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Having a rant cos I'm old..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was 45 about 3 weeks ago and the messages plummeted by 50%  "
And I have found the older I get the more mail I get, these young guys do love a good MILF  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I feel your pain. My next birthday will be my fortieth and I too shall be hitting that 'too old' cut-off point. Oh well, it shall be their loss because despite my encroaching years I am fucking fantastic (that was tongue in cheek before anyone points out that it's no-one's loss but mine). |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
nottingham |
Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain. My next birthday will be my fortieth and I too shall be hitting that 'too old' cut-off point. Oh well, it shall be their loss because despite my encroaching years I am fucking fantastic (that was tongue in cheek before anyone points out that it's no-one's loss but mine)."
I don't think you'll ever have a cut off point Ligeia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined I was 19 and the general consensus was I was a bit too young for most.
Now being 24, it's no different, I doubt possess lightning wit or six pack abs.
And the manhood is average.
Youth isn't everything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you are a new book in the library you get read lots and lots and you look in the jacket cover and it's got loads of those rubber stampy things. (showing my age here, do they still do that) Gradually you start to gather dust and the dates between get longer and longer.
One day someone fancies a classic though and you get another day out in the sun LOL. This is life in the library of sex  |
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I'm 50 I have my low age range set at 25 and in the last few months the majority of my messages are from guys under 35 in fact most are from guys aged between 25-30.
Still quite happy to shag an oldie as long as they are 49 and under |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you are a new book in the library you get read lots and lots and you look in the jacket cover and it's got loads of those rubber stampy things. (showing my age here, do they still do that) Gradually you start to gather dust and the dates between get longer and longer.
One day someone fancies a classic though and you get another day out in the sun LOL. This is life in the library of sex "
what a lovely way to put it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel your pain. My next birthday will be my fortieth and I too shall be hitting that 'too old' cut-off point. Oh well, it shall be their loss because despite my encroaching years I am fucking fantastic (that was tongue in cheek before anyone points out that it's no-one's loss but mine)."
dont be silly loads of young guys on here after older women, I'm 40 and I get hundreds of messages |
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. "
I feel your pain, I turned 46 not long ago and all I see now is the top end of the age range being 45….. I think no matter what age we hit, the ranges become more obvious. Saying that, it hasn't stopped me getting success on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better looking guys are messaging me since i became 42, not sure why but i'm not complaining. only on this site though, not on any others, the quality went down elsewhere so i will rant about that. |
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"I feel your pain. My next birthday will be my fortieth and I too shall be hitting that 'too old' cut-off point. Oh well, it shall be their loss because despite my encroaching years I am fucking fantastic (that was tongue in cheek before anyone points out that it's no-one's loss but mine)."
I'm very close to 40 too - I find I'm more attracted to men of a similar age or older - they have lived a little & are far more entertaining  |
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. "
I prefer an older man. My cut off is 45 and the lower end is 30 (my own age) but all too often I find that the men in the lower end are just lacking a certain something...maybe a certain something which is gained with age and experience. |
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"Just Change you profile age to what you feel better suits you.
Most people online do it"
Yeah...except once you're on fab the only way to do it is to set up a new profile. Fine for unverified newbies... |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP in all seriousness don't beat yourself up about things you can't change and don't focus on people who's preferences exclude you"
I'm not beating myself up. I'm very happy with who I am and where I'm at. Just a light hearted post About getting older. Like the time you first say to yourself " they're too young to be a copper!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. "
Are you only looking for "young hotties"?
Not nice when older not-so-hot women can't message guys for fear of being laughed at.
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
Are you only looking for "young
hotties"?
Not nice when older not-so-hot women
can't message guys for fear of being
laughed at.
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I'm grateful and somewhat surprised at any messages I get. This summer has been very quiet in that respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is always nice to get message that haven't been somewhat solicited by a wink or chat room conversation.
Everyone likes to be noticed, whatever your age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. "
41s not old!!  |
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Women tend not to have a cut off point on here, there are tons of young men looking for us.
Older guys may struggle but if you're really an ok guy you can meet people at socials, clubs or just in chat. Age is less of a barrier if you know someone. |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
nottingham |
"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
Are you only looking for "young hotties"?
Not nice when older not-so-hot women can't message guys for fear of being laughed at.
