, if people want to meet, even if its sent to me attached to a message..
other people can do what they like, not my business"
Suzy you are certainly not a hypocrite ,thanks for fabbing pics by the way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive always had face pics public on here, i expect one back, if people want to meet, even if its sent to me attached to a message..
other people can do what they like, not my business"
This ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have face pics on here but only send them with messages. I like to keep my face off the Internet as I don't want everybody knowing my business. I don't expect women to be any different. If they won't let me see a face pic, I won't meet. No hypocrisy, just security. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"ive always had face pics public on here, i expect one back, if people want to meet, even if its sent to me attached to a message..
other people can do what they like, not my businessSuzy you are certainly not a hypocrite ,thanks for fabbing pics by the way xx "
my pleasure  neeed anymore taken?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair...."
Nobody is forcing you to contact them.if no one contacts them,they might change their ways.then again,they might not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair...."
How do you know they haven't uploaded a pic? They might be set to private to send to those who they are interested in after receiving a message and face pic. And I assume you've looked at a lot of mens' profiles as well to make the assumption it's mostly women who do that? I look at both and have seen it on plenty of mens' and couples' profiles as well.
I have my face pics in private and will send them to someone I'm interested in. I get enough mail from chancers as it is without my face (which I think is my best feature) on display.
(the above statement about my face being my best feature may or may not be true; I like an air of mystery) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I state in my profile that I will return a picture if I like the whole package and want to meet. I have been turned down after sending a face pic and have turned others down because they are not my cup of tea. Horses for courses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple. "
Absolute rubbish - don't tar us all with the same brush! See my post above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple. "
That's right lol.
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"That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple. That's right lol."
Don't encourage that negative _iew mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple. That's right lol.
Don't encourage that negative _iew mate "
I thought it was a preference as well tho pal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's cos men never turn a woman down,no matter how hoogly she is. Men don't need to see a face pic to know if he will fuck a woman. Women do. It's that simple.
Absolute rubbish - don't tar us all with the same brush! See my post above."
Chill Bill,it was a joke. Obviously one or two men won't fuck a minger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't like something,change it.
If you can't change it,change your attitude.
Don't complain."
Like I said, I'm really not that bothered. Just an observation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair....
Nobody is forcing you to contact them.if no one contacts them,they might change their ways.then again,they might not."
That is true, I am simply pointing out how it is hypocritical to expect somone to have pics when you have none yourself. 9 times out of 10 I don't contact them anyway because I want to see who i'm talking to just as much as they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I am one of those women and maybe it's rude of me but like I state in my profile if I'm going to be staring down or up at you for a period of time, I would like to be attracted to the whole 'thing' you could have the best body etc but if your not attractive to me as a whole, then what's the point? Maybe I'm too picky? Pretty sure we can all afford to be picky can't we?
I know I'm not attractive to the masses and it should the same vice versa? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does OP have a solution to offer for this dire injustice?
No... Do you!?
It doesn't bother me enough to need one."
I get the impression you're looking for an argument!? If you are, you can do one. I got better things to do than be arguing with you over a forum. I'm struggling to see why you even bothered to comment? |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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Leave them to their crap be it real or fakes behind the profile. Focus on what you seek and stick to that. Horses for courses and plenty of diamonds about on the quiet.
For sure though you'll make masses of s#yt personality & dubious behavior observations. Treat it as an accelerated lesson you would take a lifetime to experience outside this scene. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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I'd love an argument, but I don't fancy the make-up sex afterwards.
Sorry.
You posted a problem, I wondered if you had a solution. Your response to that could be seen as the start of any argumentativeness.
But it's all OK. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have lost count of how many profiles I see (mostly women) who demand face pictures etc. when messaging. Yet have been a member of the site for months and not uploaded a single pic of themselves!? Seems fair....
How do you know they haven't uploaded a pic? They might be set to private to send to those who they are interested in after receiving a message and face pic. And I assume you've looked at a lot of mens' profiles as well to make the assumption it's mostly women who do that? I look at both and have seen it on plenty of mens' and couples' profiles as well.
I have my face pics in private and will send them to someone I'm interested in. I get enough mail from chancers as it is without my face (which I think is my best feature) on display.
(the above statement about my face being my best feature may or may not be true; I like an air of mystery)"
Yes there are a lot of men who do it too. But as women get hundreds of messages a day, I doubt they notice as much, most of thier profiles say to not even bother messaging if you have no pic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd love an argument, but I don't fancy the make-up sex afterwards.
Sorry.
You posted a problem, I wondered if you had a solution. Your response to that could be seen as the start of any argumentativeness.
But it's all OK."
Fair enough. But like I said a couple of times in this thread, i'm not that bothered! Was not a problem, but an observation. |
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