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How To guide for single guys

By *ung Dom OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

1 your profile has to be well known and interesting, so revisit it and read it from the ladies perspective. Is it informative? Accurate (don't promise what you can't deliver) and does it make you smile?

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

J get verified - photo verification first. Also if your struggling for a verification, go to a party. Many of my friends hold parties. They are safe clean environments where you meet real players who are thoroughly decent ppl!

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Didn't even read half of that. If you want a good tip...

Just be true to yourself.

Never try to be something or someone you'll never be.

Be polite, curtious and most of all respectful...

...and that my friend will show more about you than any of the above post!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Or it means you will sleep with anything with a pulse

sorry only read the first line

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blue peter badge winging its way to you as we speak

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blue peter badge winging its way to you as we speak "

If you're as old as me it'll be a tufty badge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blue peter badge winging its way to you as we speak

If you're as old as me it'll be a tufty badge

"
a lot older I'm afraid

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By *onkers 76Man over a year ago

pontypool

Only read the thread title that was enough , just be you , no games or tricks just be yourself unless you can be Dave grohl then be him lol or Lemmy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

has anyone got a shovel?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Didn't even read half of that. If you want a good tip...

Just be true to yourself.

Never try to be something or someone you'll never be.

Be polite, curtious and most of all respectful...

...and that my friend will show more about you than any of the above post!!"

Didn't read past the first sentence: seemed like a Greek paradox.

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By *ung Dom OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

To be fair, it does say never promise what you can't deliver.

The guide is a little dig at the endless list of guys that contact me wanting tips.

It gets a little tiresome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair, it does say never promise what you can't deliver.

The guide is a little dig at the endless list of guys that contact me wanting tips.

It gets a little tiresome."

You could argue your guide comes under point 2, marketing?

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By *ung Dom OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

Clever girl

I got an invite to a swingers club in Swindon as a direct result of the guide leading someone to my profile.

Marketing

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Photo verification means sod all to me.

The comment about decent photos is ironic and quite funny.

The sort of photos a man has on his profile is very important though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clever girl

I got an invite to a swingers club in Swindon as a direct result of the guide leading someone to my profile.

Marketing

Errrm no!

You got a heads up if you are at a loose end The club is a good one!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We think it's great that the op has posted this information . It's a great guide and we agree with all he says .

If you are on here to meet and have sexually liberating fun , the tips he gives will only serve to help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'I'm not arrogant'

I disagree.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We think it's great that the op has posted this information . It's a great guide and we agree with all he says .

If you are on here to meet and have sexually liberating fun , the tips he gives will only serve to help

You pay attention to photo verifications? That surprises me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks alot i'm going to follow all of that because having 172 veris is my only goal in life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We think it's great that the op has posted this information . It's a great guide and we agree with all he says .

If you are on here to meet and have sexually liberating fun , the tips he gives will only serve to help

You pay attention to photo verifications? That surprises me."

Well I guess the one holding the fab swingers and your name is a good way to out the fakes ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think fems and cpls should do the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

127 verifications....what an indictment on the females of this site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

V here. Assuming you're referring to me as a "clever girl", kinda hoping you make it to the club on Saturday so I can show you my appreciation.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We think it's great that the op has posted this information . It's a great guide and we agree with all he says .

If you are on here to meet and have sexually liberating fun , the tips he gives will only serve to help

You pay attention to photo verifications? That surprises me.

Well I guess the one holding the fab swingers and your name is a good way to out the fakes ?"

They can be faked easily enough.

I won't get photo verified for a number of reasons and I wouldn't expect, or even advise, anyone else to.

I don't think it means much anyway.

The only veris that I pay attention to are met in person ones and, even then, not to a great extent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It mostly depends if your area is fab active. I could have got loads of verifications if I was prepared to travel to wales or Manchester, London aint just very active LOL.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So having a pic of a woman sucking your cock as your profile pic helps...i need a volunteer

haha

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By *arlock69Man over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

Just another look at me post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think fems and cpls should do the same. "

I don't want 100s of verifications and I don't want to go to parties to have my photos taken. I avoid men who do if I can. I don't particularly want to be one of the masses who could be anything with a vagina.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also think K = block in most peoples eyes and doesn't = Respectful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its not good to show other women in the pics, shows lack of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Dom - great post and advice. Im new (ish) and this has helped. A lot of it I can tick already so that's made me a bit more positive.

respect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It mostly depends if your area is fab active. I could have got loads of verifications if I was prepared to travel to wales or Manchester, London aint just very active LOL.

