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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single male trying to expand my sexual boundaries, i wanted to know if regular swingers have ever invited or introduced single newbies to the clubing scene before?
Is this generally frowned upon or is it simply upto the individual to bite the bullet, pluck up some courage and attend a club?
It's something I'd like to do but feel embarrassed/shy to go it alone
Advice and or an invite would be appreciated.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single male trying to expand my sexual boundaries, i wanted to know if regular swingers have ever invited or introduced single newbies to the clubing scene before?
Is this generally frowned upon or is it simply upto the individual to bite the bullet, pluck up some courage and attend a club?
It's something I'd like to do but feel embarrassed/shy to go it alone
Advice and or an invite would be appreciated.
Thanks "
of course it is the clubs make a fortune out of new single guys a lot of women won't go in as a couple because that cramps their style and limits them to you ,no guarantee of anything when you get inside  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Everyone who has ever been to a club was a newbie the first time and was a little bit nervous.
For us as a fairly shy couple, we have found that attending clubs with the hope of finding another couple we like the look of, that like the look of us, and that we have the balls to actually go and speak to, really doesn't work for us!
Instead we are now only attending clubs when we have pre-arranged meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been but I'm fairly open minded and have a fair amount of bottle.... I'm good at looking confident when I'm on the verge of shitting my pants... So I think I'd be OK |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
We were nervous the first time we visited a club, but that soon evaporated - all the clubs we have tried have been friendly, relaxed and not all all pushy. As long as a single man is well turned out, willing to chat, and not expecting too much they will be welcomed -and probably successful. We always and only play in clubs and generally with single men. |
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