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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"
all escorts arnt prostitutes
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"
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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?"
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl? |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event .. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?
The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.
It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.
How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?
The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes. |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?
The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.
It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.
How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?
The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes."
and in some far away place only women can be escorts.. |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
As A 'working girl' her business relies on her keeping her sexual health good. |
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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago
Islington |
"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event .."
Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.
The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews. |
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By *nDeexXxCouple
over a year ago
Rossendale |
"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event .."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?
The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.
It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.
How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?
The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes.
and in some far away place only women can be escorts.."
Quite. |
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over a year ago
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"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time
You've really got to work on that outrage View. You're letting the side down.  "
Oh, I agreed with him. Ahem.
Hear ye, hear ye, all women should be tied down to one man, whilst said one man can freely be a "stud".
Sexual exploration by women prohibited yada yada boring drivel that should be ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now we all like sex either way being paid or for fun why should sex workers be segregated just because of their chosen career.
I drive for a living does not mean I don't enjoy driving my car on my days off so what's the difference nothing  |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
Some days I actually despair! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time
You've really got to work on that outrage View. You're letting the side down. "
I am lovely and chilled in my own little world |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
OP form a sentence out of these words:
Nothing to hiding a on am I |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..
Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.
The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews."
It would seem that you certainly are not open minded about it. |
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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago
Islington |
"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..
Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.
The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews.
It would seem that you certainly are not open minded about it. "
Absolutely, I had an opinion, that may have been modified by this discussion. That's what forum discussions are all about... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .
What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?
It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?
So in pursuit of the social side you spend all night with a working girl , who has no intention of taking things any further . Are you not going to be a bit pissed off that you didn't know she was only there to have fun and no more than that ?
Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?
would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?
cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?
and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..
Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.
The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews."
There is also a stigma about Swingers. They fuck allsorts of other swingers.  |
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What someone does for a living makes no odds to me.
I'm more interested in whether they're a decent person.
Do you ask what people do for a living before you fuck in a club and then decide whether you're going to have sex based on the answer?
Why would you discriminate in such a way? Either they are attractive to you or they aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .
What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?
It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?
So in pursuit of the social side you spend all night with a working girl , who has no intention of taking things any further . Are you not going to be a bit pissed off that you didn't know she was only there to have fun and no more than that ?
Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .
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Excellent point. |
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I know a few 'working ladies' have met them in clubs and am friends with a couple, I have absolutely no problem with how they earn their living. And neither does my husband who has played with one of these ladies. |
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"What is the difference between swingers and escorts anyway? Money obviously, but what else????"
choice..?
think there is a difference between what people choose to do for pleasure and those who mostly but not all have taken the route of doing sex work for pay as that suits them..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .
What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?
It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?
So in pursuit of the social side you spend all night with a working girl , who has no intention of taking things any further . Are you not going to be a bit pissed off that you didn't know she was only there to have fun and no more than that ?
Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .
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Well bugger me! Something we Actually agree on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone has to pull the punters in. It won't be the likes of me; fat and old and make men work for my bucket fanny
It wouldn't bother me if they were at a party unless they were laying on a bed with a conveyer belt of men waiting in line to fuck them. Not my thing. Any escort at a party as a guest the same as me I. wouldn't think any different of. I treat everyone the same. Even bisexual men.
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"What is the difference between swingers and escorts anyway? Money obviously, but what else????
choice..?
think there is a difference between what people choose to do for pleasure and those who mostly but not all have taken the route of doing sex work for pay as that suits them..
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They are both fucking people. Emotional aspects are irrelevant really in this case. The inference that one is better than the other just doesn't make sense to me. |
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It's not really that surprising.
Swingers and sex workers both have an uncommonly open minded attitude to sex, so I suspect that there is a far greater cross over than you might imagine.
It isn't always possible to label individuals as one thing or the other.
Indeed, why would you want to?
The boundaries are pretty blurred, particularly in an environment where we are busy exploring our sexual desires in so many different directions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would far rather meet a socialising escort or even a prostitute at a party than a man who hides his profile on a swingers site.
At least they do not have anything to hide!"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
Fuck me who ordered a victorian ?
Mate she is a woman the same as the rest of us on here.
It's probably her down time. So she is having some fun...It's allowed!!
And ps you may find she gets checked by the gum clinic far more regularly than most people.
And pps how would people know if they were shagging a professional or non professional??
Ffs!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time "
As long as the lady is there out of choice and not through force and everyone is safe and looking after each other then I don't see what the issue is. |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?"
why is an escort a higher sexual health risk than any other women there?
are you assuming all escorts fuck 20 guys bareback a week? |
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?
what is your opinion?
I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?
Fuck me who ordered a victorian ?
Mate she is a woman the same as the rest of us on here.
It's probably her down time. So she is having some fun...It's allowed!!
And ps you may find she gets checked by the gum clinic far more regularly than most people.
And pps how would people know if they were shagging a professional or non professional??
Ffs!
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Maybe they wear a badge and carry a card? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"
if they are coming for fun only and not being paid.... then what is the difference between an escort and a doctor... or a teacher... or a policeperson... or a banker... ect ect ect.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I _iew is like that
being an escort is a job, when you knock off your simply a woman
if you go to a party what difference does it make what anybody job is?
escorts have a social life too, fucking a guy for money is not the same as being with a guy who likes you and wants to be with you, why shouldn't a escort have sex for pleasure too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .
What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?
It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?
So in pursuit of the social side you spend all night with a working girl , who has no intention of taking things any further . Are you not going to be a bit pissed off that you didn't know she was only there to have fun and no more than that ?
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Only the same as playing with me at a club. That ain't going any further either!
Oh wait! According to the poster that means I'm going to piss off anyone I play with!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there a difference between escorts and the hostesses who get paid at clubs ?
Just asking  "
in my opinion no, but I see no difference in people who work in porn either, if you have sex and walk away financially better off your a prostitute |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I _iew is like that
being an escort is a job, when you knock off your simply a woman
if you go to a party what difference does it make what anybody job is?
escorts have a social life too, fucking a guy for money is not the same as being with a guy who likes you and wants to be with you, why shouldn't a escort have sex for pleasure too"
very well said |
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