It is if you are willing to pay to go to clubs,parties and gang bangs. If you knew a few women and hosted parties you'd be knee deep in veris. You could supply Haribos and Fanta

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?

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By *lfieWoman over a year ago

South Dublin

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?"

No way. Very off putting. I wouldn't meet somebody like that.

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By *eorgy26Man over a year ago

Sutton

Jesus Christ I feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It mostly depends if your area is fab active. I could have got loads of verifications if I was prepared to travel to wales or Manchester, London aint just very active LOL.

It is if you are willing to pay to go to clubs,parties and gang bangs. If you knew a few women and hosted parties you'd be knee deep in veris. You could supply Haribos and Fanta

"
Yes its just to expensive nowadays to go to them. I have in the past tho and yeah I would bring some haribos and Fanta, mostly prefer 1-1 you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

TiG goes to get an egg from fridge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

127 in less than 2 years.

Lets say 5 a month.

Thanks for the advice OP, but I'm happier being able to at least remember the names of the ladies I've met.

Have fun with your ongoing adventures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?

No way. Very off putting. I wouldn't meet somebody like that. "

Never in a million years. If I think he may get on well with a friend of mine I may introduce them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Just read their profiles, send the face pic and be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sing along if you know the words

Maria Carey "hero"

And a hero comes along, with the strength to carry on..........

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"Just another look at me post"

Is there another kind?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read their profiles, send the face pic and be honest "

Unless you are a horrible person (in which case, lie through your teeth) or fugly (in which case make sure your pics show mainly other people)

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm not arrogant but:

1 I really love my profile, enough to big it up in public.

2 I CAN EVEN DO IT IN CAPITAL

LETTERS.

Then if you haven't stopped reading quite yet, there's more:

A. The world is automatically a better place if I write some irrelevant one liner on the web.

B. No point writing statuses unless you've got loads of 'friends' to read them.

C. Everyone has a right to know what I've been up to, in graphic detail – especially the bits where I talk about how good I am.

D. Accept defeat with grace. It really *is* a competition.

E. Talking about myself is never enough – other people need to talk about me too.

F. S_lfies, s_lfies and more s_lfies. Did I mention I'm not arrogant?

G. Write in full sentences, but don't try too hard. It's not like you need to end those sentences with full stops or anything.

H. More is definitely more

I. MORE NEEDLESS CAPS!!!!

J. I've got loads of friends dontcha know – pay to attend their parties and get verified. Soon, you too could be getting 1 verification a week for 2 years.

K. I need to switch to decaff – genuinely can't stop typing. Help!

L. Never use text speak, or start sentences with a capital letter. I still haven't got the hang of these full stops. Are they important? Literary – there's a good word. I'll use it. Makes me look smart.

M. Time wasting will get you flamed. But wasting time writing pointless, self-aggrandising advice columns on the forum is definitely A-OK!

Phew, think I'm done. Comments and suggestions welcome.

Bored??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And then there are those of us who don't want to rattle through the site...

Definitely off putting to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not rocket science ,

I know one guy with a few lines and over 400 verifications

Couples and women remember the guys at parties socials etc etc

Nothing more nothing less, without parties clubs or socials a guy is just another hi fancy a fuck ,

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Good grief! Some of you are being unnecessarily rude to OP here.

He didn't have to write all this out. Some if it could prove helpful to the many rubbish single fella profiles.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

This though. No, why would I do that?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you... you meet real players who are thoroughly decent ppl!

Did the op mention to NEVER use text speak?

I'd add something to the list - it's coupled with having a detailed profile. Update it - as experience will teach you new things about what's needed, as well as about yourself. Returning viewers will consciously/unconsciously spot profile text they've read before: let them see something different, as it could be the thing that encourages them to read it all this time, as well as message you.

Finally - don't pretend to be bi, just to get into the female of your dreams. If you're unsure about sex with guys, play with some: tip, there are lots around who will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah the orchestra of wolves

Thought I could hear howling.

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By *huramMan over a year ago

London

My tip for the single men of fabswingers.

Be prepared to drink alot of coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On defence of the OP thete are sone very valid points in amongst the crap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On defence of the OP thete are sone very valid points in amongst the crap."

