We have met and played with local couples as we believe swinging is as much a social past time as well as discreet sexual fun between consentual adults.
We never discuss swinging outside of meets and even when chatting with other swingers we never name names.
But we have just been told by a couple we are too close after they saw our face pics so I presume they know us.
Would knowing or seeing locals be a no no to you or are you more trusting and liberated |
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Not really that fussed, we know a couple that live with a couple of hundred yards, we know a lady 400 miles away. We're all adults and know to respect each others privacy. |
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"Not really that fussed, we know a couple that live with a couple of hundred yards, we know a lady 400 miles away. We're all adults and know to respect each others privacy.
Spot on attitude  "
Spot on. There is a couple who I would love to get to know and to become aquainted with, who live very close to me. Have seen them in the street and have respected their privacy and will continue to do so
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"Not really that fussed, we know a couple that live with a couple of hundred yards, we know a lady 400 miles away. We're all adults and know to respect each others privacy. "
Totally agree although we have good friends who won't go to our local club in case they are recognised. She works for the council (not an MP! Lol) and he is a secondary school teacher.  |
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"Not really that fussed, we know a couple that live with a couple of hundred yards, we know a lady 400 miles away. We're all adults and know to respect each others privacy. "
We are all adults but I have read some experiences on here from people who have been approached in the street by "friends" from here while with family or even children. Others have been outed at work. We never meet anyone local and it has nothing to do with us not being liberated. |
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"We have met and played with local couples as we believe swinging is as much a social past time as well as discreet sexual fun between consentual adults.
We never discuss swinging outside of meets and even when chatting with other swingers we never name names.
But we have just been told by a couple we are too close after they saw our face pics so I presume they know us.
Would knowing or seeing locals be a no no to you or are you more trusting and liberated "
Only meet locals. Don't fancy someone travelling hours turning up with sweaty bollocks ta. Never had a problem as the adult men I meet are...adults who know the meaning of discretion.
Met my other half on here and he lived a 15 minute drive away. |
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My motto is "Don't shit in your own nest". I've recognised folk off here, met a few folk who I've bumped into with their partners and I find it really awkward. Meets now have to be around 10 miles away at least x |
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"We have met and played with local couples as we believe swinging is as much a social past time as well as discreet sexual fun between consentual adults.
We never discuss swinging outside of meets and even when chatting with other swingers we never name names.
But we have just been told by a couple we are too close after they saw our face pics so I presume they know us.
Would knowing or seeing locals be a no no to you or are you more trusting and liberated
Only meet locals. Don't fancy someone travelling hours turning up with sweaty bollocks ta. Never had a problem as the adult men I meet are...adults who know the meaning of discretion.
Met my other half on here and he lived a 15 minute drive away."
Discretion is the key to this lifestyle
And it's something we have as our top priority |
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"We have met and played with local couples as we believe swinging is as much a social past time as well as discreet sexual fun between consentual adults.
We never discuss swinging outside of meets and even when chatting with other swingers we never name names.
But we have just been told by a couple we are too close after they saw our face pics so I presume they know us.
Would knowing or seeing locals be a no no to you or are you more trusting and liberated "
can't see how it makes any difference really if you only know them by site the only time it might become a problem is if you arrange to meet say in a hotel and money leaves the bank account and you fall out over it  |
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