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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the reason why is not many guys will openly admit to being bi for the fear of the fact it may put some people off and hamper there chances with some of the people on here ! I have it where i have straight guys saying they are really bi but dare not put it on there profile for the reason i have just stated . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest if they did not want to put it on their profile then they should inform you which it sounds like they did to be fair...
I agree it must take a lot of bottle for a guy to put on their profile that he is bi - it is a shame at the end of the day there is nothing wrong with it & to be honest I love Bi guys...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think more people need to be a little bit more open minded about these things and at the end of the day we are on a swingers web site and if it don't take your fancy then there will always be someone that will  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both straight and have played with bi couples many times.
No one has ever "over stepped the mark" with me.
Kate has had one bi experience, but says it's not for her.
I know it's each to his own, but bi peeps really are ok  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well one of the reasons why is if cpls sometimes put bi curious on profile they get inundated with messages from guys ....... and most are not from bi curious ones, a lot come from gay guys........ and before any one shouts, i have nothing personal against anyone, everyone is entitled to their own sexual preference. a lot of ppl put sep room for example but actually mean same room.... and complaining about does nothing. ppl have their own reasons why they put things on or leave off profiles!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MrP heas is bi currious
happily has it on our profile
we get a lot of guys with straight profiles saying there bi
we always discount them as honesty is important for us
otherwise it seems like the saying there bi or curious is just a way onto MrsR knickers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable"
Basically its because they're outright liars who'll say or tell you anything just to get a meet.
Delete and block!
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"we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable"
Can't see what the problem is.. Unless since finding out they have two heads and are green and scaly, if you liked them before then why don't you like them now? Unlikely the guy is going to try anything knowing your fella is straight no more than a bi fem wouldn't force herself on a straight woman. I agree with the others, while everyone should be free to be honest on their profie being a bi male is not as widely accepted as being a bi fem.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable
Basically its because they're outright liars who'll say or tell you anything just to get a meet.
Delete and block!
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** Agreed ** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable"
Likewise, we only meet people who have bi on their profile, guys say that they are bi but dont want to announce it as it puts people off..... WHatever!! lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Without a shadow of doubt bi guys are not _iewed with the same acceptance as bi fems in the swinging world BY SOME, it is a shame and over the past few years it has got better.
Will we ever be accepted the same... I doubt it.
It is a shame but it's life.
However, the fact that people hide their true sexuality DOES NOT HELP, it fuels the suspision.
I personally have NEVER crossed the physical boundary with str8 guys in MMF's, but I have looked at everyone of their cocks. Now for some str8 guys that may completely freak them out knowing a guy was looking in sexual way.
Everyone needs to be relaxed to have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a genuine bi guy. I will always let that be known, I'm not ashamed of it. If guys want to play, then fine. If they don't, then that is also fine, as I will never be pushy. It can lead to some very good times for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally have NEVER crossed the physical boundary with str8 guys in MMF's, but I have looked at everyone of their cocks. Now for some str8 guys that may completely freak them out knowing a guy was looking in sexual way.
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Yep, damned right it would! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi kelly female it say's on our profile im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi but still cant find a horny bi fem couple/girl to give me one lol.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi kelly female it say's on our profile im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi im bi but still cant find a horny bi fem couple/girl to give me one lol.xx"
Judging by your profile pics we wouldn't have thought you'd have any problem! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Bob) have on my profile that I'm bi. I'm not gay but I have a mild bi interest and don't mind admitting the fact. You'd be suprised at how many 'bi' guys message but they have straight on their profile.
You'd be even more suprised at how many, 'so called' bi guys are not actually in the slightest bit bi when you meet them - but lets face it - it's a bloody good way of getting a meet and getting into Mrs Red's pants ... innit ?
Yeah - been there, done that
If we meet a straight couple, there is no way on God's earth that I'd ever cross the line and attempt to have anything to do with the guy .. Some people have a funny perception if you are bi, or even gay - for some bizzare reason they seem to think that all you want to do is shag shag shag everyone of the same sex and that no-one is safe around you
Quite the contrary really - we also have preferences - and taste |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Bob) have on my profile that I'm bi. I'm not gay but I have a mild bi interest and don't mind admitting the fact. You'd be suprised at how many 'bi' guys message but they have straight on their profile.
You'd be even more suprised at how many, 'so called' bi guys are not actually in the slightest bit bi when you meet them - but lets face it - it's a bloody good way of getting a meet and getting into Mrs Red's pants ... innit ?
Yeah - been there, done that
If we meet a straight couple, there is no way on God's earth that I'd ever cross the line and attempt to have anything to do with the guy .. Some people have a funny perception if you are bi, or even gay - for some bizzare reason they seem to think that all you want to do is shag shag shag everyone of the same sex and that no-one is safe around you
Quite the contrary really - we also have preferences - and taste "
I'm glad I'm straight, I often get turned down by ladies, but I couldn't take the shame if guys turned me down too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally have NEVER crossed the physical boundary with str8 guys in MMF's, but I have looked at everyone of their cocks. Now for some str8 guys that may completely freak them out knowing a guy was looking in sexual way.