What if the single men he's aiming it at don't know which are valid and which are crap though? Using others' experiences may help if you're like the person regaling their experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After reading other threads on here I'll add my own gem of advice. Find a male friend to offer bi mmf meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely most of that is common sense to decent genuine people?!

Unsure why you'd ask the other person to advertise your meet though??

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By *ustusboth2013Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

The cut down version:

As a once single male on Fab, I wrote a profile of who I was, what I was looking for and a bit about what people could expect of me to decide whether I was what they were looking for.

I made it a little distinct to stand out different from the average profile, based it on experiences and what I would like to experience, whilst keeping true to myself.

I acted with integrity, graciously and courteously.

That was pretty much the formula.

Fab is dynamic and we are all wanting and looking for certain things. There isn't any exact magic. If you are A & B and looking for C, then it may happen. however do not expect Z, if they are looking for X & Y.

Surely it's that simple?

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've been here 4 years ...

I've always thought if you can't create an interesting profile, communicate effectively, show your personality in the digital form all by yourself without asking for help No amount of generic hints tips or advice from strangers will help .

It's not too difficult.... Those that get it , get it. Those that don't ... don't..

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By *ustusboth2013Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Whilst some things made sense. My one initial opinion of E was an eyebrow raised and made absolutely no sense. I'm pleased many shares the same thought.

Very interested though as to understand why you think this is an important tip.

I think also the unfortunate comment of not giving "away all the tricks" was one you may regret.

It suggests something rather cynical and you approach to swinging will get questioned, as people do generally like to meet people who they feel are genuine and sincere. They do not like to feel tricked.

I'm not suggesting you are doing anything but, but that statement would damage your credibility I hate to say.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?"

Not a chance. I don't do it afterwards either.

*shudders*

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"It mostly depends if your area is fab active. I could have got loads of verifications if I was prepared to travel to wales or Manchester, London aint just very active LOL.

Tell me about it!

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By *ethepeopleMan over a year ago

Near you

Got down to #2 then well ..... Is this a look at me thing

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Forgive them Lord, for they know not what they do"

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Just to clarify....the OP didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued and it is against forum rules to do. It is also against forum rules to be bitchy or nasty to other people or their posts.

If you have quoted any posts removed they will have been removed too

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Thank you OP I will bear all that in mind.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Well I can confidently name someone you won't meet!!

I adore the forums - but I loathe the 'I'm just a bit better/sexier/slimmer/bigger boobed/bigger cocked/more intelligent/fab my pics etc etc' threads!!

Nothing would put me off a man, woman or couple more than if they posted an 'aren't I just a bit better than the rest of you!'

Right - rant over!

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"
. Surely you should not be asking other members to advertise meets with you on their profile as per point E . Is that not a bit insulting and also shows a complete lack of discretion ?

What relevance do verifications have ?. Surely anyone with common sense can make a judgement based on the content of the profile. ? Verifications are boring and always appear to state the same thing . Most could just be copied and pasted . Why would anyone want 127 and what do they mean..Seem pointless .

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I think I like to know the individual. If we get a message, I will look at the profile. I personally look at verifications and a certain number work for me, as well as what they say says about what the person is like and into. Responding to a message will mean hopefully some conversation or some banter ... which is all good. I dont ever like to think anyone is a notch on a bedpost. Gosh, I hope none of my comments are construed at bitch, as they are not meant to be like that ... appreciate the warning, though, as we don't always get these on threads.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

127 in less than 2 years; I'd have to be some unemployed bum or do 10 minute 'quickies'; neither would appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If talking to a couple talk to the couple not just the female

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

here is my how to guide..... the cliff notes version....

Time, Patience, Basic Common Sense.....

Don't be an arse!!!

the rest you can work out for yourselves....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my god...is this for real or a bit of a wind up...???

Ive used this site on and off for two years and veris mean absolutey SHIT ALL to me..but thanks for the tips dont know how me and all my other fellow dufus have managed so far..

Any more secrets of your success you feel we mortals need to know...

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By *ung Dom OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

To be fair, anyone reading this post may have missed the most obvious point.

MARKETING

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By *ustusboth2013Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

"To be fair, anyone reading this post may have missed the most obvious point.

MARKETING"

And there's no such thing as good press or bad press.

