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Is it ok to be nervous???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to be in a couple and go to clubs regularly but never been alone.... Keep thinking ok I will go to this even or that event but feel nervous going alone... I'm a straight guy so females and couples are my thing, I'm really open minded and genuine, anyone want to chat inbox me please. Xx |
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Of course it's ok to be nervous. Just don't let it stop you from going. If I was in your position, I would book a room near to a your club of choice to create a commitment to get yourself there. Then I would set myself a challenge of trying to talk to at least ten different ladies or couples whilst you are there.
Don't go with thoughts of getting laid or fulfilling any fantasies, just make it your aim to be a part of the atmosphere for the night. I'm sure your nerves will soon disappear and you'll find no problems in having an enjoyable night.
Good Luck.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Of course it's OK to be nervous. I don't get butterflies, I have a herd of elephants whenever we meet anyone, even those we already know.
I can't see that ever changing, its all part of the excitement and build up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just please don't do what the majority of single males do...stare or follow, but never actually say hello! Just because it's a swingers club doesn't mean that you can't socialise with people without any expectations from either side.
Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be fine hardest part will be walking through the door. If you've been as a couple before you will know how it's works. Just behave as you would expect others to have behaved to you when you went with your partner.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be in a couple and go to clubs regularly but never been alone.... Keep thinking ok I will go to this even or that event but feel nervous going alone... I'm a straight guy so females and couples are my thing, I'm really open minded and genuine, anyone want to chat inbox me please. Xx "
Wish I was single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even attending any event as a couple I find I get really nervous in the lead up. But its a nervous anticipation and that's a good thing surely. I guess its a case where once u are in there its only then that the nerves will lessen.
Take the step and it all gets easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just please don't do what the majority of single males do...stare or follow, but never actually say hello! Just because it's a swingers club doesn't mean that you can't socialise with people without any expectations from either side.
Have fun. "
The majority! Lol it's a tiny minority we think probably 1 in 10 and easily rectified by just saying hello to them! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being nervous is good, I'm always nervous going to the club alone, but a cup of tea and jacuzzi is what I go for usually, and good conversations usually follow, sometimes also hot sweaty fun with nice people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just please don't do what the majority of single males do...stare or follow, but never actually say hello! Just because it's a swingers club doesn't mean that you can't socialise with people without any expectations from either side.
Have fun. "
I have been before as a couple but we split last year.... It's the social side I really miss xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to be in a couple and go to clubs regularly but never been alone.... Keep thinking ok I will go to this even or that event but feel nervous going alone... I'm a straight guy so females and couples are my thing, I'm really open minded and genuine, anyone want to chat inbox me please. Xx
Why?xx
Wish I was single "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be in a couple and go to clubs regularly but never been alone.... Keep thinking ok I will go to this even or that event but feel nervous going alone... I'm a straight guy so females and couples are my thing, I'm really open minded and genuine, anyone want to chat inbox me please. Xx "
After 3 years of going to fet and swinging events as 1 half of a couple I went to a fet event on Sunday as a single male. Granted I knew friends were going but I was till nervous. It;ls diferent going alone but it's neither better nor worse than going as a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course it's OK to be nervous. I don't get butterflies, I have a herd of elephants whenever we meet anyone, even those we already know.
I can't see that ever changing, its all part of the excitement and build up.
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Know that feeling lol
Butterflies followed by elephants before the meet, but then pleasure when I leave |
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