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over a year ago
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"I have never finished with a bj and god some have tried one lass tried for over an hour is this nornal x"
Not overly common from what I gather, but I'm in the same boat... Never failed to to complete when I'm doing it, but never experienced it myself  |
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"I have never finished with a bj and god some have tried one lass tried for over an hour is this nornal x"
very normal. Enjoy the sensation (if its your thing) and don't stress, there's more than one way of achieving your goal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will be in your hhead that you cant. However if a guy says that to me, I don't take it as a challenge but just a okay... And not for me ... As I'd get bored trying and as its something I love to do. It would mean that we weren't compatible.
However I am the same pretty much with oral from meets ( women especially) not a prayer of making me orgasm.. however I know I can as Mr can do it and quite quickly too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be the same, then one day it just happend, its a different sensation to a pussy or an arsehole or a hand for that matter, i can only ever cum from a blow job if im being tossed off at the same time, dont know why, just one of them things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needs a women who knows what she's doing and have the right settings "
Had women who know what they are doing, think it's just me and still quite new to the scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't believe any woman would try for an hour ! 
There is something for everyone in the lifestyle and guys who can't cum from a bj wouldn't be our thing at all . If it goes on for more that ten minutes it's jaw ache and boredom . He ought really to wank and help out if it's obvious the lady wants his cum .
And a bj is of course just part of the fun .
It's also true tto suggest that if you have it fixedIin your head you can't , you probably won't .
To be honest I have witnessed Sabrina get hundreds of guys off with blow jobs , and lots have been whilst dogging , so maybe these guys don't have any mental barriers preventing them from cumming . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needs a women who knows what she's doing and have the right settings "
Nope. Some men just have more feeling at the bottom than at the top. My wife has tried for ages with me and nope. She's had other men cumming in a few minutes.
Still feels great, just not enough to cum. Some men are like that, that's all there is to it. |
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I wouldn't want a woman to try for ages because even though I don't cum it's still an amazing feeling & can cum other ways lol
Also if a woman goes down on me then I will be more than happy to return the favour considering I love licking a nice wet pussy, even better than ice cream!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women won't understand what your saying Op but I've been there.
Only just started to cum through blowjobs at the grand age of 40 and I've been sexually active since my early teens.
I started by mutual masterbation ending with a bj when your not far off.
It's because you don't sync the two sensations.. Sometimes they can be too ticklish others little sensation at all. Neither which lead to cumming just frustration.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's probably because now you have the goal in your mind, once you focus on trying to cum you are no longer in the moment.. Might sound strange but sometimes watching porn at the same time can really help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's probably because now you have the goal in your mind, once you focus on trying to cum you are no longer in the moment.. Might sound strange but sometimes watching porn at the same time can really help. "
This
Also when I play with very attractive people, but frightened at the same time.
Hard to explain, but I think people get what I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have real trouble cumming from oral alone. If its a 69 on the other hand, its no problem at all. For me, a lot of it is my head, rather than anything physical. |
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