FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Have we had Sex?
Have we had Sex?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yeh
But my cock has never touched the inside of another women without a condom blocking it
So? Protected sex is still that.
But is it? "
Yes. Going by the typical definition of sex, it's the penetration of a penis into a vagina.
Covered or not, that act still occurred. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx"
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
When I last wore a condom it was definitely sex.
To prove it there was post-coital coffee and bacon sarnies. And you can't have post-coital bacon sarnies if you haven't had sex. Q.E.D. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx"
Lol
Don't be facetious |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
"
Yesss! that what I'm thinking.
Have we only had sex with each other and just 'played at it' with our few meets? X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
Yesss! that what I'm thinking.
Have we only had sex with each other and just 'played at it' with our few meets? X"
Consider the consequences of what you're saying - is a woman raped if the attacker wears a condom? You're possibly saying no.
Which is stupid. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
Yesss! that what I'm thinking.
Have we only had sex with each other and just 'played at it' with our few meets? X
Consider the consequences of what you're saying - is a woman raped if the attacker wears a condom? You're possibly saying no.
Which is stupid. "
That's more to do with the unwillingness to have sex and assault, I'm only interested in fabs meets as counts as sex xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx"
You put your cock, whatever it's dressed in, inside a woman or man, then you had sex, whether it be vaginally anally or orally it was definately sex.....on your reckoning anyone who only ever had sex using a condom is technically a virgin. I think not #  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
Yesss! that what I'm thinking.
Have we only had sex with each other and just 'played at it' with our few meets? X
Consider the consequences of what you're saying - is a woman raped if the attacker wears a condom? You're possibly saying no.
Which is stupid.
That's more to do with the unwillingness to have sex and assault, I'm only interested in fabs meets as counts as sex xx"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
You put your cock, whatever it's dressed in, inside a woman or man, then you had sex, whether it be vaginally anally or orally it was definately sex.....on your reckoning anyone who only ever had sex using a condom is technically a virgin. I think not # "
I see what your saying but Virginity is more about defloration, I cocks skin has never touched another women's inside |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
You put your cock, whatever it's dressed in, inside a woman or man, then you had sex, whether it be vaginally anally or orally it was definately sex.....on your reckoning anyone who only ever had sex using a condom is technically a virgin. I think not #
I see what your saying but Virginity is more about defloration, I cocks skin has never touched another women's inside"
How is losing a virginity anything different than having sex for the first time?! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
You put your cock, whatever it's dressed in, inside a woman or man, then you had sex, whether it be vaginally anally or orally it was definately sex.....on your reckoning anyone who only ever had sex using a condom is technically a virgin. I think not #
I see what your saying but Virginity is more about defloration, I cocks skin has never touched another women's inside
How is losing a virginity anything different than having sex for the first time?!"
I think we're talking biological here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You have had penetrative sex. Condom or not.
Simple enough really.
I don't know, if you wank and cum you haven't had sex, but have climaxed xx"
By cock and fanny you mean it rubbed the outside and didn't penetrate? Yeah that's not penetrative sex, it's outercourse and is classed as non-penetrative sex.
The more words you add to something to explain it helps.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"You have had penetrative sex. Condom or not.
Simple enough really.
I don't know, if you wank and cum you haven't had sex, but have climaxed xx
By cock and fanny you mean it rubbed the outside and didn't penetrate? Yeah that's not penetrative sex, it's outercourse and is classed as non-penetrative sex.
The more words you add to something to explain it helps. "
Sorry, hard explaining this lol xx
I mean penetrative but with a condom on the penis never actually touches the inside of the vagina xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx"
Yes, permission is still required and working girls still want paying |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx"
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc "
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x"
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
"
Yes condoms do make it cleaner lol x
But I'm still not convinced  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
Yes condoms do make it cleaner lol x
But I'm still not convinced "
I go back to what I said at the beginning then I'm a virgin |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
Yes condoms do make it cleaner lol x
But I'm still not convinced
I go back to what I said at the beginning then I'm a virgin "
A fab one maybe, I'm sure you've had bareback sex with someone lol xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
Penetrative sex/ sexual intercourse is still that with or without a condom. If you don't class that as intercourse, what would you class it as?
