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Does anyone accept random friend requests??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Personally if a friend request is either sent randomly or at the same time as their first message it will be just be ignored and deleted.
Not just single guys doing this either unless they are pretending to be a couple
Put some effort in as full access to the additional pics needs to be earned. Or are we being self righteous?? |
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I block them as well for good measure. If I am feeling really grumpy, I will send them a message asking who they think they are assuming they can send one without even a message ... but most days I am only feeling grumpy, not really grumpy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally if a friend request is either sent randomly or at the same time as their first message it will be just be ignored and deleted.
Not just single guys doing this either unless they are pretending to be a couple
Put some effort in as full access to the additional pics needs to be earned. Or are we being self righteous?? "
Im the same as you guys, I get sent friend requests from men every day who
havent bothered to message.. 
I just delete without even checking their profile |
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no your not ..these people often have no profile or pix or anything to say and live 100s of miles away.inevitably they wont have even read your profile
once youve accepted a friends request you wonder why u bothered.. really wish we could just block them |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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as i have my message filters on, some send me one, i assume, as a substitute for a message.. so i treat them the same as a message..look at profile..etc etc before replying or deleting..
no, i don't just accept people as friends, randomly... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I won't even bother to delete them now.
Doubt they will learn. But pretty clear that sending random friend requests is pretty futile.
It's a massive turn off as it's clear they haven't taken any time to read our profile or respect our simple request.
Zero effort, Zero response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block them as well for good measure. If I am feeling really grumpy, I will send them a message asking who they think they are assuming they can send one without even a message ... but most days I am only feeling grumpy, not really grumpy"
Oh good, glad to know that it's not just me then...
A Friend's Request as a first approach always gets a Block from me - it says so on my Profile - but still they come, and still they go the same way...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a male I don't get so many unsolicited friend requests. Except from guys.
So feel free to send them! Unless your a guy. And only if you have good private pics. Nothing worse than getting a friend request from someone who doesn't even have private pics... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited  "
Exac y lying the same here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited "
Yup I do this 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited "
I occasionally do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We accept all friend requests.
We are not greedy or selfish people so we want to share the immense wealth we are about to receive from the various people who have contacted us via e-mail to help them get money out of their various countries from associates and family members we never knew we had, it's been a really lucky year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. It's just an attempt to see hidden face pics.
Our face pics are hidden and not in the friends pics . 
Double sneaky  !! "
Not at all . . Face pics are sent before a request is accepted  |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
We have been known to accept an off the cuff friend request, but there are rules that we apply, we don't accept from single guys, or MM couples, no Tv or Ts, and people with no pics or no public pics, the ones we do accept are people we are interested in, after checking out their profile if they get our interest, if they don't pass our rules we don't get offended and block, we just ignore and delete, lots of people on here are so highly strung they get mad if they feel someone isn't playing the game their way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do occasionally, yes.
I don't see what the big deal is. Why is it such a terrible insult to send one?
If they look nice, or I'm in a good mood, if we've spoken, or if I hit 'Accept' accidentally.
Done that a few times.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually, they are 100's of miles away, out of our age range and not what we're looking for. Completely pointless. Have been known to send a questionable message back depending on my mood as it's blatantly obvious they've not read the profile then block their Ass. We don't care if you are the best thing since sliced bread, male/female or couple, If we've not been talking and met up, it's not happening. 
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"Either delete or ignore for a while. Then clear out every now & again.
Second time offenders get blocked no matter what they look like etc.
Love the block button "
We are the similar - leave them for ages and then have a mass clear out & block if we recognise a repeat request. |
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Jane here been playing years i like to chat with like minded people none of our friends no about this side of our life so if any one gets in touch and they seem ok will get back for a chat i give most people a chance.
At the end of the day we all have a lot to talk about and tell which you can not with vanilla friends |
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