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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
a straightjacket |
When I first joined many moons ago, I expected to have lots of meets, so was disappointed when I didn't..... now I've weathered the storm after being on here many years, I now expect nothing and enjoy it soooo much more ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
I started on here in order to enjoy being single (which i didn't) now i expect some of tge singlemen to act weirdly. Also i innitialy expected i would have no chance on asite like this.
Now instead of just. Using the site as a self confidence booster now it enables me to meet and to talk to. People. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined this place, I thought it was mostly an international site mostly full of americans but it supprised me to see the userbase mostly brittish.
As for the scene itself, can't really comment on couples as I don't play with them, so all I would say is a huge influx of men on here oviously looking for a easy shag as the effort becomes "slightly easier". Single ladies on here mostly either looking for other girls to help bring out their BI side or looking for single men with special qualities (BBC, VUE, Tall, Rugged etc).
But mostly timewasters who don't know what they really looking for on here as most of them only want a social and no fun time or a new "lover". |
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I had spent years visiting clubs before the internet took off as the medium it now is. So I already knew not to have expectations and to have patience.
Opportunities present themselves rather like buses, none for ages, then three one after the other.
Always keep in mind people are inviting you to share something highly personal, appreciate that and show them respect. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I had spent years visiting clubs before the internet took off as the medium it now is. So I already knew not to have expectations and to have patience.
Opportunities present themselves rather like buses, none for ages, then three one after the other.
Always keep in mind people are inviting you to share something highly personal, appreciate that and show them respect. "
How did you get into swinging back in the day before the web. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't have any expectations. I had really no idea about swinging or anything. Very naive in that respect. "
I believe your shagging technique is improving.... a little.... ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Main thing that has changed for me is that i now realise just how many guys cheat on their partner. I expect (but also hope) that the guys i meet are single and i'm not a part of their cheating.
I think i'm expecting really good sex still and have sometimes met guys i wouldn't find attractive irl just because it was convenient and i actually had some of the best sex with those guys somehow, so that was a nice surprise.
I didn't know swinging was 3sums and that, i always thought it was just couples swapping with other couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When joining fab how did your mindset change about the swinging scean to what it i . Now expectations "
I had no idea what swinging was really. A single guy told me about the site so that didn't really bode well....
I've learned loads. It's been one heck of a ride. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I didn't have any expectations. I had really no idea about swinging or anything. Very naive in that respect. "
Exactly this. I was canny enough to set filters right at the start though; otherwise I think I would have been scared off. |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"When joining fab how did your mindset change about the swinging scean to what it i . Now expectations
I had no idea what swinging was really. A single guy told me about the site so that didn't really bode well....
I've learned loads. It's been one heck of a ride. "
My ex told me about the site so I don't know if that boded well or not lol |
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