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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have noticed recently "single fem" profiles have a hubby who looks at profile. is involved in choosing guys and in play.
is'nt that supposed to be a cpl profile?
one status read "hubby looking for suitable guys" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple but I play as a single female, chose a couples profile as we both go to the club together but he doesn't swing st all  "
We are the same. Hubby said for me to make a single profile but I did not want to. We are a couple and even though I play alone he always has a say, if he did not like the man or felt I would not be safe it would not happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either way it's a COUPLES profile.
I know some couples have their own individual profiles on here too but all the ones I seen and chatted too are open about it.
Personally if it's a singles profile of EITHER sex and it has hubby/wife has xyz then it isn't and should get the same treatment as a guys posing as a couple or a fem posing as a guy.
But strangely enough for some reason they don't...... |
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"How does everyone feel about the opposite scenario. Husband free to play but wife has a say and running a couples profile. "
Doesn't it depend more on who's actually 'meeting'?
I also think most people would view it differently if a woman were to ask if it was okay for a man to accompany her initially on a social, so that she felt safe, rather than if a man asked the same thing.
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"How does everyone feel about the opposite scenario. Husband free to play but wife has a say and running a couples profile.
Doesn't it depend more on who's actually 'meeting'?
I also think most people would view it differently if a woman were to ask if it was okay for a man to accompany her initially on a social, so that she felt safe, rather than if a man asked the same thing.
Mr ddc"
I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).
A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios. |
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"Mr ddc
I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).
A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios."
He could be at risk, but society's norms make us assume he can take care of himself.
As for suspicion, I see what you mean, but we just tend to take people at face value, so it wouldn't really bother us. |
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"Mr ddc
I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).
A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios.
He could be at risk, but society's norms make us assume he can take care of himself.
As for suspicion, I see what you mean, but we just tend to take people at face value, so it wouldn't really bother us."
well as I've said before I'm a cynical old bag |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"i have noticed recently "single fem" profiles have a hubby who looks at profile. is involved in choosing guys and in play.
is'nt that supposed to be a cpl profile?
one status read "hubby looking for suitable guys""
Were you not suitable.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lots of single women's profile that openly state they are looking for a woman to join her and hubby for play!
Which should certainly be a couple profile but hey Ho. Matters not to me. |
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