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Absolutely not, although a bad choice of wording for a gentleman of my age. A fifty something lady came into our office yesterday and everyone's jaws dropped. Even our 17 year old apprentice girl said "Wow she's beautiful "
As the late (young and beautiful) Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number". Just don't like being told my numbers wrong by a bad font type, sorry Fab, but I understand why the age range is there.
And you can't even begin to tell me you suffer from a lack of attention on here Scarlett, surely?
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
I prefer an older man. My cut off is 45 and the lower end is 30 (my own age) but all too often I find that the men in the lower end are just lacking a certain something...maybe a certain something which is gained with age and experience. "
I've found quite a few to be pretty flexible with their 'cut off'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
I prefer an older man. My cut off is 45 and the lower end is 30 (my own age) but all too often I find that the men in the lower end are just lacking a certain something...maybe a certain something which is gained with age and experience.
I've found quite a few to be pretty flexible with their 'cut off'..."
This you'll find a fair few people that chop and change when it suits. People will naturally move their age ranges up anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel your pain. My next birthday will be my fortieth and I too shall be hitting that 'too old' cut-off point. Oh well, it shall be their loss because despite my encroaching years I am fucking fantastic (that was tongue in cheek before anyone points out that it's no-one's loss but mine).
dont be silly loads of young guys on here after older women, I'm 40 and I get hundreds of messages "
snap....and I turned 50 in May |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I was stood up tonight by a 26 year old. All I can assume is that he didn't want to be seen with someone old enough to be his mum, but I reckon, after losing weight, I look better now than I ever did 10, even 15 years ago. I'm certainly fitter.
However everyone has preferences, and one of the easiest filters to choose suitable partners on here is age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
Are you only looking for "young hotties"?
Not nice when older not-so-hot women can't message guys for fear of being laughed at.
Absolutely not, although a bad choice of wording for a gentleman of my age. A fifty something lady came into our office yesterday and everyone's jaws dropped. Even our 17 year old apprentice girl said "Wow she's beautiful "
As the late (young and beautiful) Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number". Just don't like being told my numbers wrong by a bad font type, sorry Fab, but I understand why the age range is there.
And you can't even begin to tell me you suffer from a lack of attention on here Scarlett, surely?
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Sorry if I came across as rude, that wasn't my intention. I was just trying to point out that you have preferences (young hotties) and other people have their preferences (for example people under 40). Just one of those things.
I don't get much attention, no. But I prefer it that way. |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience.
Are you only looking for "young hotties"?
Not nice when older not-so-hot women can't message guys for fear of being laughed at.
Absolutely not, although a bad choice of wording for a gentleman of my age. A fifty something lady came into our office yesterday and everyone's jaws dropped. Even our 17 year old apprentice girl said "Wow she's beautiful "
As the late (young and beautiful) Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number". Just don't like being told my numbers wrong by a bad font type, sorry Fab, but I understand why the age range is there.
And you can't even begin to tell me you suffer from a lack of attention on here Scarlett, surely?
Sorry if I came across as rude, that wasn't my intention. I was just trying to point out that you have preferences (young hotties) and other people have their preferences (for example people under 40). Just one of those things.
I don't get much attention, no. But I prefer it that way. "
You weren't rude at all Scarlet, perfectly polite in fact. My preferences are not so much for pretty young things, far more for interesting and engaging people. I don't go on the forum much, never mind post but I have been very pleasantly surprised by how nice people have been tonight.
Shouldn't be so cynical. Though I'm sure the Sharks are lurking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm now the oldest in my team at work (including my boss).
The younger people in the office don't invite me to have lunch with them or go out for drinks.
RIP youth. |
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By *ark074 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. hot 41 year old  "
Many thanks young Miss Watson.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try again.
I turned 41 two months ago. Now I'm out of so many hot people's range. I look better than I did when I was 40 as I've lost a little weight. But 40 seems a real cut of point. Not nice when that "you can't message these young hotties, you old git" thing comes up. With age comes experience. hot 41 year old "
Agreed |
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"I was stood up tonight by a 26 year old. All I can assume is that he didn't want to be seen with someone old enough to be his mum, but I reckon, after losing weight, I look better now than I ever did 10, even 15 years ago. I'm certainly fitter.
However everyone has preferences, and one of the easiest filters to choose suitable partners on here is age."
It was more likely him losing his bottle than anything to do with you. |
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