Yep, damned right it would!
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lol, the last person to tell me I had a nice cock was a bloke... just after I pulled out of his wife.
Kate looked at me and laughed, and said "I told ya it was alright"
Didn't know where to look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a simple gal, with simple pleasures.
This is fantasy playtime for me. I love tying compliant men to my bed, dressing them up, shaving them, poking their bums with a variety of toys before draining them of their bodily fluids.
Will I be for everyone?!! Hell no!
Would I get more meets if I removed the Domme element, met in hotels etc?!! Without a doubt!
Would I be fulfilled sexually?!! No!!
EVERY pot has its lid. So if you're bi you get fewer meets: so what! The quality of the people you meet will mean more enjoyment surely?!!
We will NEVER appeal to everyone so why try. There is someone for everyone on this site. How sad that some people have to lie and deny who they are to get a meet. That's what's annoying, when people lie!
I had someone contact me who was bi-curious and seeking tv/ts. Being in a sarky mood I replied pointing out why it would never happen. He wrote back asking how about now: he's now straight and seeking women and straight couples! 
All rather sad and pointless! |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Straight blokes in couples have also suddenly turned bi when they message us..
We can understand it, we can also understand straight couples blocking and saying no thanks to us.. In fact we haven't had any nastiness at all..
But as this thread is now the only place where bi couples say hello so we an now perv their profiles.. Well here we are.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be in the minority who is proud to enjoy bi fun hehe
Would point out though, that I describe myself as bi playful and like many other bi friends, would not force my bi side on any straight folk and can play both bi and also enjoy straight sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Bob) have on my profile that I'm bi. I'm not gay but I have a mild bi interest and don't mind admitting the fact. You'd be suprised at how many 'bi' guys message but they have straight on their profile.
You'd be even more suprised at how many, 'so called' bi guys are not actually in the slightest bit bi when you meet them - but lets face it - it's a bloody good way of getting a meet and getting into Mrs Red's pants ... innit ?
Yeah - been there, done that
If we meet a straight couple, there is no way on God's earth that I'd ever cross the line and attempt to have anything to do with the guy .. Some people have a funny perception if you are bi, or even gay - for some bizzare reason they seem to think that all you want to do is shag shag shag everyone of the same sex and that no-one is safe around you
Quite the contrary really - we also have preferences - and taste "
This is all sooooooo true and does make you wonder whether you are meeting a straight guy who is straight or a straight guy who is in fact bi? And vice versa!
How can we tell? And of course there are the straight males who are actually bi who enjoy letting ladies and couples feel they have corrupted them into taking a toy or strapon hehe
But each to their own!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone? Its simply choice, we prefer meeting straight men and straight women, not because we’re scared we’ll get jumped on, its simply because we cannot offer a bisexual person what other bisexuals can, there’s no hidden agendas here, just like we won’t meet people who “won’t meet smokers” but will make exceptions just for you, we meet straight people because we are more suited to other straight people simple as that.
Every bi thread ends up the same on here, I’ve never seen a thread posted by a straight person questioning why bisexuals wont meet them or why they are only looking to meet other bisexuals, it’s a real shame that people can’t just respect other peoples choices without having to question them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had to remove the initial type as it was full of really bad typos!
i want to say
Does it matter?
not everyone can or wants to put everything in their profiles
but these people were decent enough to be open when they talked to you on chat
just hold off the indignation a little please - we are swingers - if you let the great and good of the general public know all about our hobbies on here then we wouldnt come out of it too well
It takes nothing to walk away
it takes a lot of energy to express such an uncalled for sense of injustice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone? Its simply choice, we prefer meeting straight men and straight women, not because we’re scared we’ll get jumped on, its simply because we cannot offer a bisexual person what other bisexuals can, there’s no hidden agendas here, just like we won’t meet people who “won’t meet smokers” but will make exceptions just for you, we meet straight people because we are more suited to other straight people simple as that.
Every bi thread ends up the same on here, I’ve never seen a thread posted by a straight person questioning why bisexuals wont meet them or why they are only looking to meet other bisexuals, it’s a real shame that people can’t just respect other peoples choices without having to question them.
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brilliant response xx |
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone? Its simply choice, we prefer meeting straight men and straight women, not because we’re scared we’ll get jumped on, its simply because we cannot offer a bisexual person what other bisexuals can, there’s no hidden agendas here, just like we won’t meet people who “won’t meet smokers” but will make exceptions just for you, we meet straight people because we are more suited to other straight people simple as that.
Every bi thread ends up the same on here, I’ve never seen a thread posted by a straight person questioning why bisexuals wont meet them or why they are only looking to meet other bisexuals, it’s a real shame that people can’t just respect other peoples choices without having to question them.
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im one guy who will meet bi cpls why take bits out of my post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone? Its simply choice, we prefer meeting straight men and straight women, not because we’re scared we’ll get jumped on, its simply because we cannot offer a bisexual person what other bisexuals can, there’s no hidden agendas here, just like we won’t meet people who “won’t meet smokers” but will make exceptions just for you, we meet straight people because we are more suited to other straight people simple as that.