Looks like you've made yourself known in this thread. #Clever

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"So having a pic of a woman sucking your cock as your profile pic helps...i need a volunteer

haha"

Puts me right off, if I look at a single guy's profile I don't want to see women. I am not interested in women at all.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"To be fair, anyone reading this post may have missed the most obvious point.

MARKETING"

that's working on the premise that all publicity is good publicity....

I don't think that is always the case.....

fine line between confidence and arrogance going on here....

confidence is only have to tell someone once.... arrogance is having to come back this again and again...

so.... how many times so far?

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Why is 127 verifications in two years considered to be an achievement ?. Many people would prefer quality over quantity.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Are you able to list the most interesting points from your profile and what makes yours stand out ..What are you ten key selling points?

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By *ung Dom OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

Some of those I have met are the fittest ladies on fabs!

50% reading this guide have blocked me. 50% have not.

That's 40 more Fabbers who have read it and maybe checked out my profile!

MARKETING guys.

That and being confident enough to deal with any criticism head on!

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By *ust ask81Man over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thought this was a site for adults......

Seems like a primary school playground in here

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Some of those I have met are the fittest ladies on fabs!

50% reading this guide have blocked me. 50% have not.

That's 40 more Fabbers who have read it and maybe checked out my profile!

MARKETING guys.

That and being confident enough to deal with any criticism head on!"

Here is another [shovel]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?"

I'd block him.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Some of those I have met are the fittest ladies on fabs!

50% reading this guide have blocked me. 50% have not.

That's 40 more Fabbers who have read it and maybe checked out my profile!

MARKETING guys.

That and being confident enough to deal with any criticism head on!"

Gawd, I hope half of the people who look at my profile don't block me ... but then, I don't have the time and the inclination to check ... I have not blocked you, op, but no meet on the horizon. I often check out profile posters profiles but rarely block unless I think they are going to abusive pm me, or just not the sort of person I want to meet up with or even talk to .... I am not sure if what you are getting is marketing. Indeed, marketing is about knowing what the customer wants. You seem to know what your sort of customer wants, but I think you are mixing up marketing and advertising .... anyway ... its interesting to see the discussion unfurling ... and hope I am not saying anything that causes offense anywhere, because none intended, the playground is a cruel place.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

I asking now purely out of interest but to all the single women on here if you arranged a meet with a guy and he asked you to advertise that meet on your profile would you?

I'd block him."

I still don't understand E. Haven't received an explanation but maybe someone can tell us if they have promoted the meet. #Stating you are looking forward to tonight's/tomorrow's meet is omitted

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By *ubicinchMan over a year ago

Gwynedd

"It mostly depends if your area is fab active. I could have got loads of verifications if I was prepared to travel to wales

"
hate to disappoint you, but....

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By *ubicinchMan over a year ago

Gwynedd

the opening line says it all really: I'm not arrogant, but..

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By *insbury Park FabberMan over a year ago

London

"I'm not arrogant, but 127 verifications in under 2 years is an achievement!

2 MARKETING! No point in having a decent profile if others don't read it! No one is interested in single guy profiles. So here are examples of how to get noticed!

A always have a current status.

B have an extensive friends list (your status will then pop up every time they log on.)

C write detailed quality verifications that others would be proud of (that way they display them, ppl read them and remember your name).

D always be polite and treat ppl with respect, not every will be attracted to you. So accept defeat with grace.

E when you plan a meet ask the other person to advertise it on their profile (everyone reads the single female profiles, so if you can't beat the system, use it)

F practise taking pics and be ruthless with yourself! Bin the rubbish ones

G write in proper English and full sentences - it really makes a difference

H accept that you won't get a shag off one message, I'm not lucky. I work hard

I WHY BOTHER?

If you have worked hard and ppl have seen or heard of you. Then when you send a "hello" your chances of a positive response are much improved

K be persistent (I mean really persistent, look at me! I got to K lol)

L never use text speak (lol) it pisses off the literary crowd

M if you get a meet turn up! Time wasting is unforgivable and will get you flamed!

Comments.....

I haven't given away all the tricks here, just given an overview!

Comments and suggestions are always taken on board!"

Interesting post...but your profile doesn't have 127 verifications, it has 17 - were you checking to see if anybody would notice that? Did nobody else notice that - nobody's commented on it? Or am I missing something here?

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