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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...why are there SO many threads from guys seeking reassurance on what they have or do...
"Do women like beards"
"Do you like length or girth"
"Guys with tattoos"
Blah blah blah...just do what you do and do it for you...christ can you imagine real men of yesteryear whining to the women old Rhett Butler...
"Frankly my dear...should i grow a beard"
Man up boys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But they aren't really seeking reassurance, are they? They aren't REALLY asking if women like beards. What they are doing is telling women who like beards "here I am, your dream!" It's thinly veiled promotion 89% of the time.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But they aren't really seeking reassurance, are they? They aren't REALLY asking if women like beards. What they are doing is telling women who like beards "here I am, your dream!" It's thinly veiled promotion 89% of the time.
-Courtney"
 Haha exactly!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...why are there SO many threads from guys seeking reassurance on what they have or do...
"Do women like beards"
"Do you like length or girth"
"Guys with tattoos"
Blah blah blah...just do what you do and do it for you...christ can you imagine real men of yesteryear whining to the women old Rhett Butler...
"Frankly my dear...should i grow a beard"
Man up boys..."
maybe its because most women on here make them feel inadequate or unattractive or unworthy women's egos are massaged on here too much ce la vie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But they aren't really seeking reassurance, are they? They aren't REALLY asking if women like beards. What they are doing is telling women who like beards "here I am, your dream!" It's thinly veiled promotion 89% of the time.
-Courtney"
Exactly! Do women like tattoos and beards = I've got tattoos and a beard
Do women like gym fit guys = I'm a gym fit guy etc
BUT! this is a site where it's all about trying attract others for fun isn't it, so obviously people will use different means to do that, it's a competitive environment after all and anything people can do to get noticed is fair game isn't it?
Who's I don't like is where people put people down, mock or belittle others to get some one-upmanship over others, but provided it's done in the right spirit I don't see the harm!
As has been said in another thread, they tend not to go well when guys do it, but ladies get away with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say some seek reassurance but the majority are just putting themselves out there to get noticed.
In a similar way some women post:-
"A man has messaged me that my pussy / tits / arse / big toe isn't pretty ~ what do you think......."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But they aren't really seeking reassurance, are they? They aren't REALLY asking if women like beards. What they are doing is telling women who like beards "here I am, your dream!" It's thinly veiled promotion 89% of the time.
-Courtney
Exactly! Do women like tattoos and beards = I've got tattoos and a beard
Do women like gym fit guys = I'm a gym fit guy etc
BUT! this is a site where it's all about trying attract others for fun isn't it, so obviously people will use different means to do that, it's a competitive environment after all and anything people can do to get noticed is fair game isn't it?
Who's I don't like is where people put people down, mock or belittle others to get some one-upmanship over others, but provided it's done in the right spirit I don't see the harm!
As has been said in another thread, they tend not to go well when guys do it, but ladies get away with it lol "
I'll agree with this. I don't see the harm in the self promotion, I just wouldn't take it for seeking reassurance, necessarily.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say some seek reassurance but the majority are just putting themselves out there to get noticed.
In a similar way some women post:-
"A man has messaged me that my pussy / tits / arse / big toe isn't pretty ~ what do you think......." "
It's always a scramble to see who can be the whitest of White Knights in those threads lol |
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"I would say some seek reassurance but the majority are just putting themselves out there to get noticed.
In a similar way some women post:-
"A man has messaged me that my pussy / tits / arse / big toe isn't pretty ~ what do you think......." "
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"But they aren't really seeking reassurance, are they? They aren't REALLY asking if women like beards. What they are doing is telling women who like beards "here I am, your dream!" It's thinly veiled promotion 89% of the time.
-Courtney"
That's what we call hitting the nail on the head!
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I agree with the op though. A lot of it going on.
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