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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago
peekin under duvet is it safe? |
yeh dead serious , we have arranged all our meets at the club beforehand,maybe im wrong but a lot of the couples look as if they have done so too,we socialise but have never progressed onto the next stage,would be interesting to hear how other peeps manage too  |
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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago
peekin under duvet is it safe? |
"Its easy to pull the guys but am looking for more girly action."
*ahem cough cough* 
sorry got summat caught in the back of the throat,not 'really' trying to get your attention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no  "
Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no
Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event "
humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol |
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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago
peekin under duvet is it safe? |
"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no
Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event
humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol"
surely thats the time to coin a phrase 'catch the bull by the horn' ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no
Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event
humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol
surely thats the time to coin a phrase 'catch the bull by the horn' ? "
i cant i just dont have the confidance to ask anyone, even when its totally obvious to everyone else someone likes me, its just that small thing that sys he could say no that stops me, it drives my friends nuts lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no "
That applies to me too (except the last two words, obviously).
I have no idea how to make these transitions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi heres a question fo you when chatting to couples in a club what i the best way of bringing up the subject of playtime.
we have never been chatted up  "
Us neither |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no
Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event
humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol"
We've been in that situation a number of times - so whats the answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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shaz alison said just ask her next time we see you in the club she wnat say no lol
to be honest we just ask once we have spoken with the couple , alison can talk the hind leg of a donkey so i think sometimes the couple sayd lets have sum fun just to stop her from talking all the time lol xx |
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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago
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Hardest question in the world. So much phaffing around. Can often end up with both parties wanting to but at the same time both parties thinking the other one doesn't.
No one likes rejection so it ends up with no one asking. Love to hear a good solution to this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty shy on first meets, but Kate is the opposite, she's a proper tart.
If she's up for it and gets the signal from the guy, she's like a Jack Russell with a rat.
Then I just follow along meekly |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I tend to do it in.a.silly mannor and.say during chat that i feel the need for some perving do you fancy joining us for a perv? or just generally address.it in a slightly fun way so it isnt a direct question to ask if they want to join you in a room. If they follow you to have a.perving then the chances are.good wjen near a.room mentikn it looks a good plave for fun and do they fancy some naughty fun. If they decide not to perv with you then tbeir chances of wanting to play with you are.zero. |
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More often than not if we click with a couple we just go off upstairs together, think we can all tell by the unspoken things like body language and looks that everyone is happy. If things need moving on we usually say "would you like to play?" which gives them the chance to say "not at the moment thanks, we're resting" or "yes".
G had success with saying "would you like a man?" to a woman in a corridor watching the fun through a playroom window. She said "yes!" and led him in. Neither of us are normally that direct! |
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