The logic behind your reasoning is open to many other questions as raised by other posters regarding non consensual sex and virginity. You can't confine your logic to meets through here alone, everything else must factor in. Otherwise it's just nonsensical to not apply it to all situations. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
Yes condoms do make it cleaner lol x
But I'm still not convinced
I go back to what I said at the beginning then I'm a virgin
A fab one maybe, I'm sure you've had bareback sex with someone lol xx"
yeah my ex for many moons x I ment I must be a virgin swinger |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Penetrative sex/ sexual intercourse is still that with or without a condom. If you don't class that as intercourse, what would you class it as?
The logic behind your reasoning is open to many other questions as raised by other posters regarding non consensual sex and virginity. You can't confine your logic to meets through here alone, everything else must factor in. Otherwise it's just nonsensical to not apply it to all situations. "
So what do you suggest? Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"So are you saying I've never had sex since been meeting from this site as penetration with a condom isn't sex then
I must be a virgin
I'm not entirely sure lol
Still figuring it out xx
well I don't know I'm confuzzled as I definitely feel every inch of a cock and sex is many things besides penetration, oral etc
Just I appreciate that and if you have oral without a condom then I'm sure that counts, just not sure abut intercourse x
personally I think penetration whether gloved or not is sex, as you still feel it, still cum/orgasm ect
the only difference with a glove is you don't get the mans spunk and the male only gets your fluid down his balls
Yes condoms do make it cleaner lol x
But I'm still not convinced
I go back to what I said at the beginning then I'm a virgin
A fab one maybe, I'm sure you've had bareback sex with someone lol xx
yeah my ex for many moons x I ment I must be a virgin swinger "
That's the question, aren't we all? Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Penetrative sex/ sexual intercourse is still that with or without a condom. If you don't class that as intercourse, what would you class it as?
The logic behind your reasoning is open to many other questions as raised by other posters regarding non consensual sex and virginity. You can't confine your logic to meets through here alone, everything else must factor in. Otherwise it's just nonsensical to not apply it to all situations.
So what do you suggest? Xx"
I already stated what I believe penetrative sex is.
If you feel you haven't had sex because you've been using condoms, I'm sorry you feel that way because I've been enjoying the sex I believe I have been having  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This is a fascinating question - well done OP...
Taken logically, and turning it (and some of the responses the other way 'round)...if you give another person a hugh fully clothed does that mean you've had sex with them ?
i.s what actually is 'sex'...(a purely technical question we know with no reality to real life) - does it have to involve intercourse and, if not, is kissing sex in which case when you kiss a friend on the cheek is that sex at a very low level..you catch our drift ?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"When I last wore a condom it was definitely sex.
To prove it there was post-coital coffee and bacon sarnies. And you can't have post-coital bacon sarnies if you haven't had sex. Q.E.D."
omg that I need to do  nows the Q brown sauce or tomato ?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"When I last wore a condom it was definitely sex.
To prove it there was post-coital coffee and bacon sarnies. And you can't have post-coital bacon sarnies if you haven't had sex. Q.E.D."
Your meets make you coffee and lunch....,
I am doing something wrong! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Had a few swaps now and was thinking we always use condoms when meeting and of course none when it's just us.
If a condom creates a barrier between my cock and the fanny, as so they never really touch, have we really had sex? Xx
What an interesting question...!
Actually, for me it never seems like complete sex and is never satisfying unless a man cums in me - so maybe the answer could be "No" on a personal level...
Yesss! that what I'm thinking.
Have we only had sex with each other and just 'played at it' with our few meets? X
Consider the consequences of what you're saying - is a woman raped if the attacker wears a condom? You're possibly saying no.
Which is stupid. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"This is a fascinating question - well done OP...
Taken logically, and turning it (and some of the responses the other way 'round)...if you give another person a hugh fully clothed does that mean you've had sex with them ?
i.s what actually is 'sex'...(a purely technical question we know with no reality to real life) - does it have to involve intercourse and, if not, is kissing sex in which case when you kiss a friend on the cheek is that sex at a very low level..you catch our drift ?
"
Thank you xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
You have to take all Emotion out and ignore the understood definition of sex the question in its brilliance is more about the actual act,
And its one I don't have an answer for, it is but then technically it isn't because contact isn't actually made,
But it is. Kudos op
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
