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I would love to watch my Mrs with another guy
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Try talking to her about your fantasies and see what she says. If you are thinking of getting into swinging, I thoroughly recommend listening to the Life on the Swingset podcast. Episode 200 is great if you are just starting out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to watch my Mrs with another guy I'm curious too so would love to join in don't know how to approach the Mrs though ?? x"
why ? You don't have any pics of your wife ?
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bring it into fantasy talk when your having sex.
Don't spring too much on her at once! - play out fantasies where she is doing something but doesn't know your watching etc.
Only you know her best, but I think if you try and get out "I want to see another cock I you and I'm bi so I'd have a bit too!" May just be a bit much for a Tuesday evening.
I was fortunate in that it was just something we talked about together so was easier to say what we liked or may like in the future. Even then, tgere are things I've said I'd enjoy and she's said she wouldn't want me to do that - which is where you accept it.
It's not for everyone, and you can't do it if you don't respect each other's feelings on it. However... We are doing things 4 years later we said we'd NEVER do! - so, who knows. 
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Exactly haha that's what I don't want
Ask her jokingly. That's what I did. "
But that obviously didnt work did it?
Dont ask jokingly because you wont get a serious response. Ask while its just the two of you, having some sexy time together and discussing fantasies. You dont have to jump straight into that one, you could start with something simple like, i want to put whipped cream on you, and work your way up to swapping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a sexy magazine that shows 3somes and let her read them and ask what she thinks about them , if she says good things about them , then ask if she wants to look at a sexy 3some film together if she enjoys the magazines , if she likes watching them ask if she would like to try it for real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most people are saying, drop it into conversation with your fantasies, give it a go its worth it! can't beat it! "
good advice, have an adult to adult conversation about your fantasies but be prepared if the answer is no and don't push it, accept her decision and her right to say no. I've tried it, we've talked about fantasies etc many times and I'd love it if it ever happened but I know it's not her thing so accept that. |
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