Personally and all joking aside, if "she" wants to try it then you have a few options..
Firstly, you could leave it to her to experiment on her own. Buy her a pair of latex gloves and a bottle of lube and let her fingers her own way.
Alternatively, you can take the lead. . get her to take a long relaxing bath, ideally with some seated oils or candles. Make sure she knows what your plans are so she can allow her imagination run wild.
After her bath, take her to bed and give her a nice gentle massage. Slow but firm and interspersed with kisses, start with her shoulders and arms, gradually working your way lower down into the small of her back and her buttocks. Massage down between her legs but stop shy of actually touching anywhere more interesting for now. Continue down her legs paying special attention to the back of her knees and calves as they seldom get attention.
Now turn her over and work your way back up her legs, this time you should skip from her thighs up to her shoulders and start working your way back down again. Obviously you can spend some time on her breasts (just to reward yourself) before making your way south again. This time as you reach the top of her thighs, you should gently draw her legs apart and kiss down between her legs. Start by getting teasingly close but not actually touching her pussy, and her tight little arse hole. Get progressively closer each time until you finally kiss her firmly and sensually right on her puckered hole.
Now you can change from kissing to licking, use long slow and wet strokes with a flat tongue. Allow her to feel the pleasure that can come from the bundles of nerves around her sphincter. Now would be a good time to introduce a finger. .. make sure it's clean and well lubricated and just gently rub your finger over her hole. Let her get used to the new sensations for a little while, stopping every so often with your fingertip poised to enter her before moving off again. After a four or five times, instead of moving away, you are going to gently slip your finger in to her anus. NOT ALL THE WAY, just to the first knuckle then stop! Just allow her to get used to the feeling. Ask her if it feels nice, if she'd like you to stop, or if she'd like a little more.
If she's enjoying it, then you can start moving your finger about a little, gently pushing against the muscular ring that's gripping your finger. Maybe push a little further in, till you reach the next knuckle. Again stop and check that she's ok.
If she's really enjoying it you could try a bigger finger, but each time you introduce more length or girth, then stop and check that she's ok.
I would now be licking her pussy and gently working your finger in and out of her ass until she cums. Then leave her ass alone and revert to your usual type of sex.
After a couple of sessions like this, progressing onto 2 fingers maybe, you could possibly try your cock?
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