Every bi thread ends up the same on here, I’ve never seen a thread posted by a straight person questioning why bisexuals wont meet them or why they are only looking to meet other bisexuals, it’s a real shame that people can’t just respect other peoples choices without having to question them.
im one guy who will meet bi cpls why take bits out of my post "
i dont think thats being said is it????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could also be the case sometime that a guy has had a bi experience, but it may not be something he's always looking for in every meet he has. He may be essentially straight, but had a bit of an adventurous night and tried it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be in the minority who is proud to enjoy bi fun hehe
Would point out though, that I describe myself as bi playful and like many other bi friends, would not force my bi side on any straight folk and can play both bi and also enjoy straight sex
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couldn't say it better than that for me either |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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I'm glad I'm straight, I often get turned down by ladies, but I couldn't take the shame if guys turned me down too "
..LMAO Jack!!! Just the right way to treat these recurring theme threads, with humour!
Live and let bloody live. Or soon we'll have a committee vetting everyone's profiles, rejecting anyone who doesn't provide evidence of hetero or bisexuality (photographic, with signed witness statements) or who can't spell or is inarticulate, or has more than 2 cock photos, or who doesn't get photo verified within 3 days, or hasn't had a meet veri within 8 weeks..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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right time to defend myself on my original post i do not have or every had a prrob with bi or bi curious guys my argument was about it being stated on profiles we have mmet cpls where male has been bi curious not a prob new the boundries sorted so why start chatting to usthen tell us he not str8 but bi curious and she wanted him to play with me thats where confusion comes in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really have anything constructive to add to this thread other than to say after meeting a bi member socially, my _iews have changed on playing with bi men!
Well, I'll see how it goes! |
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone?"
Note sure if I've missed your point, but surely you mean straight people thinking their irresistible to BOTH bi sexes, or that comment doesn't really make much sense in this context, does it? Otherwise bi men would shout it loud and proud, hoping that the masses would flock to them.. and they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really have anything constructive to add to this thread other than to say after meeting a bi member socially, my _iews have changed on playing with bi men!
Well, I'll see how it goes! "
Good for you! Always good to keep an open mind!
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s not about being jumped on, that’s sounds so patronising when you hear that, do people with bi tendencies realty think that straight people think they’re simply irresistible to everyone?
Note sure if I've missed your point, but surely you mean straight people thinking their irresistible to BOTH bi sexes, or that comment doesn't really make much sense in this context, does it? Otherwise bi men would shout it loud and proud, hoping that the masses would flock to them.. and they don't."
No, I meant exactly what I said, do some people with bi tendencies think that straight people think they are irresistible, because when you hear things like “they’re scared they’re going to get jumped on” it simply equates to “every bisexual will fancy them and they won’t be able to control themselves”
Too many thinks i think |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't really have anything constructive to add to this thread other than to say after meeting a bi member socially, my _iews have changed on playing with bi men!
Well, I'll see how it goes! "
whoo-hoo! Fantasy of being dominated by V back out of long term storage. |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"Happy to admit i am bi male
Met a few couple who are straight.
I always respect people boundries. But find so called straight males always accidently have a sly feel."
.. does that bother you? Happened to me too, in a group situation at a party, but happy to respond in kind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting to a cpl we liked there profile it said male str8 and fem bisexual when we chatted on msn we found out male bi curious why do people put wot they are on profile and not waste peoples time then have the ordacity to say my wife rude for saying it should be on profile unbeleaveable"
whys that wasting your time, all because someones curious about something you can still meet them, dont make them a kinky sex preditor who fucks every man he sees you know
personally i do think its rude to assum every bi person will just jump on everyone of the same sex, quite insulting as well
dont you just love homophobes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really have anything constructive to add to this thread other than to say after meeting a bi member socially, my _iews have changed on playing with bi men!
Well, I'll see how it goes!
whoo-hoo! Fantasy of being dominated by V back out of long term storage. "
LOL...behave!! |
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As a guy who is bi in his profile I can comfirm that it makes many couples in particular exclude a guy. There seems to bea fear that a bi guy will "jump" the male - strangely enough i like my sex to be consentual! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a guy who is bi in his profile I can comfirm that it makes many couples in particular exclude a guy. There seems to bea fear that a bi guy will "jump" the male - strangely enough i like my sex to be consentual!"
There are several reasons why couples don't want to meet bi guys and from speaking to quite a few of these couples we can tell you that the straight male "getting jumped on" is seldom, if ever, one of those reasons.
Besides which, wouldn't you rather meet people who want to meet you than lie to meet people who don't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the record we are both confirmed bisexual lol.
Caveat
We can, and do, play straight regarding M/M. Straight play regarding F/F is a bit more difficult to guarantee lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the record we are both confirmed bisexual lol.
Caveat
We can, and do, play straight regarding M/M. Straight play regarding F/F is a bit more difficult to guarantee lol "
Aw was hoping you'd find playing straight M/M hard to resist as well!! hehe
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