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Its best to discuss it with them as all couples are different!
Personally we like to meet first for a drink and flirt lots!
Remember they will be nervous too so just try to relax and respect the fact they may have boundaries etc. Xx |
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"Hi
I'm meeting a couple for the first time and excited / nervous all rolled into one.
Any tips / rules / advice you can give?
Is it normal to have a drink first or straight to mine?"
There is no normal. We have our own rules or boundaries in place and we respect those of the men we meet the couple you are meeting will have theirs too so best to discuss it all with them.
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"Go with the mentality to not expect anything. If you all get on and it leads to something then Happy days "
I'd say the most important thing with a meet, is TURN UP. Nothing can happen unless you are actually there.
If you are nervous about a first-time, then a drink is a good way to break the ice. (Not too much though - you dont want to keep disappearing to the loo, during playtime).
If you'd made it as far as a meet, then congrats - you've already shown them some of your personality (or a huge cock - lol).
The couple will probably have a private signal, to say "he is ok" or "it isnt going to happen". If you are invited back, (have a mental high-five), then enjoy the experience ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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