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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Why do you ask, has somebody implied you are?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway, one persons ugly is another's beautiful.
But to me there's nowt wrong with either of you   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've read your profile and you say you can't get meets.
I'm guessing it's not looks (as previously stated, look ok to me) so maybe you're not selling yourself to others as well as you could?
Your profile text starts negatively which doesn't help, and have you tried going to clubs etc? That's probably a better way to meet.
You say you get no offers, but do you do the asking or do you sit back and wait for others to contact you?
Obviously I don't know the answers to any of these questions but may be partly why you're not getting success.
Good luck, keep at it, get to a club and be sociable and I'm sure you'll be very popular!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"simple question really"
Bloody hell guys .....
Your pics show there are plenty that clearly don't think so
It's a very subjective thing and hopefully this thread won't be too harsh .
Personally we wouldn't dream of asking such a question on here , for fear that our fragile egos may take a battering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we do travel but we only have motorbikes, this aint so bad in the summer but it's not so good when it's pissing down"
That's good and yeah its been raining a lot this week and being on a bike can get abit wet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gentleman has lovely eyes.
Lady is beautiful. Particularly in the sofa, dark hair photo.
Don't ask the cretins on here, though! Have you seen some of the threads?
They're brutal!
Ugly is something that has nothing to do with looks.
Xxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes attitude is everything. Your status and the opening of your profile is very negative, and personally I look for fun people for meets. The vibe of a profile, or even a conversation via messaging, can make the difference, even when people do find you attractive.
Have a more positive attitude, and it will do wonders.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes attitude is everything. Your status and the opening of your profile is very negative, and personally I look for fun people for meets. The vibe of a profile, or even a conversation via messaging, can make the difference, even when people do find you attractive.
Have a more positive attitude, and it will do wonders.
-Courtney"
the status is from today, the opening of our profile is a week old, it seems it makes no difference what we put in our profile as the last 4 years proves it, i think we are just cursed. we are actually quite fun to be with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to agree with some comments
Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!
It improves a face pic 100%.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"simple question really"
I would suggest less revealing pics an lose the action pics, just my opinion. I think people's desire are awakened more by not seeing a preview, more like getting a lucky bag. Good luck x |
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*gallops in on his trusty white steed*
Good Couple (he called), betwixt me, thee and yonder stout oaken tree, I have it within mine gift to say 'Nay, the swipe of the ugly stick has behoved upon others, but not you'
*bows elegantly (if a trifle dramatically)*
And clippity-clips off...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd have to agree with some comments
Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!
It improves a face pic 100%.
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can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"*gallops in on his trusty white steed*
Good Couple (he called), betwixt me, thee and yonder stout oaken tree, I have it within mine gift to say 'Nay, the swipe of the ugly stick has behoved upon others, but not you'
*bows elegantly (if a trifle dramatically)*
And clippity-clips off......"
lmfao, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd have to agree with some comments
Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!
It improves a face pic 100%.
can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive "
Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,
If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd have to agree with some comments
Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!
It improves a face pic 100%.
can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive
Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,
If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button."
i dont fully agree with that as i read all the profile no matter how it starts, but point taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd have to agree with some comments
Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!
It improves a face pic 100%.
can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive
Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,
If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button.
i dont fully agree with that as i read all the profile no matter how it starts, but point taken"
But you yourselves have said nobody seems to want to meet you so surely it must be down to your profile? The first part is very off-putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But you yourselves have said nobody seems to want to meet you so surely it must be down to your profile? The first part is very off-putting. "
Agree
I didn't even read past the first paragraph |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted"
do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted
do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet? "
if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted
do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet?
if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters"
I find it odd that a couple on here would struggle to meet
i dont think it's easy for anybody to be honest but I though any couple would do ok
not very helpful I know I'm just sharing my thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted"
I just want to note that while I said the first bit in your profile was negative, I also suggested that it can be more than just your profile that sounds negative. This sarcasm, for example....
Another example is how you write in the forums sometimes when you constantly mention that you never have meets. I even thought you were a troll when I first saw your posts.
I'm not trying to be mean, I really am trying to be helpful. Be more positive. Smile in your pics. Have happy status updates. That is my suggestion.
Good Luck!
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted
do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet?
if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters
I find it odd that a couple on here would struggle to meet
i dont think it's easy for anybody to be honest but I though any couple would do ok
not very helpful I know I'm just sharing my thoughts "
seriously we get like 3 mails a month if we are lucky |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've often said it's tough for all demographics on here to get meets...often for very different reasons.
From my perspective as a couple that wants to meet couples you have twice as many folk to please as a single.
Have you tried clubs and or socials.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've often said it's tough for all demographics on here to get meets...often for very different reasons.
From my perspective as a couple that wants to meet couples you have twice as many folk to please as a single.
Have you tried clubs and or socials. "
we used to go to clubs several years ago, not too keen on them tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted
I just want to note that while I said the first bit in your profile was negative, I also suggested that it can be more than just your profile that sounds negative. This sarcasm, for example....
Another example is how you write in the forums sometimes when you constantly mention that you never have meets. I even thought you were a troll when I first saw your posts.
I'm not trying to be mean, I really am trying to be helpful. Be more positive. Smile in your pics. Have happy status updates. That is my suggestion.
Good Luck!
-Courtney"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always use to think it was the single males who had it hard getting a meet. But it must be a nightmare for couples trying to find 4 people who are all attracted to each other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always use to think it was the single males who had it hard getting a meet. But it must be a nightmare for couples trying to find 4 people who are all attracted to each other x"
It's not easy that's for sure!
And OP, no you are not ugly, neither of you are! |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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How good looking (or how ugly) is largely based on society's perception of what is attractive (which can change a bit from culture to culture and from era to era). There will always be a sliding scale of very attractive (think Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie) down to downright unattractive....I would say you guys are probably somewhere in the middle of such a scale... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, you need patience
is 4 years patient enough?
Single males have to wait at least 4 years to receive an answer to one of the many messages they send "
lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"simple question really"
We would meet you. But way too far for us. we could meet a single guy every day of the week if we wanted. We find it harder to meet couples. But we message and chat to loads. hope you get more response after posting this. X |
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I think your pics are ok, some nice ones in there (always love sock sucking pics personally).
Profile is reasonably informative, I dont see it as too negative. Just stating what you are and what you want (my profile is way more negative and has to be given some of the messages I get).
You are limiting yourselves a little bit in specifying MF, FF & F as single F is relatively rare, FF even more so, so just the MF couples I guess. Then after you have been on here a while it will generally only be the new registrations that will search and find you. Again im not saying you are wrong looking for only certain things as thats what you are after. Im just saying that if you were to ask for single guys you would possibly be inundated with messages.
Looking at your profile and if you had listed TV/TS and also were 200 miles closer.....and I looooove bikes too
Good luck with finding fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of people on here are probably a bit straight laced so the mention of heavily tattooed and motorcycles,,probably scares them,,but really you probably wouldn't want to meet someone that judgemental anyway, |
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