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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...
-Courtney"
Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...
-Courtney
Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews..."
 For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about asking to see you rather than waiting to be be asked if they can see you? Messaging too much, telling someone you like them, freaking out if you don't message back for ages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman who believes in her own publicity and allows herself to get carried away simply by the amount of attention she gets on this site  "
Which has been the downfall of many in the end I would imagine....  |
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By *rab74Man
over a year ago
Huntingdon |
Smoking. Compromised on that once, not again.
Being over-judgemental, especially if they haven't got anything much to shout about. Double and treble if they manage racism, sexism or homophobia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...
-Courtney
Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews...
For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly. "
Couldn't agree more  |
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"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile."
I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Princess attitude, sexually lazy, lack of confidence. "
In addition to the obvious suggestions, yes, this!!! Women who just 'lie there' are so frustrating... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile.
I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly!"
Many are very prickly. It can be a nightmare chatting to cpls and the few single females on the site. Friendly and open to fun is the way to go x |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...
-Courtney
Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews...
For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly. "
We have to agree, Courtney.
We also find that smoking is the largest turnoff at a meet. The other stuff we can gauge before the meet in normal contact. If someone comes across as pushy, we stop contact. Arrogance can be spotted a mile off, almost at initial contact, so not a problem. |
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"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile.
I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly!
Many are very prickly. It can be a nightmare chatting to cpls and the few single females on the site. Friendly and open to fun is the way to go x"
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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago
Near Tunbridge Wells |
Oh dear this is starting to feel like a misogyny thread, surely most of these complaints are just as valid for men. Let's celebrate the turn ons and focus on the positive. We're all gorgeous and lovely to someone. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear this is starting to feel like a misogyny thread, surely most of these complaints are just as valid for men. Let's celebrate the turn ons and focus on the positive. We're all gorgeous and lovely to someone. X"
I agree. Certainly my complaint is equally aimed at men, and i always try to provide what I would like to receive lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm put off by:-
Women who assume all men want her...
Arrogance (As said by many - see above)
Aggression (Too far for me, men are aggressive not women)
Women who assume too much..Like ONLY a man like this or that is good enough for me. So they also reject out of hand guys (Or girls) who would make them very happy if they just took the blinkers off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chipped nail varnish
I thought it was only me. Thank God. It literally makes me want to vomit.  "
I wouldn't go that far! Ha but it doesn't look good for a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chipped nail varnish
I thought it was only me. Thank God. It literally makes me want to vomit. I wouldn't go that far! Ha but it doesn't look good for a meet "
I had a horrible aunt and she always used to have Chipped red nail varnish. I think that's what's done it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judgemental people somepeople have medical problems , if someone is attractive and a turn on yet they no have perfect smile dont kiss them lol , but seriously if it a one sided meet and awkward atmosphere then that big no , just be your self if it aint enough move on |
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